At the age of 75, she patted you and said "it doesn't matter"

Author:Xindi Time:2022.07.29

I recently watched a Korean comprehensive, "Unexpected Journey".

The Korean actress Yin Ruzhen went to the United States to presented the Oscar awards and saw friends in the United States by the way.

The reason why I feel the surprise is that Yin Ruzhen, 75, really has many young friends.

In Yin Ruzhen's living room, there are often such pictures. Yin Ruzhen with white hair sitting in a group of young people with black hair.

You must have heard Yin Ruzhen's name.

She was 75 years old and took the best actress of Oscar last year. At the award ceremony, she forgive all Westerners who once called her name.

When he won the prize in the UK, he also disappeared.

In the eyes of young people in Korea, Yin Ruzhen was a national idol, and even thought a word called "Yin Yin", which means:

"Can't stop Yin Ruzhen's charm crazy penetration."

People like to listen to Yin Ruzhen, hoping to get some "life experience" and "warning words" from her.

For example, a young assistant director said:

"I always feel that it will be as good as 40 years old, but it will not."

But in Yin Ruzhen, you are hard to get the answer you want.

She always gives some "mourning" words--

"Life is betting on us everywhere."

"There is no need to do a plan in life, it will not be carried out according to the plan anyway."

"As long as you live, you will always have trouble."

But people still like to approach her, because she will still tell you in various ways:

"it does not matter."

I originally felt that it was reasonable to say that it didn't matter, because "it doesn't matter" usually followed some things, such as: good, successful, counterattack.

Yin Ruzhen did it, so she could say "it doesn't matter."

But whenever I know more about Yin Ruzhen, the more I find that her "it doesn't matter" is that even if it will not be good, will not succeed, and will not counterattack.

"The days still have to be spent a day,

You can't die. "

This is an old man. It can only be said after 75 years of life.

It will be finished, but it doesn't matter.

Every time I watched Yin Ruzhen's variety show, I was lamented that she lived and relaxed.

Nothing, nothing to do.

She is always wearing very comfortable clothes. When she goes out, she wraps a Birkin bag and in Converse shoes.

In her 70s, she is still very casual. The younger generation Li Ruizhen said that she "now drinks a lot of wine to smoke a lot of smoke."

Song Huiqiao will go to her to drink, and every time she is worried that she laughs deeper.

"I have thought she was cool since I was a child."

Although she has reached the tip of the pyramid in the actor industry, she does not like to talk about her achievements at all:

"I know, saying that my legend means that I am old!"

But I also wondered this relaxation authenticity.

Because at many moments, she is the most "tight" person.

After cooperating for many years, Luo Yingshi, a variety show, who has long been an old friend, said that she was like a horse racing. When she did things, she only rushed forward, regardless of other.

Before the United States was interviewed, Yin Ruzhen was worried that the other party would ask her about the historical background, so she wrote a thick stack of English notes in advance.

Luo Yingshi lamented:

"Senior predecessors are always living with the mentality of 'model students'."

It can be called South Korea as a questioner.

In 1984, 37 -year -old Yin Ruzhen divorced and returned to South Korea to perform, but it was difficult to find his own position in the former workplace.

At that time, one day before she filmed, she would memorize her line all night.

Others only memorize the lines, but in order to be familiar, she will recite the lines while doing the action.

When playing "The Man's Men in the Bathhouse", her role was a second -sister with a princess. She had to chant poems every day. She had to memorize a lot of poems besides her lines.

"It's just about to curse the poetry of the world!"

In the end, the director's team had a trust because she had a lot of lines but never NG.

I couldn't help feeling that Yin Ruzhen had a little rubber band texture: she would be tight, but after tight, she could relax immediately.

When watching Yin Ruzhen's variety show, the word "self -discipline" often appeared in the barrage.

She gets to exercise every day to maintain her physical strength;

If you want to shoot a magazine or attend the event, you will fast in advance;

She still has to curl her hair every day.

But once she left her work, she would relax immediately.

After Oscar, of course, you have to eat a bowl of instant noodles; wearing the simplest home uniforms at home, it does not matter if you don't change it for several days.

Moreover, she only tightened in the first half of the matter. Prepare and do their best to complete. But no matter whether it is good or bad, she is "okay."

I won the prize, that's my luck;

There are too many trophy, all placed in the basement;

When the awards were awarded the wrong gesture, oops!

In her opinion, it doesn't matter if there is no result, because, because,

"I know how much life is lucky."

I even think that Yin Ruzhen may have said many times in love.

