In the spiritual internal consumption of the Dream of the Red Mansion, Cao Xueqin couldn't cure it

Recently, the video of "Erji has ruled my spiritual internal consumption" exploded the Internet, and netizens generally moved to the tenaciousness and self -improvement of Eryo. However, with the fermentation of things on the Internet, some people have begun to think that the video beautifies the suffering, and the publicity is rotten. manner.

Internal consumption refers to energy loss without direct benefits and practical significance. In the context of Erji, I am afraid that when facing the fate of injustice, people usually have negative emotions that cannot be used to change the status quo, such as troubles, complaints, anxiety, etc.

The Dream of the Red Mansion describes the world. Under the desolate tone of its gorgeous and sadness, suffering and tragedy are the norm of people in the dream of the Red Mansion. Faced with the unfair destiny, in the face of the inevitable internal consumption of mental consumption, different roles have made different choices. This makes some people become flies in the mud of the same suffering, but some people drive out Flowers.

In the face of suffering, the worst response is Aunt Zhao. As Jia Zheng's love, she also gave birth to two children. Aunt Zhao seemed to have a strong sense of presence and stable status, but in fact her living space was very narrow. In her own words, "I boiled it for most of my life, and I was not as good as people." As a sister -in -law's aunt, the status of Aunt Zhao is only higher than that of the Tongfang girl. The monthly example of the silver is one -tenth of Mrs. Wang. Usually life is tight, and even a decent upper cannot be found.

Not only that, Aunt Zhao was squeezed by Wang Xifeng and Mrs. Wang because of the favor. If he was scolded, he had only the portrayal of his head, and he dared not say a word. curtain. Because of her low identity, even if her aunt Zhao was petting, she had a son -in -law, and her life was not bitter. Her life could not be described.

Faced with all this, Aunt Zhao chose extremely negative response. She was full of grievances and violence, always complaining about others, always accusing the fate of the fate, thinking that the status quo of everything was caused by her low identity, but this low was promoted by fate. , Let's not seek change.

Therefore, when her son Jia Huan was reprimanded by Baoyu, her first reaction was "Who told you to go to the high table?" At that time, her response was "you should also pull us." In her cognition, her happiness can only be rewarded by others, and her status can only be improved by others.

In the dark and negative spiritual internal consumption, Aunt Zhao became the joke of Jiafu. Her complaints and troubles were not improved to her status, but everyone was gone. Even Jia Huan was influenced by her and became a "small frozen owl". When something happened, he cried "bullying me is not a wife." It makes it difficult for people to get close. For him.

Facing the fate that cannot be changed, choosing to escape and numbness seems to be a possibility. Yingchun is a typical example of escaping in front of fate. Yingchun's biological mother died early. Her father Jia Yan had no time to take care of her "Chengri and Little Wife". Mother Xing, the aunt, was a foolish person. She was indifferent and selfish. Yingchun likes to wear jasmine alone under the flowers. Perhaps she is like that jasmine, and the corner is alone. Although there are fragrances, few people pay attention.

In such an environmental environment, Yingchun has developed a cowardly temperament, becoming "two woods", "I don't know how to poke a needle", and the fate is upside down. Although she is not good at writing poetry, she still stays in the Begonia Poetry Society of Grand View Garden as the vice president, and does not have the opportunity to use the picture of the garden to ask for a long vacation like Xi Chun. When her grandmother stole her jewelry, she was still the Buddha. When her girl embroidered orange, her sister Tanchun, and the housekeeper agent Ping'er, she fought for her interests, but she lowered her. Looking at the "Taishang Sensing Article", even Daiyu said that she "tiger and wolf tun in the order and talk about cause and effect."

In the end, she was given Sun Shaozu by her father Jia Xun for the five thousand two silvers. Although both mother and Jia Zheng disagreed, she still accepted the fate of fate. I think there is a scene in the 87th version of the TV series. At that time, Yingchun was about to marry, and wearing a big red wedding dress on his body, bright and eye -catching, but his eyes were enthusiastic, his expression was patient and indifferent. The person is not the same.

