When people are in their later years, don't lose these 3 cards

There is a classic line in "Gintama":

"When competing with each other, whoever loses the cards in your hand first, you can leave the trump card to the last moment is the winner."

We often think that the first half of life is bitter. After the age of retirement, the years are quiet, and we don't have to worry about the chickens and dogs.

When you really retire and see the coldness of reality, you finally understand that his later years are not peaceful, and there are also suffering and unfortunately secretly.

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Destiny will not be soft because of your long river of time, depending on what kind of cards you have in your hands, and then distinguish it.

In his later years, don't miss these three cards, otherwise unfortunately coming.

The first card:

Money, rich balance, self -esteem

In the hit drama "Happiness to Wanjia", the timidity of the Wang family's parents tickled her popularity, especially her father Wang Youde.

The Wang family is a small family named by Wanjiazhuang. Wang Youde and his wife worked for farmers throughout their lives, with a meager income and can only be careful in the village.

His daughter -in -law He Xingxing wanted to improve the economic situation of the family, proposed organic vegetables in greenhouses, and Wang Youde took out to accumulate the construction of the greenhouse.

But they just signed an agreement with the dealer to build a greenhouse, and the village decided to collect the land to build a sewage treatment plant in his house.

The village committee held a conference, and Wang Youde had tens of millions of reluctances, but he still trembled and agreed, because he had no money and no momentum, and he dared not offend the village leader.

The eldest son, Wang Qinglai, to find the situation of the situation in order to compensate for compensation, and was kicked by the furious Secretary of Wan to roll around the bed.

Wang Youde rushed to the hospital and looked angry, but when he learned that his son was kicked by Secretary Wan, he did not dare to say that Secretary Wan said half sentence, for fear that he could not get compensation.

He Xingfu decided to fight the lawsuit to safeguard his rights and to discuss the matter of Wang Qinglai. Wang Youde began to nod with consent. When the lawyer said that 4,000 lawyers spent time, Wang Youde hesitated. He also persuaded his son to recover. Hold.

Even later, Wang Youde learned that his daughter's qualifications to go to college were replaced by Secretary Wan's daughter.

Although he was distressed by his daughter and his university, but for the compensation of 300,000, he still gritted his teeth to persuade his daughter to sign and settle.

300,000, which is the money that Wang You did not earn for decades. He needed this money to pension. The second son also needed to get married.

Wang Youde bowed his knees all his life, only because of his shyness in his pocket, and he did not confront people with a card.

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The wallet is dry, why is it hard?

Fear of offending the price of other people, afraid that if you lose all the time, you will lose all the time, fear of life.

Happiness does not necessarily need money to buy, but unfortunately it is often born of money.

The accumulation of sufficient money in the world of adults can make the rest of the life less suffering and helplessness, which is an undeniable fact.

The second card:

Healthy, the body is a trump card

In February of this year, Ming Jingang, a well -known director of Taiwan, won a pair of dragon and phoenix baby, and suddenly died of myocardial infarction at the age of 52.

Ming Jin Cheng met his wife and loved each other. They greeted two small lives through many attempts.

Ming Jincheng loved his children and wives, and kept taking care of it. He learned that his wife was pregnant, and he also deliberately quit smoking and alcohol, hoping to accompany the child to grow up healthy.

Who would have thought that Ming Jincheng did not wait for his wife and children to go home with a full moon, and went to another world.

In the face of the disease, life is too fragile, and there is no health protection. Even if there are thousands of perseverance, the death will never show mercy.

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A few days ago I received a call from my mother, and I learned that I was diagnosed with the advanced gastric cancer when I was looking at my grandmother.

I was a little confused for a while. I remembered that I had just retired. I also said that I would go out for a trip during the New Year. I wanted to see the good mountains and rivers of the motherland.

In the first half of my life, I was running for the family, shrinking clothes, and returning and returning every day every day. I rarely leave leave for decades, and sometimes I was reluctant to rest.

I forgot to eat for dinner because of my work. I went to the hospital several times when I was hungry. She always thought that she could fight for a day, and when the child grew up, she could keep her care.

