The two brothers in Beijing torn their faces due to the house, and the brother's family borrowed his brother's house for 30 years: to move 250,000 to move ...

"Give me 250,000, just move from your house!"

The man who spoke was Ma Shaorong. The family of four had been borrowed from his brother Ma Shaoming's house since 1987. It was 30 years when he lived. The younger brother's family refused to move away.

It wasn't until 2018 that Ms. Su was helpless and sought the help of the media that things had changed.

After mediation, Ma Qingrong, who has always been silent, finally put forward his own demands:

"You can move away, you must give me 250,000!"

Seeing this, people can't help curious:

What made the second brother Ma Qingrong's family have a confidence dove for 30 years, forcing his brother to take out 250,000 before he was willing to move away? What kind of grudges are there behind the two people?

Things have to start from 1979.

Whose house is

In 1979, the Ma family obtained a set of real estate in Xicheng District, Beijing.

The demolition policy at the time was allocated by hukou. The elder brother has been married to self -standing portal. The second brother Ma Shaorong responded to the country's policies to go to the countryside, and the hukou was moved away. The Ma family's account was only three people, Ma Shaoming, and four sisters left in the Ma family.

Therefore, according to the policy, they have a three -bedroom.

In 1987, Ma Qingrong, the second brother Ma Qingrong, who was going to the countryside in Tunshi County, Shanxi, returned to Beijing. Because there was no place where there was no place, he could only ask his old father.

Seeing the second son of the second son who returned to Beijing for more than half a year, the Dong family lived for a few days, and the west family lived for a few days. She lived in a duckweed in the water.

But at the time he lived with the third son and was supported by the third son.

To receive the second son's family into the door, you must pass the permission of the third son. My father discussed his three sons with a disturbing mood.

The sensible Ma Shaoming couldn't bear to see his father's embarrassment, and couldn't bear to see the second brother running for his residence, so he agreed to let them live in.

But Ma Shaoming did not expect that the second brother's house was 30 years.

He didn't expect that his emphasis on his affection would cause endless troubles to his second half of his life.

In 2004, the Ma family's father walked the last journey of his life.

At the end of his life, the old man explained verbally, and his name was owned by his third son Ma Shaoming.

Later, Ma Shaoming said: "When his father died, the house was not worth a few money. The second brother was expected to expect him in the house in Niujie, and he never thought about fighting with me."

The "house of Niujie" in Ma Shaoming's mouth was bought by the second brother Ma Shaorong and his father -in -law, and wrote the name of his father -in -law.

At that time, his father -in -law promised to give them a house, and he also made a will and made notarization.

But no one expected at the time that it was this house that caused many troubles.

The Ma family is a big family of reorganization. The elder brother and the second brother are the children of their father and ex -wife, and the third brother and the fourth sister are the second wife of the father.

Unfortunately, the second wife died early, and his father had to provoke the burden of life alone. It was extremely difficult to pull the four children to grow up.

The children have no objection to their father's death.

Therefore, although the house was still under the name of his father at that time, the whole family had defaulted to the house with the third brother Ma Shaoming.

The same stranger between the brothers

In 2006, in order to reimburse the heating fee of the house, Ma Shaoming passed the Housing Management Bureau and the signature of all family members.

In the following 2012, Ma Shaoming, which was based on the east wind of national policies, added more than 30,000 yuan to purchase the rental house into a property house. At this point, this three -bedroom room officially became Ma Shaoming's private property.

However, I do n’t know if I was worried about the second brother's opposition, or was he afraid of his increasingly rising house prices. Ma Shaoming did not tell the second brother about the incident.

Until 2015, they proposed to discrete for the first time, and things could not be concealed.

If you used to live under the same roof in the past, the contradiction between the two people was only some "small problems" that were not injured and elegant, then this time, Ma Shaoming carried the second brother to turn the house into the contradiction caused by his private property. "Top bone".

In this regard, the second brother Ma Qingrong has always been worried. He believed that his brother's "cut first and then played" seriously hurt their brotherhood.

The conflict of interests is like a catalyst, which can all the small friction in daily life upgraded into a major contradiction.

Once the relationship is damaged, there is only one consequences that are not maintained in time, that is, it is increasingly broken.

After the house's transfer and renamed storm, the two people gradually showed different living situations:

The third brother Ma Shaoming has the real estate under his name, and the second brother Ma Qingrong has not been in the Niujie house.

The principle of "not suffering from unevenness" is common in ancient and modern.

The differences in the situation have gradually caused the two people to gradually produce an irreplaceable gap. From the initial alienation, they gradually developed to the degree of not knowing each other and nothing to speak.

In 2015, the dilapidated house was transformed. The two people moved out for more than a year. My brother -in -law felt that this was a good opportunity, so before the transformation was completed, they said clearly with the second brother's family and ended the uncomfortable "symbiosis" of the two families. relation.

The two of them have lived together for 28 years. The original kindness did not get the gratitude they deserved. Under the accumulated friction, the brothers became more and more strangers.

This result made the Ma Shaoming family unacceptable. They couldn't understand why they were wronged, and they still couldn't retain their flesh.

