Love in the era of SMS

Wen | Pan Xuan

Edit | Tao Ruogu

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Mu Xin wrote in "Slow of the past":

In the past, the Japanese color became slower / car, horse, mail slowly / only love for one person in life.

In the early 1990s, when the world's first text message in the world was issued in the GSM network of Walto, the United Kingdom, the e -book letter began to deeply intervene in human hidden and tender emotional life.

The crowded text appears on a square screen, and one line can only display six or seven characters. Sometimes it can not keep up with the folding speed, and you have to press back. In 2000, the number of SMS in China has reached 1 billion throughout the year, and the number of this number turned 900 times after twelve years. At that time, the verification code and consumption records of the row of mountains were not crowded with mobile mailboxes, and people injected time and energy into a text message of dime. Ten years later, the era of the former smart machine seemed to be far away as a century. In the era when we no longer rely on pen and ink, stamps and long -distance transportation, using text messages to express love is a romantic and serious thing.

In 2008, Hunan, waveguide mobile phone

@韩 Han Wei

"In the middle of the lake, there is a wandering boat. I want to drift into your arms." "The lake in my arms is turbulent, I am afraid that you will turn the boat inside and drown."

36 -year -old Han Wei now has a stable work in the system. In 2008, he was studying in Hunan and the legal department.

In the "History of Foreign Legal System", he met Jiaqian in a class report on the Germanic habitual law.

After the exchange number, a SMS pursuit of the offensive began.

The combat tool is a "waveguide" card with a straight, color screen, and block type.

At the moment when Huawei, vivo, and OPPO occupy the top three mobile phones, few people know that the famous sayings of Zhao Benshan and Song Dandan in the 2007 Spring Festival Gala.

It comes from a slogan of "waveguide "-" Boicao mobile phone, fighter in mobile phones. "

Han Wei's text message comes from emotional magazines in various cities.

In the journal reading room on the third floor of the school library, he often moved the emotional quotes of "Youth Digest" and the soul chicken soup at the bottom of the "Reader" page to the mobile phone draft box.

Once, he sent the other party: In the middle of the lake, there was a wandering boat, and I wanted to drift into your arms.

The other party returned: The lake in my arms was turbulent, and I was afraid that you would turn the boat inside and drowned.

Han Wei felt that he was a bit stupid at that time.

He also moved out of the lines in "Looking for the Qin": Tianyou Xingxi has light, and Xin Yuejun knows it.

The other party is a girl who is directly generous and direct. She can't stand this kind of literary cavity. She spit through the screen: What do you like to be so embarrassed, you might as well say, I want to sleep you.

In the era of hormones, most of the young men and women who expressed their expressions seemed to seek ready -made templates like Han Wei.

"Give you some sunlight, you will be brilliant. You will flood for you to flood." It is a popular choice for Valentine's Day SMS template in 2008.

The national mobile phone users exceeded 600 million that year, and 344.13 billion text messages were sent in half a year.

Screenshot of Zhiming and Chunjiao

At that time, Han Wei's living expenses were 600 in January, and the text message was one -grown. He recorded a maximum record of 1500 a month.

In order to save money, the number of words of 70 words is often full, and unnecessary punctuation is also saved.

The touch screen phone has not appeared, and the fingers have trained the blind hand speed between the Jiugongge keys.

The sending key is best to press at 3 or four afternoon after meals or no class.

In the evening, I wanted to ask Jiaqian to come out to eat, and Han Wei posted, "I didn't eat at noon, and the cafeteria was too bad. Either you accompany me to eat Northeast dumplings in the afternoon."

Or I want to study together and post, "I haven't read a book today, do you study at night? Take me together."

There was a rainy day when he was about to graduate. For more than ten hours, Han Wei's text message ringtone did not sound. He kept looping his mobile phone, putting his mobile phone, and pulling a mobile phone.

Lying on the hard board bed in the bedroom at night, it was also over and over, for fear that there would be missed calls and text messages.

At that time, he was preparing to graduate defense, and Jiaqian had found a job in Shanghai to pass the internship in advance.

In the WeChat era, "the opponent is input" wiped out the waiting and mystery.

At that time, when I waited for the text message, I was always looking forward to the sound of "Ding". Han Wei said, "I'm afraid it won't come, I will be afraid."

In the middle of the night, Jiaqian finally called: I was too busy at work and forgot to reply, I took a cold and fell asleep.

Han Wei was at ease.

The generation of parents, communication letters meant to exchange sincerity, and he also valued every "electronic letter".