But the aunt finally had their children's family, and had not had time to enjoy the leisure of retirement. Before the children and grandchildren were happy, they were entangled by illness and increasingly thinner.

We often think that life is very long, and there are a lot of time, but we ignore the body that we can't stand toss and consumption.

Health needs to "support" and cannot withstand "rebellion". The more meticulous you are, the gentle it is.

I have read a tearful words in the article of "People's Daily":

We always go to life for too many things that are out of reach, but we forget the true happiness of life, but it is the warmth of the lights and the enrichment of chai oil and salt.

In this year, no matter how much you make money or less, what you experience is good or bad. Remember, if you are healthy this year, it is the best year.

The hardest ace of life is that the body is unhappy and healthy is often.

With a strong body, the arc of life will slowly pull, helping you to achieve more expectations.

The third card:

Partner, the husband and wife fit the rest of the life

A netizen has shared the fun of grandpa and grandma, which is funny and moving.

Grandpa has a pension guarantee life, no grandma.

Grandma was strong in a lifetime and didn't want to be looked down on by Grandpa, so she signed up for the sanitation of the community.

Since the sanitation team needs to go to the morning class, grandma can't get up at all, and Grandpa can only go to work for grandma every day. Some people commented: "Because of the love of grandpa's life, grandma couldn't get up in the morning."

Yeah, it is difficult for people to lonely. Some people hurt you, spoil you, and love you. It is a kind of happiness and a sense of security.

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Before the writer Liang Xiaosheng knew his wife Jiao Dan, someone introduced him a few girls, but was frightened by Liang Xiaosheng's family.

When meeting with Jiao Dan, Liang Xiaosheng, as always, bluntly said:

"My family has a heavy burden, my parents are in a bad health, my brother is mentally ill, and you have to send them money every month."

Instead of abandoning Liang Xiaosheng, Jiao Dan said firmly:

"I didn't expect you to be so difficult, and the burden on my shoulder is so heavy, and it takes one to help you share it."

After they got married, Jiao Dan contracted all the housework in order to let Liang Xiaosheng's peace of mind, and also took into account Liang Xiaosheng's parents and siblings.

On one occasion, Liang Xiaosheng wrote a novel "Snow City" in the office forgotten in the office. He did not go home for 5 days, and Jiao Dan and his son were sick and did not disturb him.

A reporter wanted to interview Liang Xiaosheng. When he found his family, Jiao Dan also specifically told the reporter not to tell Liang Xiaosheng.

When the reporter saw Liang Xiaosheng, he couldn't hold back, and Liang Xiaosheng hurried home, so he sent Jiao Dan and his son to the hospital.

Liang Xiaosheng didn't know much about cooking. He cooked two bowls of tomatoes and egg noodles. Although the taste was not good, Jiao Dan was delicious.

Because of the 40 years of Jiao Dan and Liang Xiaosheng, Liang Xiaosheng could create peace of mind. This is the warmth and completeness of the marriage.

Bi Shumin said:

"A good man and a good woman, although there are two hearts in the days when they are in trouble, there is only one idea -the wind and rain move forward."

The good or bad of the partner is not to see if the three views are the same, but whether the soul is in line.

The happiness of marriage is not to see if the family is rich, but to see if it can move forward.

Whenever you warm your life, your partner who is fit is the key to the warmth of the rest of your life.

The significance of marriage is that some people are willing to work with you to clean up the mess after the wind and rain, and witness the prosperity of the highlight moment.

In the long way to life, we threw it while walking, lost a lot of things, and picked up some.

But not everything has the opportunity to regain. If you lose your heart, you can only be teased by fate.

Money is the bottom of life; health is the foundation of moving forward; partner is a password of warm heart.

Life is a series of series. The rich cards need to be accumulated. When you are young, you can get more rational and sober in order to get the peace and peace of his old age.

The end of the text lights up "watching", I hope you and I will not be in front of your eyes.

Author: Li Kemo, a personal public account, girl. Source: Duhaoshu.

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