I, a female college student in Vietnam, met true love in a Chinese company after graduation, and the most reliable to marry a Chinese guy

This is the story of the 653rd real person we tell

In a certain midnight of the 1990s, a baby girl with a thin cola bottle was born in a poor farmer's house in Vietnam. She was born by her father, probably due to intestinal colic, and her parents tossed their parents for a month with a heartbroken cry. This way, she declared her existence to the world and proves her stubbornness.

This weak and tenacious little life is me -Xiao Fang. Since I was a child, I grew up under my parents' simple and rudely scolding education, while being forced to do a job beyond the age, while studying unwillingly.

Due to her longing for China, I reported to the Chinese Department of Open University in Hanoi when I was in college. Before graduating, he was hired by a company as a customs translation. Soon after doing, I tried to be a tour guide for a high salary, but ended with failure.

Later, I started working, and I entered the work of a company invested by a Chinese, and was reused by leaders. At the peak of my career, a Chinese youth gradually entered my atrium and integrated into my life ...

(My son and I meal)

I am a post -90s born in Vietnam in Vietnam. My parents are ordinary farmers. They have no money, no momentum, and no knowledge. My family at that time was so poor. Even when I was born, my mother was sent to the hospital to give birth at home. In my dad and my aunt's hands, I was weak and came to the world.

After I was one year old, my parents took me to my grandmother to live. Because they were unwilling to do the farmers who faced their faces facing the loess for a lifetime, and their grandmother's business was more convenient, so after some discussion, my dad went to study motorcycles and bicycles. Then our family of three moved to my grandmother's house and opened a shop over there.

In fact, the grandmother's family is also very poor, but it is better than our hometown. The grandfather died very early. Grandma has been working as a cleaner in the vegetable market, and my mother and my aunt are worked hard. After the family of three came, five people crowded in a small house, and their lives were tightly.

At that time, our family was the poorest in the town. Many rich people dismissed us and always bullied us. Therefore, my parents are not in a good mood all day. When I see me in trouble, I will inevitably be upset and irritable.

(I sing Chinese songs for fans in the video)

Due to the poor family, I took off the task that did not meet the age during my childhood: take care of my brother and let the ducks. When those children with rich people play freely and cheerfully, I can only look at it in the distance.

I remember one day when I was six years old, my mother asked me to let the ducks, and I also asked me to take care of my brother. When I came back in the evening, I sipped the duck password in front and led my "small troops" to return.

But when I got home, I had lost my duck, and my brother did not know where to go. My parents were so angry at the time. After finding my brother and duck, I hit me in pain and let me remember.

People often say that childhood is colorful and full of laughter, but for me, childhood is dark and dull, full of scolding. My dad likes to hit my head with his hands, and my mother likes to hit my ass with a stick. In short, in my impression, beating and scolding are commonplace.

I don't know if my parents don't like me because I am not doing well or because I am a girl. Due to childhood psychological suppression, a stubborn personality is formed. And the temper became the cause of my parents and scolding me, which made me hate at home since I was a child.

(I love my son very much and never want to hit him)

Although my dad opened a repair shop, the economic situation in the family was still not good. However, the new difficulties have emerged: the house we live in is getting more and more, not even the most basic windshield and rain and rain.

Every time he rained in the sky, the room was ticking "light rain", so he had to put a basin on the ground with a basin to pick up water. In order to prevent water from water, parents are unable to sleep at a time, and they have to spill the rain in the basin after a while. That day was miserable, so my mother asked my dad to build a house.

My dad shook his head and sighed, because the family had only 15 million (equivalent to more than 4,000 yuan), and it was not enough to build a house. But my mother was determined to build, and she borrowed and asked for others. Cement, brick, and work consumption were semi -paid and semi -accounts, and finally built the house.

Later, due to the vulnerable group of people's debt, my mother went to the bank to loan and returned the owed foreign debt. Since then, our family has embarked on the way to repay the clothes and shrinks. As for clothes and shoes, it is also a year -on -year replenishment.

(The son is cute and naughty)

Because of the distress of my family, I had to help my parents do things every day after school. When I was in junior high school, my dad also asked me to follow him to learn to repair, replenish tires, and replace the brakes. The purpose was to let me do business when I was at home.

Even if I went to high school to study heavy tasks, I still had to do a lot of things at home. I had to get up at 5 o'clock in the morning and scan the floor. If it gets up in the morning, my dad will scold me with dog blood. If I complain pouting, I will inevitably suffer from flesh.

Even if I went to high school, I was already a stunned girl, and my parents would still hit me without considering my self -esteem.

I remember when I was in the third year of high school, once I was stunned by my mother because of my pout. At the school, the teacher was frightened and thought I thought I was fighting with. I learned that my mother was cruel, and the teacher had no choice but to sigh. In those days, I went in and out of the school with a striking green circles, and felt indifferent. I always feel that someone behind me is looking at me with strange eyes, pointing at me and whispering. Under these pressures, I have thought about escape from the way to school.

