How to talk about

The words are always in the stomach

Emotions can't be vent, people will get sick

Picture/Xiao Zhenduo

In Chekhov's novel "Sorry", a driver named Jona had just died and wanted to talk to others in his heart. He couldn't find someone who could listen to him. In a hurry, thinking about his troubles, urging him to hurry up, don't say anymore. At the end of the story, the driver had to talk to his stomach to his horse. It listened carefully, as if to understand, so that the talker was a little comforted.

The words are always in the stomach, the emotions can't be vent, and people will get sick. Xiang Linyu in Lu Xun wrote her pain to the people in Luzhen again and again. Her son A Mao was gone, and when the threshold was peeled on the threshold, she was taken away by the wolf. She did not know that the wolf would go to the village Come ... She was immersed in regret, and after telling, her emotions should be temporarily eased, but her pain was too heavy. Before she released, the viewers had already abandoned the story and didn't want to listen anymore.

I told Xiang Linyu's story to a girl in elementary school. She didn't understand: Why can't those people listen well? But in reality, listening to the whole body and mind is a luxury. This little girl often feels that what she said is not heard by their parents, they only care about their own affairs.

I can't tell her that the encounter of others was originally a story. The sadness and joy of human beings are not in common. A sad story may still be shocked when the initial publication may be shocked. Love was ashamed. But once the story becomes old, the shock will disappear, and the irritable air grows. For those who do not have to be perfunctory, the spectators will clearly explain to abandonment. Even if it is a good person, it will be merciless. Most people are monsters who swallow information and like fresh stimuli.

There are many audiences on the Internet. Once someone exploded, he immediately gathered a large number of people and asked more clues to dig out. But whether it is a sad story or a peach -colored news, it will always be drowned by a new wave of stories. The people who were originally told could not manipulate the power of the Internet, and gradually became disgusted like Xianglin.

There was a sketch of the Spring Festival Gala. The old grandfather told "The Story of the Food Stamps" over and over again, recalling the matter of picking up food stamps that year. The hardest thing is "color difficulty". Repeating is a torture. If the grandson sitting on a needle felt, he must continue to do psychological construction to endure the old set of old sets. This sketch is very real. My grandfather also likes to talk about things when he was young. It seems that you have been glowing when you pass through the past, and you do n’t like it. It is still difficult to treat your own family, not to mention others.

There is a "blood case" caused by the "Blood" caused by "Water Margin". On the riverside restaurant, Li Yan suddenly sold the "female mother" with two fingers, and the girl immediately fainted to the ground. The reason was that the singer suddenly came to sing and interrupted the "many heroes in the chest in the chest. "". Song Jiang, Dai Zong, and others did not listen. Li Yan was very angry and was embarrassed to be more strange than himself, but sprinkled his breath on the disadvantaged girl. The consequences of not listening to others may be very serious. Fortunately, the singer girl is fine. Song Jiang lost 20 two silver to her parents.

The most gentle story I see is in Shi Tiesheng's article. It was a small story. The war was over. A young man returned to his hometown, but he heard that his fiancee had married to others and thought he had killed the battlefield. The young man's hand was extremely painful, so he left his hometown and wandered around. On the way, he sounded the trumpet, and the sound was gentle and sad. A king heard his signs and asked him to call him and ask him: Why is your number sad? Hands told his story to the king. The king listened to him very much, but did not marry his daughter as a big gift package like a fairy tale, but chose a special way -ask the people to listen to his stories.

From then on, day after day, as long as the number sounded, people surrounded him and listened silently. In this way, I do n’t know when, the sound of the small hand is no longer low and desolate. I don't know when, the sound of the name has begun to become cheerful, bright, and vibrant. Time and tenderness will heal, and music is more resistant to listening to the unchanged language. People get artistic enjoyment, and the emotions of the small hands are fixed in their complaints, which is really lucky.

Send 2022.8.1 Total Issue 1054 "China News Weekly" magazine

Magazine title: Why do you talk about

Author: Yan Yan

Capture: Wang Lin

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