A 211 college "Graduation Photo Princess" was ridiculed to the hot search: high education, really does not mean culture

Two things in hot search recently made me feel deeply.

The first thing is that a girl in a 2111 university in China has posted a graduation photo in Xiaowei.

The text is: "The graduation photo is called to the first row because of the dazzling dresses? What is the experience? It's so cool hahahahahaha."

In the picture, two girls in Disney princess skirts sit in the first row, one wearing a white snow princess skirt with a red bow on her head; the other yellow princess dress wearing Belle is very outstanding.

There are indeed only their brightest eye -catching in the crowd.

The girl who issued a graduation photo may think that she would harvest a lot of "rainbow farts", and did not expect that the development of the matter was unexpected.

A classmate who stood in the back row in this graduation photo posted such a post:

"I saw this photo sent by these two students today, and I didn't want it instantly."

He explained the shooting background of this graduation photo:

On the same day, the photographer who took the graduation photos looked at the two girls and called them to the first row, but did not pass the consent of any teacher.

There are five main reasons for his anger:

First, when the two students posted photos, they did not code other classmates, so that others would be reduced to the background wall.

Second, before taking graduation photos, we notified everyone's clothing that day to get daily and decent. Obviously, the dress of the two students was completely unsatisfactory.

Third, this is the most valuable photo of the entire college period. After hanging up at home, I can only see them at a glance every time.

Fourth, collective photos are not personal photos, and their behavior does not consider the feelings of others at all.

Fifth, the first row was the teachers who taught the students for four years, and the two students were still in the middle than the teacher.

As a result of this classmate's perspective, the whole thing is really uncomfortable.

At the graduation ceremony, your dazzling dazzling is your freedom.

But when taking collective photos, you must consider whether your behavior will affect others.

That's a college graduation photo where everyone takes only once in life. You have made the limelight, but what about others?

Why do others daily, decent, and decent, and why do others become green leaves?

Later, another student also came out of popularization:

These two girls are actually professional in clothing performance, and the graduation photos are the school school. Many people are not their classmates, and they don't even know them.

A special image of a netizen comments:

"Graduation photos of the people are still loud, just like going to eat strangers' wedding mats, and wearing big red clothes or small white wedding dresses."

Writer Liang Xiaosheng said a word:

"Culture is the cultivation rooted in the heart, without the consciousness of reminders, the freedom of restraint, the kindness you think for others."

Obviously, although these two girls are not low, they do not have a real culture.

Sometimes a person's cultural literacy does not look at how high his education is, or how much he talks about vomiting, but to see if he is in the same life.

The second thing is the "Nanjing University of Science and Technology Poor Students" that has recently caused heated discussion on social platforms.

In 2016, the proportion of poor students at Nanjing University of Science and Technology was about 28%.

Many students with poor families are unwilling to apply for poverty -relief.

Because those cumbersome processes, such as applications, reviews, and publicity are publicly carried out, will inevitably hurt the self -esteem of some students.

How to do it?

Nanjing University of Technology came up with such a trick and used big data analysis:

Students who eat more than 60 times a month in the cafeteria and less than 420 yuan have been quietly listed as the target of funding.

In other words, lunch and dinner are almost eaten in the school cafeteria, but each meal does not exceed 7 yuan. Such students are indeed financially difficult.

They may be a vegetarian dish with rice, and then some free soups. Occasionally, they are extravagant on weekends and order a meat vegetable.

This part of the poor students do not need to review or publicize. The school directly put the subsidy money into their rice cards.

This is the calm and kindness, the warmth of thinking in other places.

Because they know their distress, they are compassionate and can stand on their standpoint and think for them.

Compared with these two incidents, he made a judgment.

Some people only care about themselves, and they do not consider the feelings of others, so they have caused a series of verbal words.

While helping others, some people have left their decentness and dignity for others, and they have been praised by netizens.

I like a word very much:

"The warmth between people is not a big event. It is just a matter of thinking about the deduction of thinking, a kind of pushing yourself and the kindness of people."

The writer's cowhide said that something about his friends was clearly said.

My friend is a famous investor in Shanghai. Because of work reasons, there are relatively high requirements for personal image.

He wore a high -priced suit every day, and the tie and cuffs are also carefully matched.

But every time he meets his classmates, he will put on an ordinary T -shirt, put a good car in the garage, and take a taxi.

Although it has been more than 20 years after graduation, the relationship between classmates is still as comfortable and natural as when she was a student.

Someone asked the friend why he was dressed like this every time he attended a classmate party.

He said that most of the old classmates were not as good as themselves, not because they did not work hard or have poor luck.

It is because he was born in Shanghai. Parents are the first successful businessmen in Shanghai, and their starting point is higher than many classmates. Choose to replace the expensive suit and take a taxi to meet with my classmates. I do n’t want to feel bad feelings to have a psychological gap.

There is such a point in "Weakness of Humanity":

The essence of high emotional intelligence is to think about the problem from the perspective of the other party.

The so -called high emotional quotient is not how good you are, but you are pretending to be someone else in your heart, which can take care of the feelings of others.

I have seen a "OPV thinking method" on the Internet, which is very inspiring to me.

OPV is also Other People ’s Views, which means" the view of others ".

In the process of thinking, we should consciously attract attention to the other people involved in the problem as much as possible to see and understand the thoughts of others.

The more comprehensive the factors, the more thorough the thinking will be, the more reliable the decision to make.

OPV thinks about three principles:

1. Whether you agree with or not, you should consider the views of others.

2. Each view may be correct for their holders, but it is not necessarily correct to use it for others.

3. Be able to distinguish the differences between viewpoints.

You must set yourself in the position of others, experience their feelings, and speculate on their views.

This method is also shared with everyone. I hope we can all have the cultivation rooted in the heart. There is no need to remind the consciousness, the freedom of restrictions, and the kindness we think for others.

mutual encouragement.

Author: Little Coconut, hello, I am a small coconut from a unique perspective, and I will cognitively upgrade with you every day. Public account: Little Coconut Column (ID: xiaoyezizhuanlan), welcome to follow.

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