"Love" is not control, it is to give respect and hope

7 In the adventure, Xiaobian recently watched "Mozart of Outer Space", which has received a lot of inspiration to build parent -child relationships.

This sentence "I am your dad, how can you harm you" is a typical speech that Chinese -style parents are good at. My father wanted to continue his child's dream and let his children complete. But this also imposed the heavy failure of his life to his child.

In life, many parents have given "the best" to the children, and at the same time, they are also attached to a heavy "love". It seems that they are true and true. Indeed, parents are selflessly dedicated, but often they do not get a good result. This often ignores that children also have independent thoughts. Do you think the best is what your child wants most?

There is also a classic dialogue of father and son in the movie:

"Then I have been arranged by you, what's the point of living?"

"I don't arrange who arrange it! I am your dad!"

How many parents are dominated by their elders and domineering children, they just ask their children to obey. For a long time, the children are getting more and more rebellious and more disobedient. The more the parents will be stricter, forming a vicious circle. In the process of children's growth, parents should learn to "accompany" their children to grow. When the child is ignorant, guide him to understand the world, give them their own choice, experience a variety of life, and feel the cold and warm and happy and happy.

The relationship between father and son in "Mozart of Outer Space" reminds me of a sentence: "Child, I am the first parent, if there is any shortcomings, I am really sorry." As a child As a child at one time, if there is any shortcomings, I'm sorry. " For the first time as a parent, I am a child for the first time. In fact, there are any right or wrong, encouraging each other, and exploring on the way to grow up.

Finally make a summary! Parents should respect their children's choices and do not impose their wishes in their children. Interests are teachers who give the greatest learning motivation. Just like Huang Bo's words: "There is no standard answer in dreams. If you like it, there is infinite possibilities." Children must also be considerate of their parents, and they must believe that the love of parents is the purest and selfless in the world!

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