"Deyang Female Doctor Case" four years after: a family that was torn by cyber storms

On August 25, 2018, Dr. Deyang, who was storm due to a conflict between a swimming pool, committed suicide. Three years later, the initiator of the cyber storm was finally sanctioned by law.

In the news review area of ​​the trial result of this case, a netizen wrote a message: "The person who initiated the cyber storm was punished, but the people participating in the Internet storm, those who threw the vicious words to others, remembered it again that they thought of it again. When Dr. An, would they feel guilty? As a case, someone finally won the lawsuit, but when he returned to life, no one was the winner. "

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"Is there enough psychological trauma for life?"

For the first time, "Character" met Qiao Wei. On October 20, 2021, a teahouse covered by a smoke and mahjong sound in Deyang. He was wearing a black leather jacket, and the sweater inside was also black, with a bow, and he couldn't see a height of 1.8 meters. The lips are completely air -dried and there is no smile.

Having said that, less than half an hour, the smoke smoked four or five, and he immediately went out to buy it, and bought the strongest Hibiscus king back. Like a sigh, as if a kind of endless sorrow in the chest. On his left hand ring finger, the ring is still there.

He called Dr. An "I love", and he still clearly remembered every detail of the summer of more than three years ago.

At more than 7 pm on August 21, 2018, Dr. An was playing with his mobile phone at home, and his colleague suddenly sent a link. Clicking in is a Weibo user's homepage. The content is "Fasting, the employees of the × bureau publicly beat the minors publicly because the child accidentally hit his wife." The picture is a moving picture of a swimming pool.

This is the beginning of the conflict of the pool to go out of control.

The pool conflict occurred the day before. On August 20, 2018, Qiao Wei and Dr. An went to Deyang Pacific Swimming Press to swim. There were too many people in the swimming pool. Dr. An and two boys collided. One of the 13 -year -old boys vomited water behind her. This scene was seen by Qiao Wei. He swims to his wife and slap a boy. Subsequently, the boy's mother Chang Rui and his parents found Dr. An in the locker room. After the two sides had corners and physical contact with limbs. After Chang Rui called the police, both sides went to the police station to receive mediation.

After mediation by the police, Qiao Wei took the initiative to apologize. Boys answered, accepted.

The police turned around and asked the parents what other opinions. Qiao Wei recalled that Chang Rui said at the time, "Xiao Qiao, I want to say a few more words, our son is so big, and he is not willing to move a finger." Along her words Qiao Wei expressed his apology again, "I am impulsive today, because our two are very affectionate, and we are very concerned about what happened around her ..." I did not expect that this sentence once again aroused the dissatisfaction of each other. We are not in good feelings? "

The words he explained later was cut off. Fortunately, the police calmed the dispute and told Dr. Qiao Wei and Dr. An. "I thought (this matter) was over." Qiao Wei said.

But the next morning, the boy's mother Chang Rui appeared in Qiao Wei's work unit, asking leaders to expel his party and public office. Subsequently, Chang Rui and his party also went to Dr. An's hospital, and also asked the leaders to expel Dr. An and public office of Dr. An.

In order to calm the situation as soon as possible, Dr. An and Qiao Wei discussed to find a middleman to coordinate and sit down with the other parents of the other party as soon as possible, but just this night, she saw the movement picture, but in the movement in front of her The boy's spitting picture was only Qiao Wei swim in the past that had a physical conflict with the boy.

Swimming pool conflict site map source network

It didn't take long for the movement to become edited videos. In the video, Qiao Wei put the boy's head into the water for about 1 second, and then hit him with a slap. There was a bright yellow subtitles in the lower left corner of the picture. The video title released by some media platforms also emphasized Qiao Wei's civil servant status. Qiao Wei remembered that on the day of the police station, the police asked their couple's work units. When a parent of the other party heard a phone call in the corridor, he said: "A doctor, a civil servant, some of the troubles. "

The video continues to ferment on social media. The scolding of Dr. An and Qiao Wei in the comment area is overwhelming. The unit's position and photos were also passed on the Internet. Some people commented that they should go to Dr. An’s hospital to register. Essence Some people also attacked Qiao Wei, "Can such people live in the public office?"

