After the engagement banquet, a woman in Hefei became the "8th technician": It turned out that this was the "weak person trap"

Two days ago, Hefei girl Xiaohui (pseudonym) was engaged. This was a great event.

Xiao Huixing shared the happiness of life on social platforms.

Unexpectedly, this joy quickly became a nightmare.

One message one after another, swipe the screen in the comments.

At first, Xiaohui didn't care too much, thinking that the Qingri was clear, but her patience made some people more and more unscrupulous.

A good person on the Internet, you say me a word:

"It is indeed No. 8."

"She is very dedicated to work."

These yin and yang weird comments have made the rumors more outrageous, and some people even send private messages to Xiaohui.

Someone followed the trend of Xiao Hui's figure and appearance, and maliciously speculated various lace details.

The spirit was created, and work and life were also greatly affected. Xiaohui chose to call the police.

Faced with Xiaohui's statement and alarm return order, the Internet violence and rumors did not seem to stop.

Xiaohui's encounter reminds me of what happened before.

Two years ago, in July, Ms. Gan of Hangzhou took parcels at the express station in the community.

After a few seconds in and out, the man Lang Mou, who was hiding in the corner, sneaked the whole process.

Subsequently, Ms. Gu's nightmare began.

Lang Mou and his friend He Mou played the "little rich woman" who brought the courier and brought the children alone at home.

The two fabricated a conversation of "lonely derailment of female owners", and attached the pictures they took sneaky to send them into the riders where they were located.

Because Ms. Gu looks beautiful, Lang and He are arranged to be in trouble. Everyone is curious about this "romantic affairs" and forwarded.

Therefore, the story of "young woman stealing affection" and Ms. Gu's photos were copied from one group to another, passed from the community to Hangzhou, from Hangzhou to the whole country ...

Numerous netizens came to scold Ms. Gu, while passing her photos, she passed her photos.

Because of the bad influence of this incident, Ms. Gu also received the company's persuasion.

After that, she did not dare to go out, because once she appeared in public, she would be recognized and then filmed.

An ordinary girl, "social death".

During that time, she plummeted, and her body and mental state were extremely poor.

Two months later, Ms. Gu was diagnosed with depression.

After that, Ms. Gu reported the police and clarified herself over and over again on the circle of friends and Weibo.

But a group of people are carnival, and no one cares about the mess.

After the administrative detention of Lang and He, he was still drinking in the circle of friends.

Ms. Gu hoped that they would make an apology, but they said, "It's too shameful, I want to be a man!"

This speech is really surprising. I wonder if they have considered Ms. Gu when they were making rumors?

From Ms. Gu to Xiaohui, similar incidents have repeatedly occurred, which makes people feel heartbroken.

Every time we condemn the rumor, saying "there is Longquan on the tongue, and the killing is not the blood."

Or sympathize with the victims, "make a rumor with a mouth, and rumors to break the legs."

Or look forward to "the rumor stops at the wise".

But after experiencing face -to -face again and again, someone is still obsessed and believes that it is believed?

Here, I want to share 3 doubts with you.

First, why is it so easy to make "yellow rumors"?

Look at two cases first.

In May last year, a girl of Sun Yat -sen University received WeChat full of doubts from her classmates.

It was a screenshot of a circle of friends, which was a naked "grooming and dating".

In the screenshot, many people liked it, and many people signed up, and the message was unbearable.

In the picture, information such as "Message Girls" and information such as "Message Girls" and their colleges also include the girl's WeChat avatar.

But she knew nothing about it.

I only know that the girls in the message are from different hospitals and different grades. They do not know each other.

From February this year, it has lived in the dirty language of the whole school.

Zhao Mouchen, the initiator of this incident, was still chairman of the Student Union.

He forged a number of chat records and nude photos, spreading in the circle of friends.

And everyone also found that among the victims, some people have rejected Zhao Mouchen's pursuit or harassment.

When things came out of the water, Zhao Mochen apologized to the victim at the request of school.

In just one and a half minutes, he hid in the toilet compartment.

After being poured out, he simply splashed and rolled, and he was entangled.

Similar things also happened in a university in Chengdu.

A student picked up an iPad, and he carefully released the budding and left a note to allow the owner to claim.

Originally a good thing to pick up gold, but because of the bilingual message on the note, and the pretty word, a "light girl" with "Chongyang Mei" was fabricated and vividly.

As a result, it was a boy who was not ambiguous.

Because there are international students in the school, the iPad is an English system. Out of politeness and comprehensiveness, he uses bilingual.

In an abuse and attack, the boy clarified.

There were a few "misunderstandings, big brothers" in the crowd, and then scattered.

The storm seems to stop abruptly, but if the protagonist of the above story is really a girl, will she be so easy to get out?

There is a psychological phenomenon called "the trap of sexual weakness".