After graduating from the senior year, he arrived at the separate intersection.

Jia Qian has to stay in the magic capital of his heart, Han Wei's admission to Fudan fails.

One night, he told his girlfriend's thoughts: go to Shanghai together.

And Jiaqian refused, she depicted the life she wanted after graduation: living in a high -end community, driving luxury cars, and affording two carat diamonds to marry her-

And this kind of life can not provide it, there is no need to go to Shanghai.

Jia Qian in Han Wei's eyes has always been the kind of people who never hide their desires.

After that night conversation, the two did not show their hands.

Douban users are getting frozen and irritable Picture/network

Jiaqian was not well mixed in Shanghai. She was doing securities sales. In order to rush the business, she borrowed tens of thousands of pieces of futures, and she almost lost all of them. Han Wei replied: There are eighty -nine things that are unsatisfactory in life, and there will always be some happy things.

However, Jiaqian's emotions disappeared after venting. He repeated the last text message over and over again, fearing that she did not see it, but often did not respond, such as the stone fell into the deep pool.

"It is your business for love or not. I use all my stupid and thoughts to change you with a smile and a nod."

After three years with such a mentality, Han Wei even hacked all the contact information of Jiaqian, but still couldn't break it.

Until 2011, another girl he liked broke into his life.

In March of that year, the MSN blog space officially announced the offer, and Han Wei's blog wrote all Jiaqian.

The system reminds that if the data is not transferred, it will be lost.

On the day of the day, Han Wei browsed all the texts from beginning to end, and he was cruel, and did not choose "moving" backup.

When I went to see the next day, the memory completely disappeared in the blog space.

In the past three years, he changed a few mobile phones, but the old "waveguide" had been lying in the drawer for later use, and the draft box still kept text messages.

On the day when MSN disappeared, on the side of the Xiangjiang River, he put the "waveguide" into a plastic bottle, afraid of being picked up by others, and put stones in it.

"Guru--" The plastic bottle sank into the bottom of the river. "I decided to say goodbye to the past." Han Wei said.

In 2005, Xi'an, Nokia 3300

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"Don't tease (kissing) me like last time, scared." "OK"

Sixteen years ago, the "Nokia 3300", which looks like a game handle with a price of more than 2,000 yuan, is the most fashionable device in the sophomore student Sun Zhan.

64G memory foot can talk about a luxurious love--

There is no need to save numbers, and there is no need to delete SMS because the space is not enough.

Sun Zhan rarely publishes a long story. Even if he is ready to confess downstairs in the dormitory, the SMS is simple and neat: is it in the dormitory? Wait for the balcony.

The recipient is a classmate next door to Quan Zhixian, who resembles the "barbaric girlfriend".

At that time, Yan Wenzi was the popular symbol of the auxiliary passage: -^= means "hum!", -3 = is "dear!", Sun Far often used-, "helpless" meaning.

"Quan Zhixian" bet with him, and in the northern cities such as Xi'an, it is pure hope that fireworks can be seen. If you can see it, you can be together.

Sun Duan, who was in the wild, did not believe in evil. He went to the village shops in the city to buy seven or eight. In the small garden behind the girl's dormitory, fireworks and love arrived at the same time.

In Xi'an in 2005, the e -sports club WE, which was famous across the country, was dormant in an Internet cafe called "Unicom Net Garden".

When the legendary player Sky Li Xiaofeng won the WCG, Sun Byn was doing professional e -sports dream in the We Second Team.

The competition in other areas is basically sweeping, and a lot of bonuses can be received, and they are more economical.

Nokia 3300. Picture/network

Sun Bang grew up in his parents' units since he was a child. He was used to the collective life with rivers and lakes in "Sunny Days", and spent a lot of money for "Quan Zhixian".

On the Jade City of Kunming, he met a amber about 17 cm, and the transparent crystal was embedded with a piece of insect wings.

"The formation of amber should be hundreds or tens of millions of years." Sun Byn thought of his girlfriend at once, and he had more than 3,000 cash in his pocket.

At that time, Pizza Hut was still Shixing's dating place, and the self -service salad was heated.

Tianya and everyone are everywhere on the Internet.

The secrets of Sun Zhan and his girlfriend are: the first layer of hard melon, papaya and other hard fruits to basement, fill the soft fruits one by one, and put some grapes at the top.

Four years later, Pizza Hut stopped the self -service salad business, and Sun Bang broke up with his girlfriend.