Qiao Wei recalled that since his personal information was uploaded on the Internet, Dr. An has begun to suffer insomnia. He wrote comments all night and cried while watching.

When I went to the unit again, Qiao Wei felt that others looked at him different. Among the more than 100 people in the unit, the relationship would be good. He would tell what was going on, but he couldn't explain it again.

The phone on the desk was also constantly, and Qiao Wei's colleague Li Fei remembered that at that time, he could answer more than 100 calls a day. Many reporters called to interview Qiao Wei, but Li Fei helped him to push him. The reason is "I didn't say what to deal with the public security side, I can't talk nonsense." Qiao Wei told the "Character" that the reason why he refused to interview media at that time was because the police in charge of mediation had told him not to be interviewed. Now I think of this decision to make him regret, "Maybe two words at that time, there is no consequences." Without his voice, the whole incident became a word of the boy's parents, and he and his wife were suffering from a completely counted scolding.

During that time, when they got off work in the garage every day, their husband and wife did not go upstairs, and they discussed in the car to negotiate. In order to stop netizens from scolding, Qiao Wei thought of reconciled as soon as possible. He hoped that the other party could clarify the facts online, and netizens could open the Internet. They found the middlemen, and wanted to meet the Changrui family. The middlemen called Qiao Wei in front of Qiao Wei, and Chang Rui also agreed to meet.

In order to better express when meeting and avoid causing misunderstandings again, Dr. An also wrote what he wanted to say on the paper. "Today we can sit together. The short period of opening, she painted and rewritten four times. At the end of that paragraph, she wrote: "We have no extra ideas, only (want) a life that can return to normal, and can no longer mention it. Personal privacy happened on the Internet. I believe that the other party is also a person who understands the law and understands the law ... "

After being ready, Qiao Wei contacted Chang Rui and met her on August 24, but was rejected by Chang Rui because the old man at home lived on the Internet. Unable to go smoothly, this is considered to be the last straw that crushes Dr. An.

On August 25, 2018, Dr. An and his family went to the grave to his loved ones. In the cemetery, the family burned the paper and was ready to leave. Dr. An was still crying. Qiao Wei could understand her feelings. "It was really depressed." After a while, he walked over and hugged his wife out.

After returning home in the afternoon, Dr. An said that he was so panicked at home. He wanted to go out and go around and go to the car to sit. Sitting in his own car, Dr. An swallowed 500 poleness, and also sent farewell information to his mother and the best friends in Deyang. Sorry, I did it wrong. I was responsible for the whole thing. Is it enough for a psychological trauma one by one? "

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"Those who scolded us at the time must also scold them"

"This is the pain of a lifetime." After more than three years, the moment he mentioned his wife again, Qiao Wei said, "I will never forget her face."

A family was completely torn.

Qiao Wei said that he only talked about one love, which was Dr. An. They all come from Qinghai, and they are high school classmates. From the beginning of high school, they have made the same table and have been exposed to three years. "Only this feeling."

After graduating from high school, Qiao Wei was admitted to Hohai University's water conservancy majors, and was later selected as a professional for professional talents. Dr. An graduated from the Department of Medicine of Qinghai University and then came to Deyang to become a pediatrician. After the two got married, they experienced a long time in different places. At the end of 2014, Qiao Wei, who had applied for two years, finally turned back to Deyang.

Qiao Wei's colleague Li Fei told "Character" that in Deyang, Dr. Qiao Wei and Dr. An had a very comfortable and loving, and there was a rare boring among middle -aged couples. At work, "Brother Joe will ride an electric motorcycle to Xunzi Hospital at noon and eat with his sister -in -law." The two are natives in Northwest. They like to eat pasta and often go out to eat noodles. Li Fei did not understand that the unit had a cafeteria not to eat, the sister -in -law unit had a cafeteria and did not eat, and the two of them went out to eat.

