In 1993, girls ate a few pounds of vegetables, wearing 10 yuan vegetable market clothes: how to balance reality and desire

If you are 29 years old, you have n’t been at work for 4 years, will you be anxious?

If you get a month of living with your husband only 1,500 yuan a month after getting married?

If you live a few cents of pounds of stalls of vegetables, would you be aggrieved in the life of 10 pieces of vegetable market clothes?

If you often go to the supermarket to choose the time of time, and go to the community to pick up the furniture that others do not need, will you feel embarrassed?

These "if" sound incredible, but some people are choosing such a life independently, and many netizens also say: very healing.

This is a 93 -year -old girl, her name is Hi Hi Sen.

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In the interview of "Character", Li Hi Sen told:

"I now think that people are living very simple.

If you are obviously painful and even affect your mental health, but you still don't want to leave, then I think you may think of survival too difficult.

I think you want to save it at this moment, don't give birth at this moment too painfully.

After half a year of resignation, we got married, did not put wine, and did not buy a ring. We lived together in the resettlement house after the demolition.

On the weekend, the two of us went to visit the vegetable market together to buy the dishes that we had to eat this week. If it arrived before 7 o'clock, there will be a stall at the entrance of the market. One or two dollars of dishes and a few cents of radish can be bought. Our laundry liquid we use a domestic brand, and it is probably one more money and a pound.

Many of my clothes are bought back from the clothes stalls in the vegetable market. A pile of clothes are placed on the table 10 yuan a piece of casual picking. It looks not good -looking, but it is very comfortable to wear. I will pick the cotton content. More than 60 %.

My current life, sleeping naturally every morning, is sometimes awakened by my cat. In the morning, I will finish the housework at home, wash clothes, dry clothes, feed cats, wash the bowl of last night, and clean up a little bit after seeing it.

What needs to be stroked than eating is a bite. It is a feeling that someone loves you, which will make you feel that the whole world is very secure.

... ...

If I will die tomorrow, I will live like this today. "

After reading her telling, I felt that my head was opened, as if Hongchen had already entered the empty door.

That is, you will feel a kind of peace that is close to the nature of the Buddha. Even if the outside world is noisy, you still can't afford the emotional waves. This is a feeling that really lives into your own.

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Have you found it?

Although this world does not stipulate what kind of person you become, most of us have long been in the heart: buy a house, buy a famous car, buy a brand, send your children to training class, and send children to study ...

We have do everything possible to become an excellent person. We have no time to think about what we really need?

We take the three questions about "where I come from", "Where to go", and "how to go" as a ridiculous joke.

We put the dreams of others on our own head, and then pierced a mammoth into the water. We thought it was what we wanted, because the people around us were like this.

I also take the postgraduate entrance examination when I see someone else's postgraduate entrance examination;

I heard that programming is arranged for the first time, and you cannot lose on the starting line;

I heard that learning film and television can become a slanting teenager in the later period. With a lot of amateur income, he hurriedly signed up.

We are all too fast, as if being walked away by the flood.

Maybe we need a little time to think about the lifestyle we really need.

Lin Moge from Shanghai commented under the article:

There are quite a lot of girls in the text, and it is easy to feel happy from the subtle place. The blue sky and white clouds, gorgeous sunset, oil -green trees in the sun, the gentle spring breeze blowing from the window, smelling the fragrance of camphor trees in the air in the early summer, the cool night wind in summer, and the aroma of gardenia flowers in June. Like to cook, enjoy cooking, like to eat all kinds of delicious fruits, colorful fruits are placed in a beautiful plate is a pleasing scenery. The food is always cured. When you smell watermelon, the aroma of peaches, sweet potatoes, and corn feels happy. Too much too much, it is easy to experience happiness and beauty from such small details.

Li Min from Guangdong also expressed his views:

Simple life, with inner richness and calmness, is the goal that my child was initially set when I was 2 years old after I was 30 years old. I used to read a lot of spiritual and philosophical books for half a year, looking for the so -called interpretation of the current interpretation. I listed it seriously in the notebook. What is the moment and thing of my happiness and things after my elementary school, middle school, and university? In the last hundred items listed, I found that there were no more than 10 ones related to money. Most of them were related to reading, food, walking, and casual community streets. I am also calm. I understand that the calm mentality may be more important than anything. Simple life is the mainstream of life. Especially in the past two years after the epidemic, people know more about the meaning of simple life.

