Xue Baodi's popularity is so good. Why do people always don't like her?

Xue Baodi's popularity in Jiafu is excellent. In this regard, Mother Jia gave a high evaluation. She said in front of Aunt Xue that her four girls were not as good as Bao girl.

Among these four girls who are not as good as Baodi, welcoming Sanchun must be included, and the other is naturally Daiyu, because Mother Jia has already regarded Daiyu as her own family. Essence

Mother Jia was the ancestor of Jiafu. She was completely unnecessary to Feng Chengxue. She said that, although there was a polite component among relatives, Baodi did not do thoughtful, and this won the praise of Mother Jia.

Not only Jia's mother, but also the little girls in Jiafu, they also like to play with Baodi, because she is open -minded. When she is from the point, she is not as good as Dai Yushan.

But even if Baodi's popularity is so good, some people still don't like her. For example, Baoyu has never liked Baodi, and many readers who like the Dream of Red Mansions do n’t like Baodi. Why?

First of all, the coldness in Baodi's bones made people take a breath.

Baodi is a person with cold and cold outside. She seems to be enthusiastic about anyone, but it is difficult to confident people. Especially when she encountered something, she was surprisingly cold.

This kind of cold is calm, rational, and irritating for Baodi. Don't care about it, it seems more utilitarian.

After Jin Yier died, in order to comfort her aunt Mrs. Wang, she said that Jin Yier might lose her feet and said that she was confused and said that she was dead.

It is understood from Mrs. Wang's position. Of course, there is no problem, and I even feel that the niece is intimate. Isn't it just a girl? Is there any big deal, will you not solve some silver at home?

But if we are a friend and family of Jin Yier, what do you think of a girl who commented on a girl who was shameful because of being strange? The coldness of Baodi lies in the ignorance of life.

She said that, although it was to understand Mrs. Wang, she was wide, which reflected her sensible, but there were many ways to persuade others. Baodi chose the most unpretentious and most chilling one.

Liu Xianglian disappeared once, and Baodi once again brought the coldness in the bones to the extreme. Even Xue Yan, who had always been extravagant and arrogant, cried for Liu Xianglian's monk. Her mother and brother quickly discussed the invitation to dinner.

Some people say that Baodi is a high school in the mountains. Maybe she has seen through life and death, so she can be so calm, but for many people, Baodi is so good -looking. The indifference is ruthless.

The coldness of Baodi often takes a breath of coolness. She does not seem to have emotions, let alone sorrow and sadness because of the misfortune of others. She does not seem to be a person living in the world.

Secondly, it is mature that is inconsistent with age, which makes people feel that Baodi is too boring and boring.

In the Grand View Garden, in addition to Li Yan, Baoji is older. She is Sister Bao in the eyes of everyone. She knows how to do it, and it seems that she does not know what she does not know, and she does not understand.

Baodi has maturity that is inconsistent with age. From the perspective of adults, although it is a good thing, it is a bit tedious and boring to peers.

Take Baoyu, for example, Baodi persuaded him to study again and again. Baoyu really hates it. But regardless of this, Baodi still wants to say that this is a smart and beautiful girl. Master.

After a birthday, Mother Jia asked her to play with her. The girl who settled the average was probably ordered to listen to it.

Of course, this is the embodiment of its sensible and ritual, and it is easy to get the love of the elders, but we also know that the more the elders like the children, the more uncomfortable among their peers, because he is too mature, and he is too mature to be with his peers. There is already a sense of distance.

Baodi mature with her age, and she is also reflected in her too much restraint. For example, Xiang Ling wants to learn poetry, and she feels that this is not a woman's righteousness and unwilling to teach. Daiyu's banquet said something wrong, and she trained Daiyu behind her, saying that poetry and articles were not their own post, and she should be a female red needle.

The maturity of Baodi makes the elders praise, as if the children of others in the mouth of their parents, but for more children, the better the children of others, the more abominable and hateful, because they are not comparable. I might not look at it.

In the end, it was too perfect and unrealistic, and people felt that Baodi was a bit false.

As Mother Jia said, her four girls are not as good as Bao girls. The treasures in Cao's writing are simply the perfect incarnation. It is difficult for us to pick out something wrong with her.

Characteristic, beautiful appearance, hidden foolishness, open -minded behavior, with the time of scores, knowledge, knowledge, and anger are not shaped. People.

But because Baodi is too perfect, it makes people feel unreal and make people feel a bit false. You see Daiyu, although the appearance is good, the style is beautiful, but she also loves to be thin. Look at Tanchun, although there are talents and ambitions, but she is very disgusted with her biological mother ...

As the saying goes, there is no redness and no one.As long as it is not a fairy, it is difficult for people to be perfect.But we couldn't pick up the problem from Baodi, and the perfect one was a bit terrible.A person has both obvious advantages and the shortcomings that cannot be covered.About because of the emperor's family, Baodi not only matured prematurely, but also did not miss the water in doing things. It was a bit scary and it was difficult to get close.

Wang Xifeng said that she "don't do anything to do nothing, and ask her to shake her head and not know". These two sentences can basically be said to be a criterion for Baodi for life.These two sentences are both the wisdom of her life and the weapon of Ming Zhe.

The cold and precocious in the bones of Kebao, the merges of words and deeds, and the excessive perfection in the world. These seemingly advantages, although it is easy for her to gain secular recognition and praise, but it is difficult to make friends who are interested.That is not perfect.

Author: Xi Si Shao, this article is the original works of the Red Mansion.

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