34 -year -old university teacher 100 years of blind date!The rejection rate of the woman exceeded 95%...

Author:Shanxi Evening News Time:2022.08.04

Today is the "Tanabata Festival",

I wonder how the lover in the workshop spend it?

On August 3, a topic related to love appeared on the hot search:#Men's 10 -year blind date#100 times#, read more than 140 million times.

The man is Xu Mingwei, who is 34 years old and has no house. He is a university teacher and lives in Shapingba District, Chongqing. He said that he was bumpy, and 95%of his blind date was rejected.

Interview with TV stations accidentally "popular"

An interview with a TV station made many people pay attention to Xu Mingwei. Through the camera, he talked about his experience of being single for 10 years and constantly blinding and failure. Xu Mingwei is 1.68 meters tall, with a monthly salary of 5,000 to 6,000 yuan. Single -parent families live near the school from Monday to Friday. They will return to their mother's house on the weekend. So far, they have not been in love and have never been married.

In an interview, he mentioned that "women are more harsh and more realistic."

"After the broadcast, many people scolded me, saying that I was not able to take advantage of it, too straight, and some people said that I must be too demanding to be single." The public opinion storm made Xu Mingwei a little distressed.

A blind date more than 100 times, continuous failure

Xu Mingwei's blind date has begun since graduating from college. So far, the blind date is more than 100 times -originally a blind date arranged by relatives and friends, but because there was no career and accumulation at that time, he ended with failure again and again. After the age of 27, he almost every time he almost everything was almost every time He will participate in a few blind date a month, but he is still unsatisfactory. In recent years, Xu Mingwei is more proactive for life events. He has been to the wedding agency and will go to the park's blind date every week.

Why are you repeatedly failed? Xu Mingwei said that the reasons for being rejected were all over. For example, some people say that they cannot accept that he does not work in the central city, and it becomes a "alien love" after being together; others cannot accept his height or other hardware conditions; more people are bluntly that he cannot accept that he is a single -parent family ...

"The first and second rejection may feel uncomfortable, but after the tenth and 100 times rejected, there is really no feeling." Xu Mingwei said that it was more rejected and he was used to it.

I hope the woman is kind and filial

So, what is Xu Mingwei's ideal object? He said that she values the personality of the other person most, hoping that she is kind, filial, and understanding. In addition, he hopes that the other party is more than 1.55 meters tall, aged 25 to 35 years old. "I really don't care much about other hardware conditions, such as face value and income." Xu Mingwei emphasized.

"I really yearn for marriage." Xu Mingwei said that if his target cannot accept long -distance love, he can even quit his current job and return to the central urban area to find a job again.

"It's useless to be anxious. Seeing fate." Xu Mingwei's mother told reporters on the phone that over the years, she can only try my best to help relatives and friends to introduce the objects, but how to choose and how to get along with, she needs her son to decide himself.

Is it really difficult to take off the order?

After watching Xu Mingwei's experience,

Many netizens try to help him analyze the reason,

Some netizens said that this was "followed!"