The fate of Yingchun is "Golden Girlfriend Liu Jing, goes to Huangliang in one shift." Facing the unfair fate, her patience and cowardice did not exchange for good treatment and respect, but made life pressing step by step. For her, the internal consumption of mental spirit is probably a terrible thing. The psychological state of Yingchun is similar to ostrich. She avoids facing reality and avoiding direct choices. Of course, she also avoids internal consumption. The passive internal consumption may be stolen for a moment, but not only cannot rewrite the destiny, but it will also devour the space that may exist. The ultimate guidance can only be destroyed.

The typical representative of the bad destiny, but actively fighting, is naturally exploring spring. Like Yingchun, it is a niece, but Tanchun is a rose -like temperament. Although the biological mother was a sister -in -law who did not have two or two, she looked back at her back. Although her status was slightly embarrassing, she had a slight flattering for her brother Baoyu. Out of the way, he would down the Tanchun -but Tanchun would never be light and cheap, and he was willing to be lined with fate. The image of Tanchun is "Junyan's eyebrows, the literary talents, and the forgetfulness of people." The bottom line and principles of Tanchun are very strong, and do not accept the brainwashing of Aunt Zhao. When Aunt Zhao complained that she did not help the brother, Tanchun's reaction was "twisting the head", and her toothed and annoyed on the paper -she was not not no. I love Aunt Zhao, but the pattern of Aunt Zhao is too low, and she is dismissive.

Tanchun has a strong self -esteem. When others violate her dignity and bottom line, she will not hesitate to bravely resist and never tolerate. When the housekeeper, Wu Xin's family's negative work was neglected between the words between words, and the thunder was still thunderous; when copying the Grand View Garden, she fanned the loud slap on Wang Shanbao's face. Good explanation.

If it comes to mental internal consumption, I think there must be a spring. Her identity, as well as the embarrassing position with her, the low -looking biological mother, and the unknown marriage future, all her troubles, her daughter's identity has become a rope that constraints her ambitions. Various signs show that Tanchun, like each of us ordinary people, did not defeat or surpass these internal consumption. On the contrary, these anxiety and troubles were entangled in her heart, making her have to emphasize to the world again and again: "I am Valuable, I deserve to be respected. "

However, in the face of these close concerns, Tanchun not only did not choose to complain or ease, but did not become a slave to internal consumption, but worked hard to prove himself and strive to move forward. Among these internal consumption, Tanchun also continued to grow, becoming stronger and better. Her talents and insights are more than how much higher levels of Phoenix Egg Baoyu born from the mother.

In this way, there are many characters who are self -reliance in adversity and struggling in the spiritual consumption. There are many in the dream of the Red Mansion, such as Jia Yun, Xiaohong, Jialan and so on. Most of them have gained a relatively good ending, or at least they can achieve their own value in the limit of their own struggle.

In the face of your own life, it is not easy to be able to do it. However, the spiritual realm of the Dream of Red Mansions does not stop there. The daughter in the Grand View Garden is not limited to itself, but has a deep understanding of the entire world.

In fact, in the Dream of Red Mansions, the most important internal consumption is Daiyu. In fact, people generally think that Daiyu is "consumed" by mental internal consumption. Parents died early, Daiyu lived in the ancestral home of a foreign ancestor. Seeing the face under the fence was already hard, and he also had a relationship with Baoyu. It's right.

Nevertheless, Daiyu's spiritual internal consumption is very different from Aunt Zhao. When Aunt Zhao stayed on the cursing and frustrated, she looked down on her master and complained about her humble status. Who hidden in the world, blooming is late. "

Lin Daiyu will usher in the ending of tragedy, although she will not solve herself, but the deeper reason is that her sadness is larger than the average person, and her despair is deeper than the average person. Her internal consumption was not because she was trapped in her personal sorrow, but because of her too intelligent and sober, she prematurely watched the tragedy of this world. Daiyu's plenty of life in the spiritual world is surpassing life. She can never be willing to be an ostrich in order to protect herself, avoid thinking, and give up such a grand and heavy "mental internal consumption".

