When the peers around him start to be afraid of marriage

If there is also iterative "children's children", after the age of 25, one of the many characteristics of this crowd must be called "getting married early".

But the result of this time was that many of their peers were unwilling to catch up, and some young men and women who were afraid of marriage were just more panic.

Faced with the opening of the volume of the volume of the continuous answer after marriage, not only the questions are strange, but the answer is still unsolvable. Not to mention the fear of marriage, some single friends have a long time to pay a sincere love.

Compared to finding good puppets, they are more willing to invest in the love of others, crying in tears for abuse, and sweetness.

When watching a love variety show, they inspected the autumn and deduced the next plot development in their minds. And closing and playing, returning to reality, they are like watching their own audiences, always reminding themselves that "heartbeat often brings danger".

The first event of "Hello Young Youth Social (Social Activities)" hosted by Huangshan City recently -at the youth camping party, there is such a "implicit" moment.

When playing drumming and flowing flowers when they were playing, many young people participating in the event did not want to be selected when they stopped. It was passed on, and the flowers "flew up". It seemed to be "selected" - Fame and reasons are punishment.

When a paragraph that may occur is in front of them, what are young people who refuse and worry about? Is there a more fundamental reason to exclude social fear and not see the medium factors?

And confirming that men and women who do not want to get married are even more strange: the fate has arrived, why are you afraid of a paper marriage contract?

Some people use "venture capital" to compare the spouse selection behavior of some people, and use this to explain the cause of fear of marriage. Dating and marriage need to consider controlling costs, evaluate each other's ability, development prospects, etc.

Of course, this can be expressed to a certain extent that free love has developed to this day. Both men and women, especially women, can choose to get married more autonomously, and can take marriage as an option.

But from another perspective, the most moving part of the intimacy -love and sincerity seem to gradually let the stack of various practical factors, and the property seems to be the primary criterion for matching in marriage.

This is lacking in life's experience. Most people have appreciated the contentment of "drinking water full of water", but they dare not imagine the dilemma of "poor couples and wives".

When a pair of young people began to start from "us", all aspects of the family need to support stable financial resources. Even if you avoid the "sky -high gift", you must start to calculate the general expenditure required for children's education and parents' pensions in the future.

If the cost problem is a ruler hanging in the hearts of young people, then the responsibility cannot be avoided when they have to set up a family. In other words, some young people have the ability to love and be loved, but they are not ready to take more responsibility.

Similar to the idea of ​​"accompanying me not to get married", it can depict the dream dream of "hiding in a small building and making a unification, no matter his winter and summer and spring and autumn". Coping problem -solving ideas may be related to the independence of two individuals.

To put it simply, only if you live your own life and be responsible for yourself can we support each other.

Some people say that marriage must be rooted in life. Compared to reducing suggestions such as legal marriage age, so that young people have sufficient willingness and ability to enjoy life, which is the key to helping them get the courage to get married.

The author believes that the courage to marry requires impulse, but also needs to be calmly judged. It is not only a determination to the other party, but also a better confirmation and grasp of themselves.

Of course, if the relevant aspects can provide more specific help, to solve problems for young people in terms of house purchase and children's education, young people may dare to think more and enjoy the lives of the two.

Borrowing the lines in a TV series "Love You Didn't Discuss" many years ago: "We, don't be a heavenly." Perhaps in intimate relationships, I don't expect who supports a sky, so I am not afraid of the collapse of "this day" collapse. It's right.

They support their own days and pocket themselves, so that they can go on the side side by side and go to a wider place.

Source: Chinese Youth Daily Author: Zhu Caiyun

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