Hishiko from Beijing also tells his own opinions:

I can't do it, I will be anxious without a job. I like to find a sense of security and happiness in my work. Doing good things is more important to me. My desire is also relatively large. I like Mercedes -Benz and Villa. In fact, what she is enviable is not less money, it is clearly knowing what she wants and can get it. This is happiness. If I will not be happy to live this kind of life, I will be very painful. I think people's life must be vigorous, there must be legends, make a lot of money, and fresh every day. If I die tomorrow, I will want to make hot air balloons, dive, climb Mount Everest, kiss the person who loves the first time, go to volunteer, drink Ganges water, climb every high mountain, meet love during the journey, And dying on the road, this is the life I want. Lin Moge, Li Min, and Xixi I believe that these three expressions are all words of the heart, and from these three views, I understand the diversity of happiness, and happiness is different.

There is a "natural" happiness like Lin Moe, and found a little bit of a bit of a bit of life around him, slowly enjoying life, smiling for a flower open, and pleasing to a wind.

There is a "practical" happiness like Li Min, actively thinking about what is happiness, and using the facts to prove what he really needs.

There is a "clear type" happiness like Hishiko. At the beginning, he knew what he wanted, and then spared no effort to struggle, blood and youth, crazy and energetic.

In fact, this is a diverse society. Since this world can't find the same person, naturally there is no sense of happiness, so happiness is from his own heart.

And Hishiko's phrase deserves our thoughts: In fact, what she is enviable is not less money, but clearly knowing what she wants and can get it. This is happiness.

I recognize this sentence unconditionally.

The Buddha said seven bitterness: greed, 嗔, infatuation, resentment, love, love, cannot ask for glory.

If you study it carefully, you will find that you all want to find it.

Therefore, "want" and "can get" must be complementary, this is the ultimate extremely happy bottom line.

So the question is, will you reflect on real and dream?

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Zengjin, I was a chicken -blooded baby, and when I saw the heroic ambitions, it was like I also inserted the wings of soaring.

I particularly like the bold and enthusiastic sentences.

Like in "The Demon of the Near": I can't help but be a god.

Like the Biography of Goku: If I become a Buddha, there is no magic in the world; if I become a demon, what is the Buddha. If the sky presses me, split this day; if the earth is detained, and the place is broken.

Very arrogant, bloody, as if a wave of hugs, he can get a hole in the sky, but have you found it?

They are not "people".

People are very fragile. Once a failure can make us unable to look up for a lifetime; a mistake can make us regret; an impulse can eat and live for more than ten years.

Life really can't carry a big mistake. I used to admire those entrepreneurial people. Why are they so embarrassed?

Later, he was also a boss. He opened a second -rate western restaurant. It was really aggrieved to die.

In the face of reality and desires, it is really important for ordinary people to enter and measure. Do n’t play blindly without thousands of miles. The price is too high. Sometimes the pressure of liabilities and loans really makes you feel that life has no hope.

The post -80s and 90s are the generations of the boss's dream of taking off. They are extremely eager for freedom and success. They are excited and bloody. They think that the fighting may become a BMW.

But the dream is beautiful, the reality is rough, and you are more likely to be a negative wife/Weng.

Do you remember this sentence in "East Evil Poison"?

“每个人都会经过这个阶段，见到一座山，就想知道山后面是什么，我很想告诉他，到了那边，你会发现没什么特别，回头看过来，可能会觉得这边更好，但I know he won't believe it. "

In a word: If you have one million, take 40%to nourish your dream. If you fail, you will withdraw it. Do not care about the cost of sinking. Time to close the money in time can save you half of the money.

Desire and reality are two mountains, you choose the one that can be climbed, after all, insignificant development is not so easy to die.

Author: Qin Qingqing Qingqing, a member of the readers. Qinqi poetry and paintings are all like, and Chai Mi oil and salt are also happy.

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