(I walk on the streets of the city in China)

My parents knew that I had this idea and scolded again. They said, "Hit you twice and make trouble? Do you think this life is like us and suffered a poor life? Do not read your legs without reading! Even if we do n’t eat or drink, you have to go to college! I don't know how to do it! "

After I thought about it, I felt that my parents had always been fierce to me, but the original intention was good.

They strictly control me in all aspects and want to make me better. It is just that they do not understand education and do not understand education. Thinking about it this way, I gradually did not resent them so much, but went all out to study in learning.

In 2012, I was admitted to the open university in Hanoi as I wished, and I read the Chinese Department. The reason why I chose the Chinese Department is because I have long been interested in China.

Although I hadn't been to China at that time, I learned on various online platforms that China was a country with great land and economically developed countries. So I imagined, looking forward to traveling, working, and even getting married in China in the future. The premise of achieving these beautiful desires is: learn Chinese.

(Is the school uniform of our university very ugly?)

I am not as high as a university in China. The campus covers a small area and has no dormitory. I can only rent a house with my classmates outside. At that time, my mother sent me 2 million (equivalent to more than 500 yuan) of living expenses per month. Although not many, it was enough.

Because from the poor family, I have developed a habit of saving. Even if I was studying at a university in the capital, I never compared with the wealthy children, spent money. Occasionally buying clothes is also discounted by the mall.

When I was in the senior year, the school organized us to study in the University of Electronic Science and Technology, China for a period of time, mainly studying the content of China's economy, culture, and historical aspects.

This is the first time I came to China. I saw the high -rise buildings in China and the environment is beautiful. Teachers and classmates were so enthusiastic and cheerful, which greatly deepened my favor to China. Although communicating with the Chinese at that time has not yet reached a degree of cope, I feel very happy to get along.

After returning from Guangxi, our senior students began to find a job. Through a friend introduced, I met the boss of a company. He wants to find a translation proficient in Chinese and Vietnamese because his business needs to deal with the Chinese in the customs.

(Take a group photo with my roommate in college)

At that time, the boss paid me 7 million (equivalent to more than 2,000 yuan), and also included food and accommodation. Although the salary is not too high, I can finally make money, and I am very happy.

Although I am happy to make money, I do n’t do it too well at work. Because my Chinese translation level is limited to the communication of daily life, I encountered some companies for special companies, and I was circling. Later, there were errors in the translation.

In order to avoid the embarrassment of being fired, I took the initiative to leave. But the boss did not approve it, and encouraged me to learn more with my old employees and do it here.

I don't know why the boss is so good to me. Later, I heard my colleagues say that the boss likes to cultivate students who have just been out of the university. Because our thoughts are simply like a piece of white paper, the boss wants to move us with tolerance and sincerity, and we will be loyal to the company in the future.

Although the boss had high hopes to me, he did not keep me in the end. A few months later, someone invited me to a guide assistant to Nha Trang (the most famous scenic spot in Vietnam) to translate Chinese tourists. And the other party's salary is very seductive, and the monthly salary is about 10,000 yuan, so I immediately agreed.

(I dinner with my colleagues with the company)

It's not that I don't know how to cherish the prestige of the former boss, but that I have eaten the suffering of family poverty, and I am too eager to make a lot of money. Besides, everyone comes to work to make money, and wherever salary is high. As the old saying says: people go to high places, and water flows to low places.

However, the wish is beautiful, and the reality is cruel. Later, because the supervisory department had to check the guidance certificate, I had never obtained it at all, so the dream of making a lot of money to make a lot of money was shattered.

After I transferred from Nha Trang back to the north, I job jobs everywhere, and I have not felt satisfied with several companies. At this time, the company I worked for the first time contacted me and introduced a new job to me.

In 2017, he officially went to the company he introduced to the company. The company was opened by the Chinese.

The new work treatment is good, but it is also very hard. Leaders trust me very much, and also attach great importance to me, let me have three positions: not only do purchasing supervisors, but also the chairman of administrative management and union. After one person does the work of three people, the salary is naturally high. Every day, I am like a robot that is not tired of being tired, seamlessly working together. Often at twelve o'clock in the evening, he is still translating the contract and email.

(Take a photo with several male colleagues in the company)

In this company, I have gained a lot, not only made money, accumulated work experience, but also enhanced my insight into people and things. It was not the simple little white of the first time I went out of the university. But the biggest gain is that in this company, he met a man with a vital life in my life. He was a young man from China. He is a technician responsible for installing and commissioning equipment. I need to work with the technical team every day to do Vietnamese translation, so I and I know it like this.

We just started to communicate for work, and there was no other communication. But if you have more contact, you will talk about the topic of family life. Gradually, each other has a good impression.

In my eyes, he is a person who is serious and responsible for work, and is upright and honest. Although he was not particularly able to argue, he was calm in the interior, making me feel that he was a very reliable person.

At that time, none of us did not break the window paper first, but the affection of mutual admiration was unpredictable. As in a poem in China: "There is no colorful phoenix flying wing, and the heart has a little bit of rhinoceros."