Love is unsustainable in reality.

Girlfriend is a typical "first generation of only children". When they made mistakes, no one was willing to apologize first, and often quarreled.

After breaking up in the middle, after the reunion, Sun Bin no longer regards the love text message to Ruo Treasure, and his girlfriend complained, "Can you not delete my text message again, you didn't delete it before."

He deleted text messages and could not accept his girlfriend's betrayal.

Once, when Sun Barn self -study, he accidentally hits his girlfriend's ordinary notebook.

Open it and find out that the two -person text messages recorded by the date ——

During the love, Sun Bang liked to hide in the dark when she was running for a girlfriend, and suddenly kissed her:

"Don't tease (kissing) me like last time, scared." "OK"

But next time he still does.

Douban netizens shared the two text messages from the excerpts of themselves. Picture/network

After a formal breakup, at a classmate party, Sun Fan glanced at the "Quan Zhixian" with the amber necklace on his neck, and there was an indescribable idea in his heart.

In that graduation season, he and his friends drilled into the Huimin Street and drilled out, drunk, drunk, and squeak.

Others thought they cried again and again for the sake of brotherhood. Only he knew who he had shed tears, "the intention of the drunkard was not wine. But the dignity of a man."

In the next ten years, Sun Bin went to Xi'an several times. Each time he stepped into this city, "Quan Zhixian" will inevitably emerge from his memory.

Sun Bin later talked about some girlfriends, but it was difficult to find the kind of fearlessness. The village in the city next to the university was dismantled. Now it is a residential area, and the living regulations grow from here.

Looking at the family of three in and out of the community, for a moment, Sun Fan fantasized that if there was no breakup, maybe they would also live such a simple life.

In 2014, Inner Mongolia, the old Nokia

@ @陈

"I was in the north, you are in the south, and you are more than 1700 kilometers apart. If there is no network, there is no letter, what should I do?" "N 55! W!"

In the era when instant messaging software comprehensively declared victory, the old -fashioned function machine opened a hidden channel for emotional communication for high school students in the wall.

In 2014, Chen Orange was in the second year of high school in a boarding school in Baotou. There is an old NOKIA who does not know the model.

At 00:00 on May 20th, a dozen confession text messages were poured into the mobile phone.

Obviously it was a carefully planned by her boyfriend, Chen Orange smirked for a long time at the screen.

Chen Orange mathematics was not good. I always asked my gay table, and her boyfriend began to learn mathematics crazy.

"I don't want you to ask other boys." The two were next to their heads and squeezed in a small draft paper to study mathematics.

After the late self -study, the classroom to the dormitory building was more than 300 meters. They mixed in the crowd and secretly hooked their shoulders.

The sneaky early love made Chen Orange sending hundreds of text messages every month, fearing that he was discovered by his parents, and he had to delete it before returning home.

It is very meaningful, so I took it with my mother's smartphone and uploaded it to QQ space.

Using the intelligent machine, Chen Orange needs to endure NOKIA's unsightly:

The screen can only display six or seven words. Sometimes the home key is too much, the eyes cannot keep up with the folding speed, and you have to press back.

Boyfriend confess a text message planned by Chen Orange. Picture/Chen Orange

But sometimes when you talk about the future, there will always be answers other than Chen Orange's expectations: civil servants.

And Chen Orange wanted to go to the south to break through, it seemed to be the first fork of love.

Over time, Chen Orange discovered more forks between the two.

The most collapsed was that she had never spent one Valentine's Day with only two.

"He and his friends worshiped the Qixi Festival. Every time he was a group of friends, I was a girl at the scene."

Sometimes the bureau is scattered, and her boyfriend also asked her friend to send her home because "I want you and my brother to be like a family."

The university Chen Orange passed the south.

The boyfriend stayed in Inner Mongolia. Once I bought a 18 -hour station ticket from Hohhot and traveled through more than half of China to see her.

But Chen Orange was not touched. "May 1 peak, he had to buy tickets in advance. He kept hesitating, and when he wanted to come, he just moved himself." He just moved himself. "

Later, the two broke up.

A few months later, Chen Orange received a record of classmates sent by her boyfriend, recording all kinds of love for four years.

It mentioned that the train:

"Originally I was in the north, you were in the south, and it was more than 1700 kilometers apart. If there was no network, there was no letter, what should I do? It is difficult to imagine the power of the ancient people's thoughts. One train and one rail can run through two worlds. In fact, I just complete it. Two steps: entering Hohhot Station and getting out of Nanjing Station. It adds up to hundreds of steps. I only took a few hundred steps to you! "

Faced with these words written on paper, Chen Orange looked once and burst into tears.

