Three doors in front of success, which one do you choose?

Text | Snow in Molan

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I have seen such a fun question.

How can the four of the same bottle be placed so that the distance between any two bottle mouths is equal?

Some people say that the four bottles are placed on the four corners of the square;

Some people also questioned that the diagonal line of the square is greater than the side length, so it is not established.

So what method can solve this problem?

It turned out that the three bottles were placed on the three vertices under the triangle cone, and then the fourth bottle was "inverted" and placed on the fourth vertex of the positive triangle cone, and the answer came out.

This is the blind spots we often say.

There is a saying good: "I always dare to think and do things in reverse, and life granary may be full."

Therefore, when things fall into a dead cycle, only when the thinking mode is changed can we break through the siege and the path of life will become wider and wider.

Don't press the routine, it is the best routine

A professor asked him a question.

A deaf man went to the hardware shop to buy a nail. He first held his left hand with nails, placed it on the counter, and then moved his right hand.

The clerk first handed him a hammer, and he shook his head and pointed his fingers with a nail -shaped finger. This time the clerk was right. At this time, there was a blind man.

The professor asked: "How will this blind man buy a scissors in the simplest way?"

"Compare it with your hands!" "Write on the paper!" The students replied.

The professor said, "In fact, the blind man can say it."

Many times, we often unconsciously fall into a single -dimensional thinking blind spot, accustomed to solving problems with conventional ideas. As everyone knows, it is your "follow -up".

For example, when we are taking pictures, we always count "1, 2, 3", and most people will try to open our eyes as much as possible.

Then, if you use the method of reverse Siwei, let everyone close their eyes until they shout "3, 2, 1", and then open their eyes together, the problem will be solved.

Take another example.

An uncle bought an apple and picked three. The stall owner said, "One pound and a half, twelve pieces."

The uncle said, "It's so much." After speaking, remove the largest apple.

The stall owner glanced at the scale and said, "One pound, two, two, nine pieces and seven."

At this time, I saw the uncle who took out two pieces of three cents, picked up the big apple that had just been removed, and turned away.

While praising the uncle's wit, he couldn't help but make people sigh. You can turn the passive situation without trying not to play cards in the routine.

I've heard such a sentence:

"Originally, I went to the desert to see the sand. It was water to see the water by the sea.

Expand the radius of thinking, face every one dare not dare

Li Yinuo has shared his own experience in her new book "Where Comes from the Power":

As a single family, she lived with her mother since she was a child. After growing up, Yinuo, like us, dare not dare:

In the workplace, I want to be a partner to find supporters, and at the same time, my heart is very contradictory:

I feel that in order to promote myself, I do n’t do business well, but to pull the relationship, there is always a sense of shame for fame and fortune. At the same time, in addition to being disappointed, people who are uncomfortable in work just want to escape;

In life, he has been married to his husband for eight years, and he dare not want children to think of your growth process really meaningful?

Later, what she brought her to her thinking was a paragraph that her friend said:

"In the company, no one can see your achievements. At this time, what you have to do is to say what you do.

The promotion is just to have a greater influence and realize what you think is persistent and right. If you choose to escape, even if you reach other companies, you will also face similar situations.

As for children, if you think that the world is not good enough, how do you know that your child is not a person who changes this world? After all, the change of this world depends on people to promote it! "

This in -depth conversation made Li Yinuo completely solve the knot.

Today, Li Yinuo is not only the mother of the three children, but also Rong Deng's most influential business woman in China in 2020.

I wonder if you find it: Many times, whenever the opportunity comes, we always fall into a "trap" of our own thinking, always let "if ... what will happen" controls our lives. After the determination is made, the opportunity has long been a little bit a little bit a little bit. Pass the vertical.

As Yinuo said in the book:

"When one thing happens, it is often not the matter itself, but that after seeing this, we continue to 'imagine' '" interpretation "in the future."

Think about it, it is true.

There are too many things to "do" in life, because they are self -denied because of their inner thinking disorders.

Therefore, in the face of every one who dares, the best way is to turn to face it before you can open up a new path in the ups and downs.

Do not take the common path, can you have a open life

In the past, we are always used to quoting the old thinking mode: if you want to succeed, we try to make up for our own deficiencies, or avoid the development of the field that is not good at.

In fact, a person's achievement is often determined by his advantages and disadvantages. It is a good example to have more than 8 million fans.

In the video, he did not avoid the fact that he was young at a young age, and generously displayed in front of the camera. With the strong shape before and after the change, he turned into a handsome man with a handsome national style.

Prior to the post -90s, Chu Qi, like most ordinary people, under the arrangement of parents, holding a stable salary and living at 3 o'clock every day.

In a chance, I came into contact with the circle of ancient style photography.

The friends of his peers said with a smile that his facial features had a shadow of Leslie Cheung. In a joke, Chu Qi realized that his life may have another choice.

He used bald regrets to enlarge the effect of high value through filter, makeup, wigs and other shapes. With the appearance of "East Evil Poison" Ouyang Feng and other styles, he has been recognized by netizens online.

There are very few people who can take the initiative to admit that the shortcomings, and there are only a handful of people who face the shortcomings and can make up for it. As for those who can turn the shortcomings into an advantage, it is even more precious.

Think of a paragraph written by best -selling writer Alex Banner in "Third Door":

"Successful people usually have three doors to choose from:

The first door is the main gate, and 99%of people choose to line up;

The second door is the entrance of the VIP, and the rich man and celebrities enter quietly from here. However, few people know in fact;

There is also the third door. To enter this door, you must get rid of the established route, explore all the way along the alley, knock on the door again and again, and even smash the glass and slip from the kitchen ... In short This door is about to take a different approach. "

Many people choose the first two doors to deduce according to the inherent cognitive framework. As a result, it takes time and strength, but the results are not great.

Only by daring to go the third door, the courage to turn into disadvantages, and make the original obstacles become an opportunity, can it make yourself unable to replace himself.

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Mengniu President Niu Gen Sheng once said: "No matter how the screw is designed, when the front is not twisted, the reverse will be opened."

When you can't figure out one thing, do it, and the answer comes out;

When you negate and doubt yourself, face it bravely, and things will be smooth;

When you are in the trough of life, you may wish to look at adversity with the other eyes, and the turnaround appears.

As long as you have the patience, you can open it in any way.

Today's topic

#Are you happy today? #

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