The eighty veterans have taken care of the sick wife for 9 years: she will have a family

Meng Xiangshun pushed his wife to take a walk

Meng Xiangshun and his wife Yang Jinxiu took a group photo in Shanghai

Some people say that companionship is the longest confession. In Shangpinyuan District, Shushan District, Hefei, when Meng Xiangshun was mentioned, many neighbors would have a thumbs up. His wife was paralyzed for 9 years, and he had never given up, took care of him carefully, and explained the true feelings of the husband and wife with carefulness and patience. Speaking of his wife, the old man over the age of 80 smiles, "She is a child now, I have to be spoiled!"

From Changfeng to Shanghai,

Girls make cloth shoes and give it to him

81 -year -old Meng Xiangshun is a veteran, his hometown is in Zhuang Tomb Town, Changfeng County. In 1965, Meng Xiangshun joined the army and served in the Shanghai Police District. In 1969, seeing the days of veterans were approaching, the family talked about Meng Xiangshun the media and introduced him to Yang Jinxiu in the towns next door.

Although it has been in the past 50 years, Meng Xiangshun's memory is still fresh when he mentioned the details of the two. "She had two ponytails at the time, and she was a beautiful girl at first glance." This meeting, the two had a preliminary understanding, and the seed of love germinated in her heart.

Later, Meng Xiangshun returned to Shanghai, and Yang Jinxiu continued to work in the local area. Once, Yang Jinxiu inquired that there were two soldiers in the village that ended their relatives and were about to return to Shanghai. She found each other and asked them to take themselves to Shanghai to see Meng Xiangshun. After the two agreed, Yang Jinxiu went out for the first time. In the wrapping with her, there was a pair of black cloth shoes. After she touched the size, she made it to Meng Xiangshun in person.

After getting off the train, Yang Jinxiu found Meng Xiangshun via the phone. "Shanghai is so far, why do you find here? Why not say to me?" Looking at the girl who came from a distance, Meng Xiangshun had an unspeakable emotion in his heart. "At that time, I was thinking that I must be good to her." Meng Xiangshun said, the pair of cloth shoes made by Yang Jinxiu himself, he regarded Ruo Treasure, and he was never willing to wear it.

In 1970, Meng Xiangshun was about to retire. At this time, he and Yang Jinxiu had reached the point of talking about marriage. Before the retreat, Yang Jinxiu came to Shanghai alone, and she told Meng Xiangshun that she wanted to look at Shanghai and look at him in military uniforms. This time, the two took a group photo. In the photo, she smiled short hair and stood side by side with Meng Xiangshun. The eyes of the two were full of happiness.

The lover was paralyzed due to illness,

Husband takes care of the responsibility of care

In the winter of 1970, Meng Xiangshun returned to Hefei and was assigned to the machinery. The two also officially entered the palace of marriage. After the marriage, Meng Xiangshun worked hard in the factory, and Yang Jinxiu worked hard in his hometown in Changfeng. She cleverly took care of her family in order to take care of the four children properly, so that Meng Xiangshun, who was in Hefei, was devoted to work. In 2000, Meng Xiangshun took his wife to live in Hefei, and the family was harmonious and happy.

something unexpected may happen any time. In 2013, Yang Jinxiu was paralyzed due to sudden cerebral hemorrhage. When he rushed to the hospital, his wife was not saved. The doctor gave two options, either surgery or conservative treatment, but no matter what kind of treatment, it was impossible to change the status quo of Yang Jinxiu's paralysis.

Fortunately, the wife finally turned to safety. After two months of hospitalization, his wife was discharged, but he had lost his ability to take care of himself.

After returning home, the heavy responsibility of taking care of his wife was pressed on his shoulder. In addition to the daily care of dresses and feeding, he took his wife to go to major hospitals for medical treatment, acupuncture, and recovery, but all had little effect. "Later, I also thought about it, so as not to let her go to this crime, just be alive, she is at home." Meng Xiangshun said.

Pack your wife into a child,

He is doing his best

In Meng Xiangshun's words, the wife after illness is more like a child. She couldn't speak, but she wanted to "scream", reminding him to do it. For example, every day, his wife has to push himself out of himself, 6 times a day, regardless of the wind and rain, the cold winter and the summer, never interrupted.

"If you don't take her out, she will cry straight. I see her crying, distressed, and can't help but get used to her." Meng Xiangshun said that in these years, he pushed his wife for a walk, and it had been pushed down. Motor chair. "When you pushed her, she tilted her head as if she was sleeping. As soon as you stopped, she immediately woke up again." Meng Xiangshun knew thoroughly about his wife's psychology.

Because his wife is going out every day, in order to make his wife more comfortable, Meng Xiangshun also carefully transformed the wheelchair. At the top of the wheelchair, an umbrella is equipped with an umbrella, so that the sunny can shade, and it can avoid rain. Behind the wheelchair, there is a cloth bag, which contains paper towels, raincoats, small fans, cups, towels to facilitate the care of his wife. The left handrail of the wheelchair was wrapped in tightly by the towel. Meng Xiangshun explained that this was to hold his wife's arm for the armrest.

Every day, he hooked his waist, picked up his wife with all his best, and carefully adjusted the angle of the wheelchair for her, and took her out. To Huangshan Road, south to Wangjiang Road, day after day, year after year, Meng Xiangshun and his wife witnessed the four seasons change and the years flow. "Actually, I am a acute person. These years, because of taking care of her, my temper has eased a lot, but she is getting more and more wayward. The children often come back to see her, saying that I have been used to it."

Meng Xiangshun said that the age is getting older, and sometimes it is inevitable to take care of his wife.At this time, he often turned his old photos alone and looked for the beauty of that year.On August 1, when he pulled out the photo of the two in Shanghai, when he handed it to his wife's hands, his wife suddenly collapsed and cried, but Meng Xiangshun laughed and said, "Look, she is not now, she doesn't now don't.Is it a child? "Maybe, at that moment, Yang Jinxiu also missed the beauty of the past.

He reported all media reporter Wei Xiaomin text/picture intern Chen Qianqian correspondent Cui Liangqin

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