She lamented, "Thanks to him, I can have a complete youth, even if the ending is not so beautiful."

They were together on September 22, 2013.

After breaking up, the three numbers of "922" frequently squeezed into the various moments of Chen Orange -occasionally glanced on the screen lock password on the bus, which is "922";

The order number of a long string is just staring at the "922"; even the time when the WeChat chat list ended with a friend to end the chat, it was 9:22.

"I feel that I am stunned." Chen Orange said.

In the first New Year after the breakup, Chen Orange sent a circle of friends: "N 55! W!" The seven -year buzzword from this archeology was "i miss u".

Boyfriend wrote to Chen Orange's classmates. Picture/Chen Orange

In 2010, Sichuan, iPhone4

@ @任 任

"I hope I can go to more places together to see more scenery." "Do you like me?"

Ren Shuang is a Sichuan girl who burst into temper.

The first meeting with Duchamp was at a friend's house.

It was 2010. Ren Shuang was still in the freshman year. Duchamp has graduated from work. He just resigned from a Internet company in Guangzhou and was going to travel to Tibet.

Duchai wears white T, jeans, and a strong Cantonese cavity.

Ren Shuang didn't notice the programmer in the corner at all.

Until a trip.

Their co -friend organization went to Qizanggou near Jiuzhaigou to play, five days and seven nights, through the "unmanned area".

The two people with poor physical strength were dropped, leaving only one bottle of water and two scholarship. Duchamps gave Ren Shuang all the scholarship, and formed a revolutionary friendship.

Ren Shuanggao was serious, Duchang also burned the water to help her wash her feet, and the two felt ambiguous at the same time.

After finishing the trip, Ren Shuang received a text message: I hope I can go to more places together to see more scenery.

One day later, she asked Duchamp directly at the door of a friend's house: "Do you like me?"

In 2010, Ren Shuang and her boyfriend were in Qizanggou. Photo/Ren Shuang

Love is ten years.

In the first three and a half years, the frequency of twenty or thirty SMS daily maintained a love of more than 1,500 kilometers.

The scorching sun, windy, heavy rain, heavy snow, muddy, rapid flow, high mountains, but you have you with you ... de AMO MUCHO (Spanish: I love you) !!!

Duchamp often sends such a text message that pays attention to the layout. Later, when she entered the era of WeChat, Ren Shuang felt that communication became rough and streamlined, and sometimes a expression package could be replaced.

In ten years of love, they rarely have fierce contradictions.

For a while, Ren Shuang had a lot of acne on his face. Du Shang said that it was caused by spicy food. Sichuan girl was upset, "I have been eating peppers since the age of six! Pepper is innocent! Do you have watched medical sciences? ? "

After a while, her mobile phone received a stick comic:

The angry girl turned her eyes and turned her eyes. She was a curved arc with her mouth, and a few erected hair was described on the head. The following five characters: I am a gas bag.

She also drew a back to her boyfriend as a counterattack, and after a few rounds, he reconciled.

After the quarrel, the boyfriend posted a comic. Photo/Ren Shuang

From the perspective of outsiders, ten years of different places often mean unevenness.

But Ren Shuang felt that the length of time is never a necessary condition for love.

During the difficult time during the study period, the two -degree Ren Shuang's two graduation thesis collision periods, the pressure burst into a small glass of Spain's high alcohol to sleep every day.

Duchamp always sent text messages to comfort: In adversity, we will be able to resolve this dilemma!

In 2018, they went to Qizanggou again.

Still the original route: starting from the ditch and crossing a diagonal line.

Chatting next to the fire in the evening, Ren Shuang and Duchamps lamented each other, "their physique was worse."

Eight years ago, I took a picture on a fork. This time I re -engraved one -Qing Shi retired, mountaineering equipment is more expensive, and more determined to feel.

After the Valentine's Day and anniversary, the two will send the improved version of the love text message:

It's not to see a lot of different scenery, but to see it with the same person.

Last year, the two went to Kanas to drive by themselves, and Duchamp suddenly proposed.

Both cars and rooms were bought, and only one marriage certificate was missing.

But Duchamp has just come out of the original company to start a business, and the only thing he is worried about is this.

Ren Shuang replied: "It's really impossible to raise you."

In 2018, we re -traveled to Qizanggou. Photo/Ren Shuang

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