She used to be the kind of person who had a strong love and enthusiasm.

In 1971, the 24 -year -old Yin Ruzhen won the best actress of the major awards such as the Act and Qinglong, and he was well known in the Han Dynasty. But on the day of Christmas on the same year, she took a plane to the United States and got married. "At that time in South Korea, after the actress was married, the experience as an actor was over."

But Yin Ruzhen did not regret it at all. She was born in 1947, and her father died before she was ten, and her mother worked hard to pull the whole family. Like most women at the time, her dream was to become a "ordinary housewife of a happy family".

She doesn't like the "actor industry" of a swimming decoration magazine, and she is ashamed that she has not been admitted to her favorite university. She found a husband who was very good in her eyes, Zhao Yingnan.

Zhao Yingnan's family is very good, he is a singer and painter.

"Because I can't sing, I chose him as a singer. Because I have no talent, I chose him with talent."

Life after marriage was once sweet, "just like the life of people in fairy tales."

Like ordinary happy couples, they tell stories to children who are ready to sleep, take the children to the amusement park, and hang curtains together ...

Yin Ruzhen even used the mood of "presenting the stars he took off" to grind beans for her husband and make tofu. Because the United States can't buy it.

But the final result was the derailment of the husband. In the end, I even brought Xiaosan back to the house and said, "I want her to live with us, and I can also be your husband and the father of the children."

The discouraged Yin Ruzhen decided to divorce.

Neighbors in the United States are very heartbroken, so why do you like to separate? Korean friends also persuaded, you can bear it again.

But Yin Ruzhen couldn't bear it. She got the custody of the two children and returned to South Korea. Desperate acting to make money. Say in variety shows:

"I have never moved again after that, because I can never think of anything else besides making money to raise children."

In the later life, she was determined to forget that life, and even never mentioned:

"If someone else said to me" you were like that 'at that time, would I even ask "I am like that?", As if talking about other people's affairs. "

However, he still reads in his article "Divorce when I was young ..." and then shed tears.

But you still have to make a joke immediately:

"I am in my thirties when I divorce,

You can also entrust the matchmaker to introduce, why is it so virtual?

This is not good! (laugh)"

So I often think of the words of the actor Quan Yanyan said Yin Ruzhen:

"Yin Ruzhen will always let me see if I am not calm enough.

But the teacher's calmness does not want to imitate it. "

It was countless "it doesn't matter" after walking in the heart. After countless disappointment and heartbreak, it was calm and calm.

In fact, Yin Ruzhen did not live the life he wanted.

If you want to test the university, do n’t pass the person who wants to be willing, and finally go to part -time actor; if you want to be a housewife, the husband is derailed, and he can only hold the hands of two children, and return to Seoul with a cavity and helplessness.

I can imagine that at the moment when countless unable to tell in variety shows and interviews, Yin Ruzhen must live with huge pain. She must have doubted, struggled, and even roared:

"Why not?"

"Why can't I do it?"

"Why can't I get it?"

But it can only be accepted again and again, that is, it is not good, unable to do.

So she decided to tell herself that "it doesn't matter."

She had many opportunities to question fate, but she decided to say "it doesn't matter."

She was criticized for reasons because she had divorced, her voice was unpleasant, and villains. When she got her love again, she did not "be unreasonable". She only said with emotion:

"These people who like me obviously hate me so much,

Humans are really strange animals. "

And the ex -husband Zhao Yingnan, who hurt her the most, has also mentioned her more and more frequently in recent years:

"I have watched her film and television drama variety shows. She is my ex -wife, and I still boast about hahaha."

"My extramarital affairs lead to divorce. At that time, I really couldn't understand why I let my sons derailed, it was my brain."

"Yin Ruzhen is the most handsome woman that has so far."

Even at the movie screening, she held a bouquet to find Yin Ruzhen, and expressed her desire to talk to her several times.

Yin Ruzhen did not respond. In several interviews many years ago, I just mentioned:

"To be honest, you can't forgive even now."

But also said that he would not conflict with him:

"If two people who divorce attack each other, what it looks like,

Mature

The patience is an adult. "

Last month, Yin Ruzhen had just finished his 75th birthday and had doubled his age at the time of divorce. This year, she became a guest in Oscar, and a new movie was about to be released. Numerous young fans were harvested in South Korea.

But this is not a life she had planned at all.

Therefore, it is difficult for young people to get the answer to "Life Planning" in Yin Ruzhen.

But it doesn't matter, Yin Ruzhen's life is the answer.

Anyway,

"Those who say that I can't work have died."

Writing: Turala