It means that a certain type of person faces the opposite sex, and will think that he is oppressed and owed because of failure or failure.

Once this kind of psychology appears, what they do subconsciously, not how to find ways to improve themselves, or even resent the "robbers", but to hate heterogeneous choices. This is why someone always believes in "yellow rumors".

Rather than trusting rumors, it is better to say that they are to satisfy their "revenge" pleasure.

Second, why does anyone have no lower limit on the Internet?

There is a detail in Xiaohui's story.

Before the alarm, she found a rumor to negotiate with the other party sincerely.

The other party said:

"Little Duanzi, joke. This year, netizens are too easy to get on the car."

A "joke" is nothing to happen.

When the "rhythm" was hot, and the victim came to the door, he expressed his responsibility on netizens.

Similar situations have also occurred in Ms. Gu's cases.

Some reporters found a convenience store for rumor Lang, and wanted to interview the parties.

I did not expect Lang's father to grieve and say that his son was innocent:

"We are also annoying, and they are not targeted at her, or the children are joking."

It even said that the main responsibility lies in the communicator, and his son is "wrong."

Destroyed the lives of others, without compensation, without apology, always emphasizing "joking".

Do not recognize the account and avoid responsibility.

Why does this happen?

First of all, in the network communication mechanism, the culprit is often diluted and even disappeared in layers of information.

Ms. Xiao Hui and Ms. Gu can at least find the benchmoring bench.

More rumors often appear at the moment when they appear, accompanied by deletion and sales.

It is easy to make rumors unprecedentedly, and sometimes I want to fight back, but it is like a punch on the cotton.

Secondly, we have never had enough awareness of rights protection.

It's better to get more habit.

Therefore, there will be so many people on the Internet.

Third, why do we enter the era of "post -truth"?

Remember the "juvenile hero Han Xingbo drowned" incident?

The 17 -year -old Han Xingbo sacrificed heroically in order to rescue the three girls who had fallen.

Afterwards, three rescued girls were verbally cut.

Some said that they were indifferent after being saved and did not admit the life of the boy.

Others said, "Boys can actually survive, but they are stepped on by the last girl and cannot come up."

One of the most likes a message turned out to be:

"Three women have no serious work, the biggest hobby is to go to the nightclub to drink, jumpy ..."

But in fact, all the above are Zi Xuwu.

As early as the rumor began, the three girls had already clarified on the Internet.

But everyone doesn't care about the truth, only cares about whether the story is "tortuous" and whether the content is "fragrant and bizarre".

The overwhelming cyber violence even overwhelmed the psychological defense of the girls and almost fell into the deep sea again.

Picture source: Beijing News

"The Crown of Wuhe" said:

We think we are rational, and we think that every move of our own makes sense. But in fact, most of our daily behaviors are the result of some hidden motivations that we cannot understand at all.

Because of the speed and breadth of the network, this motivation is often infinitely enlarged.

So, "Information Cocoon Room" intensified:

"In information dissemination, people take their own interests as the guide, simple thinking, cognitive labeling, leading to prejudice, arrogance, and rogue."

Such people don't care about the truth, they just want to satisfy their "curiosity" and "good intentions".

Therefore, the false news is flying, no matter if you intentionally or unintentionally, everyone is forced to enter the "post -truth" era:

"One thing‘ It is said to have happened, and the emotions are in place. I ’m going to vent, and the carnival is over.”

So in the face of all this, is we powerless?

In fact, Ms. Xiao Hui and Gu Gu made a good demonstration for us.

This is the second half of Xiaohui issued a statement after the alarm:

After seeing the power of "network spray", not only did she not retreat, but she actively defended her rights and interests, picked up legal weapons and declared war.

Also, Ms. Gu, after the other party refused to apologize, she directly filed a criminal self -prosecution to the Yuhang District People's Court in Hangzhou, demanding that the criminal responsibility of Lang and He He was requested to slander.

In the end, Lang Mou and He Mou were sentenced to one year in prison and 2 years in probation.

From a young age and Ms. Gu, I saw a kind of power:

We will be hurt, but we will never yield.

Because every time you give up, people who hide in the dark are even more unscrupulous.

Reference materials:

Jiupai News: "Women's online engagement photos, was passed on to" No. 8 technician "? I responded: Not true, the police have received the crime "

Hefei Traffic Broadcasting: "Women's Internet engagement photos, being accused of" No. 8 technician ", helpless alarm to prove self -evidence"

People's Information: "The" Women's Courier was made of rumors and derailment "was sentenced.

Phoenix Weekly: "Angry! After rejecting the chairman of the Student Union for love, they were rumored to be a "bitch" "

Red Net: "Under the shadow of ipad witch hunting, anti -intellectualism is hustle and bustle"

Beijing News: "The 17 -year -old boy saved the drowning person was killed, and the girl was rescued: kneeling and apologizing because of the sacrifice of the hero"

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