(When I was in love with my husband)

After completing his work, he returned to China. After a while, he invited me to play in China on the phone. I just experienced some unhappy things in the company and was applying for resignation. Therefore, in a state of emotional loss, I feel that traveling in a circle is also good, so I promised his invitation.

In the process of playing in China, he accompanied him throughout the process and served me carefully. Wandering with me, I will never be tired. I sought my opinions first, and respect me very much. And it is also super warm and considerate: I have to open the door and close the door first, and I will dry me to the right temperature when drinking hot water.

Although he would not speak the sweet words of sorrowful hearts, those warm little details deeply moved my heart. For more than 20 years, I have been growing under the responsibility of my parents, and no one has always taken care of me. So I feel that a man like him is the best choice for my husband.

Although others are introverted, they are not migrated, and they can naturally see my affection for him in the interaction. So he confessed to me, and said that he actually fell in love with me at first sight, but he didn't dare to ask for love at that time.

Because he thinks I am very beautiful and talented, it is impossible to look at his poor boy. Unexpectedly, I could come together later. This was really a thousand miles of marriage.

After returning to Vietnam, we have continued online love. During the Spring Festival, he invited me to visit his house again. I promised.

(The wedding ceremony we made in China is solemn)

The boyfriend's house is in Yancheng, Jiangsu. After I across the border between the two countries, I had to take a plane in Nanning in Guangxi for three hours to Shanghai, and then took a car from Shanghai to Yancheng. When I first arrived in his house, I was a little restrained. But the enthusiasm of his family and relatives and friends quickly made me no longer nervous, but the oil was born with the sense of relief and happiness.

Throughout the Spring Festival, his parents and relatives treated me, and the red envelopes of one after another made me feel soft. At that time, I was so moved to cry, because from childhood to large, I never accepted anyone's red envelope. Even the few New Year's money is not. So I think that when I enter this big family in the future, I will never disappoint and regret it.

After returning to China, I discussed with my parents. Although my boyfriend's family conditions are better than my family, my parents resolutely oppose it. Because it is too far, it is still exotic.

I know how persistent my parents are, so I didn't say much, let alone begging them. I think it is the time to test my boyfriend's ability to see how he won my stubborn parents.

So I took him to home and let my parents "assess" themselves. When he first came to my house, he was very uneasy. In addition, he had an introverted personality and didn't say anything to my parents.

But he knew how to use action to make up for the lack of words: go to wash the dishes and sweep the floor after eating. This time my mother was very surprised, because in our Vietnam family, few men were so diligent.

(Look at the costumes we get married, many happy celebrations)

Later, after a period of exchanges and observations, my parents became more and more that the Chinese guy was pretty good. He was a person worth paying for life, so he agreed with our marriage. At that time, I didn't want to be a gift, and I put a few tables at my house, which was marrying me.

In 2019, he and I returned to China and made up a grand wedding ceremony. After marriage, I came to Suzhou with my husband, he worked, and I went to learn makeup.

Because I think the prospects for learning makeup is still very good, such as professional makeup artists, personal studio image designers, model company makeup designers, etc., all of them are good. But then I became pregnant. Due to physical discomfort, I gave up.

After giving birth to a child, I was a housewife, while being a self -media, mainly publishing my daily life of my husband and son, and my videos I sang. It is probably because I am from Vietnam, but Mandarin is quite standard and Chinese songs are also very good. It has been well received by fans.

(I sing Chinese songs, fans especially like it)

At the same time, through more than two years of life in China, I know more about China and China. I feel that China is a well -developed country, and in terms of science and technology, it also makes many countries such as Vietnam, Laos, and so on. For example, China's high -speed rail is as high as 250 ~ 350 kilometers per hour, but in Vietnam, the train only walks 50 kilometers per hour. Moreover, the management of public security in China is very strict, making me feel safe to live in China. Especially the monitoring is superb, there are installations everywhere, even if the thief has a thief, there is no thief. If there is a thief who is risky, it is easy to catch him if you want to catch him.

You don't have to worry about buying fake goods in China. The trademark of the product is obvious. Food ingredients and nutrients are clearly written. However, in Vietnam, there are too many goods without trademarks, no factory date, and shelf life.

(When my husband is at home, not only takes the child to do housework)

So I think marrying to China is the most wise choice, and spending the rest of my life is also the happiest thing.

Because I have an unbearable childhood and adolescent experience, I pay special attention to educating children, and I am very patient and love for naughty sons. I feel that parents raising children are far more important than raising. A scolding education is likely to destroy a child, but I am fortunate to be the one who "boiled".

Adler said: "Lucky people have been healed by childhood; unfortunate people have been healing childhood throughout their lives."

I am unfortunate, but I am also lucky. Because since I was married to China, my childhood shadow was cured by the rich and strong China and the loyal husband.

I love China, and I love our three -family family that is not rich but full of happiness! I hope that after my son is in school, I can show my skills in China's workplace, and make my little family richer and richer!

【Oral: Vietnam Xiaofang】

【Edit: Chen Ping】

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