After 48 hours of Tangshan's case, the owner of the barbecue restaurant was suffered by the Internet and cried: I dare not watch the scene behind ...

In the past two days, after the Tangshan hitting incident was shocked, it caused more public opinion effects: Tangshan Cake Shop was smashed.

Illegal detention of Tangshan Bar.

At present, these two incidents have made the latest progress:

Two main criminals who smashed the cake shop have been arrested.

Four people who illegally detained the bar were also arrested.

This is the fairness and justice of the local police from Tangshan after attracting great attention, and the local police from Tangshan returned to the victims of the old case.

Since the development of Tangshan's beating incident, with the intervention of Hebei Province and the country's forces, it has transformed from the stage of "the whole people's anger, capture the wicked" to the "sharp sword out of the sheath, severe punishment" stage.

We must maintain attention, and we must maintain rationality. We must not be attacked without differences in the losses, nor can we be wrapped by cyber violence.

Yesterday, the place where the Tangshan beating incident, the owner of the old Seoul barbecue restaurant, cried in front of the camera:

"I have been stunned by the Internet. Many netizens attacked me, called and sent a WeChat, and the calls were burst. I couldn't live and business."

The reason she was stunned by the Internet was: "Why don't you pull the frame? Are you a group with the gangsters?"

The owner of the old Seoul barbecue restaurant explained:

First, after the fighting incident, she went forward to pull the frame.

There is a video prove that the person wearing black clothes is her.

But when she stepped forward, she was threatened by the gangsters and pushed: "Go out and hit you."

She is a fifty or sixty -year -old.

Second, she made a call to the police for the first time.

The boss said that when she saw the group of people beating, she also smashed all the objects in the shop. She was really shocked and scared.

But because she was busy, the mobile phone was not in her hand, so she quickly asked the people in the shop to report to the police as soon as possible.

After the gangsters dragged the victim outside the door, they ran away without the account.

She didn't dare to ask for money when she saw that this group was so cruel.

"I am also a victim, where can I be reasonable. I have collapsed now and I'm going crazy."

The phrase "I'm going crazy", hearing sourness.

I would like to ask, if this barbecue restaurant was opened by ourselves, there was such a thing in our own shop. We were the boss, and we were sad?

Bad.

In this case, you must learn to compare your heart.

Do not want the owner of the barbecue restaurant, she is indeed a victim.

Faced with such a group of fierce gangsters, we cannot ask a 50 or 60 -year -old woman to give up and stand up.

As Professor Luo Xiang said:

Morality is self -discipline, not to abduct others.

Each of us must ask ourselves before condemning others:

If "I" is at the scene, will "I" be as brave as I think?

"I" will definitely see the righteousness, do you come forward?

If "I" has a trace of hesitation and fear, then "I" cannot blame the people present.

Do unto others, do not impose on others.

In front of bullying and sin, they are also victims.

We cannot impose the requirements of "standing forward and saving tragedy" to them.

This is a moral abduction.

In the past two days, it was not only the owner of the barbecue restaurant.

The boy holding the female companion who did not let her go to rescue was also stunned by the Internet.

Someone scolded him "selfish, timid, unlike a man".

But isn't it because he is like a man. When he is in danger and disaster, he only uses the rationality and guardianship of men. Didn't let the women around him suffer unnecessary damage?

It is not difficult to imagine that if the boy did not stop the female companion for the first time, then facing the bee -beened gangster, the girl who wanted to rush up to save people would be difficult to escape the end of the injury.

We thank the girl who wants to rush forward.

But we also have to understand the boy who dragged her forced to leave.

In the face of extreme and cruel killing, no one is eligible to encourage others to see righteousness.

Even when the country is propagating and seeing righteousness, they oppose unnecessary sacrifices, and emphasize "seeing righteousness and wisdom":

If you see the righteousness, you must rescue and rescue the rescue and rescue of the ground while protecting yourself.

If you cannot ensure your safety, it is likely to hurt yourself, bringing unbearable weight to your family, and aggravating tragedy. Choosing self -protection, calling the police in time, and seeking help from the people and public power is the most wise choice.

Moreover, the boy and the girl he was pulled away for the first time reported the police for the first time, and it was done well.

After the "Tangshan barbecue restaurant" was exposed, many innocent people's names, family address, Douyin, and store business information were exposed.

Some people claim that these innocent people have participated in fighting and encouraged more people to storm them.

Some people condemned them without calling the police, no righteousness, and it was timid.

One of the bosses who opened the restaurant, who was mistaken for being a beaten person, all the private information was exposed, and it was sent to the door of the house.

This kind of Internet storm is really scary.

Here, I want to say a few words to every friend who follows Tangshan's beating incident:

First, the focus of our attention is to allow the wicked to be punished and let fairness come as soon as possible. Instead of hurting innocence or becoming part of "evil".

Other people in the Internet violence, randomly exposing the private information of others on the Internet, violated the law.

While anger, attention, and voice, you must bring rationality, thinking and judgment.

Not to harm innocent.

Or be used as a gun, causing greater confusion. Don't become abyss because of staring at the abyss; don't become evil dragons because of dueling with evil dragons.

To think in other places, to compare your heart to your heart, and always stand on the side of goodness and construction.

Second, the implementation path of fairness and justice depends on national and public power.

Our supervision and shouts are to make more people fair, not to hurt more compatriots.

Tangshan's fighting incident, from the outbreak of malignant to the arrest of the people, ordinary people's voice and attention must be done.

But the purpose of our attention is to make the four injured girls fair, let the nine gangsters be punished, and make the people feel more secure.

It also allows other cities with similar problems to inspect and correct themselves in alert.

Instead of taking the opportunity to live, lest the world will not be chaotic.

Picture source: panorama vision

Finally, share such a sentence with all kind people:

For ordinary people, learn to open the Internet.

Because you and I are ordinary people, you must understand compassion.

Author: Liu Na, psychological counselor, emotional columnist, original explosive writer, mixed media circles for more than ten years, published millions of words, can write family love stories, and write hot spots in education workplace. The article was first released in leisure (ID: xsha369). Do not reprint twice without authorization. Send friends or forwarding friends. Please be free. Editor on duty: Zhang Aoyang.

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