The cleaner's son admitted by Peking University finally had time to help his mother work

Author: Hard See Muye

Dad is unfortunate, Jiaoer is difficult to achieve.

Look at a photo first.

The two men who were naked upper and twisted together in the photo were father and son.

The reason was that his son asked his father for money, and his father didn't give it. As soon as he was angry, his son moved his father.

Look at another photo to relieve the anger.

In the photo, the boy who was picking up trash on the ground was Zhong Pengchen, and the cleaners next to him were his mother.

In this year's college entrance examination, Zhong Pengchen scored 652 points and was admitted to Peking University.

The moment he learned that he was accepted by Peking University, Zhong Pengchen breathed a sigh of relief:

"I can finally reassure and help my mother to work well."

Zhong Pengchen's mother is a cleaner in the Tianzi Mountain Scenic Area of ​​Zhangjiajie. With cleaning, she sent her child to Peking University.

Every holiday, Zhong Pengchen appears next to her mother, and the living in the scenic area is already familiar.

In the summer, the outdoor temperature is high. This sensible child always allows the mother to clean the room, and runs out of the outdoor to clean it.

One summer, it was when the weather was the hottest. Someone was filled with small advertisements near the ticket office of the scenic spot.

Taking advantage of her mother's cleansing in the room, Zhong Pengchen found a small shovel from home, hid her mother to shovel a small advertisement, shoveled all afternoon, and returned home to find that her shoulders were sunburned.

Because he really realized the difficulty of his parents, Zhong Pengchen was extremely hard in his studies.

He gets up at 4:30 in the morning, 5 minutes breakfast, 9 minutes of lunch, and 7 minutes dinner. Even when he goes to the toilet, Zhong Pengchen also takes the book.

In life, in order not to increase the burden on his parents, he was washing and cooking, cleaning up housework, and arranging learning. He never let his parents worry.

It is also raising children, one develops a white -eyed wolf, and the other knows how to appreciate the parents.

For these two children, I have a few feelings and want to talk to everyone.

01

What is terrible is not Hanmen, but the second generation of Hanmen. There is a terrible phenomenon in China now, that is, the second generation of the people.

More and more parents tender their trousers to support their children in material.

Even if you have a monthly salary of thousands, you have to bend the backbone of the spine.

Buy a 100 yuan clothes by yourself, he has to hesitate for a long time, but the child is a famous brand.

Hard work outside, even the lunch of a decent lunch was reluctant to eat. When he was sick, he could not go to the hospital. It was like splashing water for the child.

As a result, ordinary people have raised a "rich second generation" that spend money on big hands and unknown suffering.

I have a cousin as a shopping guide in the mall. My brother -in -law is a bus driver. The salary of the couple will increase the salary in a year and the salary.

The couple have always been carefully calculated. They do n’t buy new clothes for a year or two, and they are frugal.

But the son saw a pair of 1,000 dollars in the mall, and bought it without saying a word.

At 618 this year, the nephew complained that the original mobile phone was too card and wanted to change a new phone. The couple spent more than 6,000 and bought him an iPhone13.

The screen that the cousin herself was broken, and she couldn't be relieved.

Without the bottom line, we will become a knife that kills the child.

The nephew has been used to raising from a young age. He did not have to work hard in his studies. He graduated from high school and went to study.

At the school's fighting, skipping classes, and hanging, there were no less dry.

It is hard to imagine how to get the way to life after two years of graduation.

China has always had an old saying, how unfortunate darlings, Jiaoer is difficult to achieve.

In ordinary families, parents' clothes and shrinking food to raise their children as rich second generations will only be vanked children.

Education expert Makian Ke said:

"Everything is for children, sacrificing everything, and even sacrificing their happiness. This is the most terrible gift for parents to give their children."

02

No one is not decent. Some time ago, I saw two very regrettable things.

A father had just finished working and rode a tricycle to pick up her daughter to school.

After seeing her father, her daughter hurriedly covered her face with her school uniform, for fear of being seen by her classmates.

Seeing her daughter's move, my father was lost for a while, and in order to alleviate the embarrassment, he could only smile bitterly.

His father moved forward behind him, but the child was not decent at his father's work, which sounded really chilling.

In contrast, this couple in Ningbo, Zhejiang is much lucky.

They just finished work from the construction site, because they rushed to pick up their children, they didn't have time to change their dirty clothes, they went to school.

Along the way, the couple were very embarrassed, worried that they would make their children face faceless and be laughed at by their classmates.

When the husband and wife told their son, the boy said, "Moms and dads do not steal or grab, what is so disgusted?"

Many parents are desperate and want to create a better life and learning environment for their children.

