Chongqing men have a "siege" psychological expert who calls "obscure" psychology: netizens apply for good and civilized ways to criticize

Cover news reporter Li Maocca

Recently, a man Huang in Yunyang County, Chongqing sent a circle of friends after giving birth to a baby girl, saying, "When having a daughter, he is too lazy to get his name." As a result, his words were transmitted to the Internet by the screenshot, attracting unanimous condemnation from netizens. On July 28, the man posted an apology letter through the Internet. At the same time, he also said that he would do his child's support obligations in the future.

Regarding Huang's improper remarks, the staff of Yunyang County Women's Federation stated that the local public security organs have been coordinated to teach men, and in the future, they will pay attention to the family in all aspects.

From the screenshots of Huang's circle of friends, you can see that he wrote the following sentence: "I can't stay in the hospital for a moment, I am very obscure, and give birth to a daughter." It's unlucky. Why is God so unfair to me? " Netizens even showed a screenshot of the man's plan to divorce his wife.

After the above screenshots were passed to the Internet, netizens expressed their indignation, condemning Huang's improper remarks, and even local netizens in Yunyang County went to the stores to open a person to make face accusations and siege.

Huang sent a screenshot of apologies.

According to Jimu News, after the incident, Huang had released an apology dynamic saying: "Because I was not in words and deeds in the circle of friends a few days ago, I said deeply that I was sorry, which caused bad public opinion and influence. For this reason, for this reason, for this reason, for this reason I deeply feel guilty, knowing that my words and deeds are too fierce, but I don't have any intention to see any women in my heart. I hope everyone forgive me, I'm sorry! "

On July 29, the cover reporter contacted Huang many times, but his phone was always shut down.

How to think of Huang's wrong thoughts? Is the condemnation of netizens appropriate? Tan Gangqiang, director of the Chongqing Concord Psychological Consultant Office, said that Huang's mind is deeply fixed, so he will unconsciously show it on public public opinion such as WeChat circle of friends. To respect everyone with the right to citizen, rather than see the differences between people in the society with the gender of men and women. Therefore, he destroys the basic recognition of public culture and will inevitably be condemned and siege by most netizens. "

At the same time, Tan Gangqiang believes that netizens' condemnation has some truth, "but some netizens scolded, and even directly besieged the behavior of Huang's store, it was a bit excited."

Tan Gangqiang said that when netizens discovered that improper remarks appeared on the Internet, they should rationally analyze and judge, and criticized criticism in a good and civilized way. They could not make extreme behaviors such as scolding and siege, which hurt the basic rights of the parties. "If you use damage to deal with errors, it may cause bigger errors. Like Huang's remarks, there is no violation of the law. It needs to rely on education to gradually correct his incorrect thoughts." Tan Gangqiang said.

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