But most of life has passed, and it is meaningless to accuse. In the rest, they don't want to resent anyone, they just want to have a life that is no longer disturbed. The house to be handed down "fly"

In order to end all of these as soon as possible, the third brother Ma Shaoming specially asked the elder brother and the fourth sister to help the second brother to move.

He promised that as long as the second brother was willing to move, he was willing to take out 100,000 yuan to fund the second brother's rent.

Everyone in the Ma family felt that this was a good way to solve the problem, but what surprised them was that in the face of the compensation of 100,000 yuan, the second brother refused.

The second brother said that the house in Niujie had not been free up. They had no place to go for the time being, and he was afraid of tossing and did not want to go out to rent a house.

The second brother did not plan to fight for his father's house before, because he felt that the house in Niujie was his own. Once his father -in -law left, they could move in.

But what he didn't expect was that a change made the house in Niujie a bubble.

It turned out that the father -in -law's father -in -law had cancer and hoped to get the care of her daughter.

And Ms. Zhai Zhai somehow refused the request of her father's father, regardless of her.

As a result, the father's father changed his will and canceled the inheritance of Ms. Zhai Zhai.

This blow is fatal for the second brother's family.

From investing in a house in 2004, to the death of his father -in -law in 2017, they waited for 13 years, but waited for a while. No one would inevitably complain about the injustice of fate.

But if you think about it, it seems to have nothing to do with destiny.

If Ms. Er Zhai still has the word love in her heart, she is willing to do her daughter's duty and go back to take care of her father, and her father will not change his will in anger.

The world is impermanent, and it is created. Sometimes, the more deliberate calculations, the more you don't get what you want.

In January 2017, the old father -in -law, who was tortured by cancer, died of illness, and he left the house to the younger son who was waiting around him.

Looking at the soaring house prices, the second brother's family regretted it. The original expectations were gone, and they could not easily give up the only house in the third brother's house in front of them.

In June 2017, the younger brother -in -law who spent most of his life found the second sister, and once again urged them to move out. In order to quiet in the second half of her life, she promised to fund 200,000.

However, Erfu delayed the "being fighting a lawsuit with his brother and sister".

In August of the same year, the third brother came to discuss the second brother again.

What made them unexpected was that the second brother was still dissatisfied.

Brother's "grievance"

The attitude of the second brother's family made the third brother committing difficulties. Is the second brother who really wants to rely on their family for a lifetime? Is it true to swallow for 30 years, and finally to tear his face?

There is no way to find a media help, and then there is a "claim" at the beginning.

After mediation, the two brothers each expressed their demands.

Ma Shaoming hopes that the second brother's family can move out and return their peaceful old age.

Ma Shaoming also said that their living conditions were not good, and the two saved for more than half of their lives, only 100,000 yuan. The 200,000 contributing to his lover was Ms. Su. He did not agree, but could not bear his wife to continue to be wronged with himself, so he had to agree.

He hoped that the second brother would be less. He was old and didn't want to borrow money at the moment.

In this regard, the second brother Ma Shaorong has not been loose, insisting on asking his brother to take out 250,000.

After his father -in -law's house was expected, he applied for a low -rent house as soon as possible. He said that if the third brother does not want to get money, they can only wait for the approval of the low -rent housing, and then consider what to move away.

In fact, the second brother has a pension of nearly 7,000 yuan a month. Both daughters are married and have children. They no longer need to fund their parents. Because the second brother has "grievances".

He believes that although the house is left by his father, even if he has no ownership, he should enjoy the right to residence. He said that when he changed the real estate, the third brother had verbally promised to allow him to enjoy the permanent residence of the house.

"Since the third brother has turned the house into his private property in 2012, he has always wanted to drive me out, which violated his original commitment." The second brother Ma Shaorong said with grievances.

But the third brother Ma Shaoming did not agree with the second brother. Ma Shaoming said he had not promised his second brother to have permanent residence.

The ending of "perfect"

Fortunately, the second brother's family did not completely "confused".

Later, by consulting the lawyer, their family understood that, whether it is legal or morally, this house has no relationship with them. They just rely on them. Protect.

Moreover, the third brother did not compensate their obligations.

In other words, the third brother gives money out of affection, not reasonable.

The reason is understanding, but the old couple is already in their 70s. They have no life in their lives. In the face of high house prices in Beijing, they are still unwilling to give up their appeals easily.

Finally, after negotiation, they accepted a discount plan: the third brother funded 150,000 yuan and the second brother moved within 1 month.

Although with the unremitting efforts of the two sides, they finally reached a consensus, but because their brothers had already lost their trust in each other, they had to ask a lawyer to be a middleman. The middleman then notified the second brother Ma Shaorong to move.

At this point, the 30 -year housing storm that plagued the two people was finally over.In the process of resolving the dispute, although the two people had business and did not tear their faces, in the disputes that lasted 30 years, the relationship between the two had long disappeared.Exchanges will be their most authentic portrayal.

Family affection should have been the strongest backing when everyone is in this world, but now it is worthless in the face of interests.

In this seemingly complete ending, there is no winner.

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