However, the tragedy of the world is so magnificent and so fierce, how can Daiyu's thin shoulders be able to bear it? In the episode of the 87th version of Honglou Dream, Mr. Wang Liping wrote the phrase "Heaven, where there is Xiangqiu" in the chief song, and Daiyu used his weak body to ask the falling flowers in the late spring, and asked With the strong sound of the shocking cracks, her soul has the power that does not match her body.

Therefore, Dai Yu was ordered to be too transparent to the beautiful soul, and she was in the permanent tragedy she saw. Although her mental intra -minded consumption made her heartbreak and died of tears, I believe she had no regrets, and she was willing to donate everything for such a spirit. From this perspective, she is also noble because of her mental internal consumption.

There are very few people who can reach Daiyu's spiritual realm in the dream of Daiyu. Because of this, most people can live ordinary and trivially happy, and do not have to consume energy for the vastness of the universe and the small mankind. If you unfortunately see the truth of the world, how can we resist the sadness in this person?

Is it like Daiyu, and it is cleansing, or is it like Baoyu's cliffs and let go? Some people say that there is only one heroism in the world, that is, to recognize the truth of life, but still loves life. Xue Baodi is such a person.

Born in the lonely house, I am afraid that I won't know it. Even if she finds Jinyu's marriage according to her mother's intention, she is just a few years for the Xue family who walks downhill. I am not using a female stream, and my brother Xue Yan has been in a short time. How long can I maintain it? What's more, even if he climbed the family affairs of the Jia family, what kind of daily mountains of the Jia family? How long can I help the Xue family? From the perspective of life, Baodi's tragedy is that no matter how she is struggling, she finally uses the happiness of her life to change the opportunity to save the family that does not exist. Baodi and Daiyu are the heads of the twelve lathies of Jinling. Her ideological state is equivalent to Daiyu. Dai Yu is transparent because of his intelligence, but Baodi is all across his learning. She has read the romance of romance such as Pipa Western Chamber, which is well -known for men and women. The realm. Presumably, she was like a mirror of Daiyu's pain in the pain of "the spring is full of redness", and the "incurable evidence, the foundation" of the emotion during the understanding of the treasures is even more clear. The principle of sighing "Sheng Yan will be scattered", knowing the taste of "each door must find their own doors".

Such a Baodi, she understands the destination of this world and the suffering of sentient beings. She probably has already completed the courses that the police fantasies hope to realize Baoyu, but still work hard to live in the world, open -minded, and follow the time. In the faintness, Baodi's courage lies in the face of such a heavy spiritual world. She still faces with a smile, and she still does everything she can.

From this point of view, Baodi is indeed worthy of her "Mountain Gao Shi". She and Dai Yu also understand the sadness of the world, but she is strong enough to carry such sadness. Baodi is the only person in the first eighty times in the book who can truly defeat the internal consumption of the spirit. Like the death of Daiyu, her life is willing and noble.

All beings are bitter. Living in the world, every family has a difficult scripture. For most people, adversity and pain are compulsory courses in life. Internal consumption is harmful and unhelpful when facing reality. As Li Kaifu said, it is necessary to change things that can be changed with courage to change, accept things that cannot be changed with your mind, and use wisdom to distinguish the difference between the two. If you can do it like exploring spring, do not sink, do not escape, bravely face and fight against struggle, it is a positive attitude towards life -in fact, who is not tapped in the range that you can change?

However, in the spiritual world, the internal consumption is a cross that must be carried by others. Since this species is fortunate to stare at the starry sky, we are fortunate to ask the meaning of existence. If you only pay attention to the land and reality interests at your feet, why do you call yourself the spirit of all things? Baoyu, Daiyu, and Baodi are the three main characters of the Dream of Red Mansions. The philosophical understanding and demand are the spiritual monuments of human beings. The internal consumption of this level will not bring benefits to the real society, but make their souls glittering forever.

Back to the beginning of the video. The preciousness of Eryi is that he does not abandon his life like Tanchun, and does not give up, but he can still be a spiritual love in the spiritual understanding of the world. Internal consumption can be cured but cannot be eliminated. Ershi's hard work and persistence, we should learn, and his openness and calmness also make our hearts respect- "determination, not afraid of sacrifice, eliminate all difficulties, and strive for victory."

Author: Mud doll, this article is the original work of reading less.

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