But in the child's mind, parents have been divided into three or six nine.

What kind of work does parents do is not shameful, and they are shameful when they dislike their parents.

The best education is the power of children who can learn the spirit in the life of their parents.

In the classroom, a teacher watched the scene of their father's work for students.

Some fathers carried dozens of bricks on their shoulders, bending the backbone, and carefully moved the pace.

Some fathers are shaking away their arms, holding the sledgehammer to hit the wall, and every time they are very difficult.

Some fathers are full of dirt and are dining, and his food is just a few steamed buns and a bowl of porridge. Many children were deeply touched after watching and crying in the classroom.

The child is not born to understand the parents. Only after the hardships of their parents are really consistent, they will not live up to their parents' pains.

Just as Zhong Pengchen, who was admitted to Peking University, was not easy to see his mother's work since he was a child, so he was more filial and harder.

Zhong Pengchen's mother said:

"My son has never thought of what I do because I do cleaning work. Instead, he has always made us not to have other ideas."

"The Night Talk of the Woo" said that there is no hunger and cold, and my parents have never lost me. People do not grow, what do I treat my parents.

Knowing how to understand parents, understand the choice of parents, and respect the career of the parents is the best practice of each child.

03

When the child does not suffer when he is, he will suffer. Remember the 29 -year -old man who had to tell his parents Kuang Zhengxuan?

Kuang Zhengxuan suspected that his work was too bitter and tired, and he was old at home. He was driven out of his house by his unbearable father.

As a result, he blatantly expressed dissatisfaction with his parents and hoped that the country would introduce laws: If the child is unable to have the ability, the parents should keep raising.

He said for granted: "I have no ability, my parents have the ability, why can't they support me?"

But in fact, Kuang Zhengxuan's family is not superior. His father is an ordinary construction site worker.

The family crowded in a house with only 15 square meters, and there was no decent furniture.

Kuang Zhengxuan has become like this today, which has a lot to do with his mother.

Kuang's mother was reluctant to let her son suffer. Every time Kuang Zhengxuan wanted to do something, she would do it for her son.

Therefore, Kuang Zhengxuan couldn't carry his shoulders from an early age, and he couldn't mention his hands.

The excessive care of parents is undoubtedly a blind drug for children.

When the child does not suffer, he will suffer hard when he grows up.

Don't bear the children's hard work, that's the way he is going sooner or later.

04

The child who raises gratitude is the highest level of showing wealth. There is a discussion group in Douban, and there is a name that surprised all parents: parents are disaster.

Some people complain about their parents' poverty, and some people suspect that their parents are too poor to satisfy their desire for material.

The words revealed the resentment of parents, making people look chilling.

There was a student of a freshman who posted that he was the only child in the small county seat. He had not treated him in his life since his childhood, but because of one thing, he was very disappointed with his parents.

He accidentally broke a teeth and wanted to whole teeth.

Ordinary steel rings are 20,000 to 30,000, and the high -quality beauty of the high is 40,000 to 50,000. For the sake of beauty, he wants to make 450,000 hidden beauty.

After the parents know, they are a bit embarrassed. After all, this is a small cost.

As a result, his parents discussed with him, whether he could use his teeth, choose the root canal treatment and then plant the teeth.

The child listened to his parents and said, "You just don't love me, and there are no parents who can't even spend tens of thousands of dollars."

Shakespeare said: Children who do not know gratefulness are more painful than poisonous snakes.

Perhaps there are tens of millions of people to show off their wealth alone, but the most advanced family showing wealth is to raise a child who knows how to be grateful.

After the college entrance examination this year, a boy in Changsha scored a good score of 629 points. He kneeling to report to his mother:

"Since the 12 years in school, it is not easy to raise me such a silly son, thank you."

After a girl in Huizhou, after the college entrance examination, she choked deeply and bowed deeply to her parents to express gratitude.

At the beginning of the article, Zhong Pengchen not only helped his mother to work. Every time he took a long vacation, the first thing was to burn the meals in the rental house, bring it to the place where his mother works, and share it with her.

Yang Zhanyu wrote in "Time Record": "Family may be the purest feelings in the world. In addition to love and care, you should also be grateful."

It was a child, but he devoted himself to his life.

The child who raises gratitude is the greatest blessing of parents.

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Poet Yu Guangzhong said in "Writing to the Future":

"No matter how the world trend changes, but human excellent quality is eternal: upright, brave, responsible, independent."

This sentence has a reference to all parents.

Really visionary parents, knowing how to raise children in the spirit, and excellent quality is the ability to really stand in the world.

Like a praise, and willing to raise a mental and gratitude child for parents.

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