Qiao Wei's comrades Su Liwen recalled that Dr. An was very enthusiastic and helped him several times. He saw a doctor at home. In Deyang, the couple live a very decent life, "they can not ask for others."

In Qiao Wei's eyes, his wife was "very face -oriented, very strong person". After the incident, because he was worried that his colleagues would think of her, Dr. An had not went to work after asking for leave. The best friend asked her to go out for dinner, and she first refused because "I couldn't face the best friend, and her face had no light on her face, as if she had done something wrong."

"Without cyber storms, my lover will not give myself so much pressure for no reason." Qiao Wei felt that the most fatal thing about cyber storm was that all maliciousness added leverage. "Those vicious words are like a sharp knife, and they can be crushed alone."

Shortly after Dr. An's death, a video of a rescue began to spread on social networks. Qiao Wei didn't know who the video was shot, and who was sent to the Internet. In the video, he was lying on the bed and cried, and his left hand grasped his wife to how "let me stay here."

With the spread of rescue videos, the identity of the two sides of the pool conflict, the Changrui family became the object of the Internet storm. The family's ID number, household registration information, work unit, marriage certificate, and boy's school name have been announced on the Internet. Some people have handled the photos of Changrui and wife as a statue. They "rape rape in the boy's photo" rape rape The word of "criminal" -At that time, there was a saying on the Internet that the reason why the pool conflict occurred was because the boy violated Dr. An and "hit the chest and touch his butt."

During that time, the boy's house often received a laborer. On a payment platform, countless people wrote the words of curse into Changrui's transfer to Chang Rui through a penny. A netizen who had lived in Deyang, after the incident, specially rushed back to Deyang for three months from other places. During that time, he and many netizens were looking for the mother and child. Some people say, "If netizens find their mother and son, what may really happen."

A local media called "Deyang Breaking King" has previously reproduced unreasonable videos and has also become the target of netizens. After the storm, some employees were scared to cry, and some employees resigned.

In an interview with the "Extreme Day Studio", Chang Rui explained that the reason why he originally sent the pool video to the Internet and provided it to the media was to "look forward to the discussion of netizens to have a fair result." In her opinion, in her opinion His son did not spit his mouth to Dr. An. "My son couldn't help making a face at her, and the water in her mouth flowed out during swimming. The child was naughty."

She insisted that it was Qiao Wei's "very unwise move, which led to everything in the subsequent." For Dr. An’s death, her idea is, "Everyone has a different personality. For me, I can find the police to say, find a leader, and find the media. I won't be like this. "

After more than a year, in an interview with the "Beijing News" again, Chang Rui described her situation of being stormed by the Internet -September 1, 2018, she did not dare to let her son return to school. Where is the murderer? "They didn't dare to live at home and hid at the hotel for two months. For more than a year, his son has been unable to go to school normally.

Seeing the experience of the Chang's family, Qiao Wei was in a complicated mood. "This thing has just come out, so many people scold us, and then they have entered one of the lives. Now they are scolded to raise their heads. Those who scolded them must have scolded us at the time. "

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An explanation

For more than 20 days after his wife committed suicide, Qiao Wei has been living in the hotel, and his classmates and comrades have come to the hotel to accompany him. Everyone was sad and angry. Some people said that they would go to Changrui's house to discuss. Some people were going to pull the banner and were persuaded by Qiao Wei. At that time, the public security organs had filed a case. Qiao Wei felt that the priority was to find a lawyer.

Under the recommendation of a fellow, he contacted the lawyer Zhao Qitai who practiced in Shenzhen. Zhao Qitai was also from Deyang. After receiving the case, he quickly returned to Deyang and Qiao Wei. After reading the information sent by Qiao Wei, Zhao Qitai pointed out whether the little boy vomited Dr. An is one of the core of the entire case. "If the original report said, the man found that the junior high school student spit out the saliva to his wife. Will scold Mr. Qiao, at least I feel that some children need education. "

In the police's transcript, Zhao Qi saw the boy admit that he vomited his saliva, and the law enforcement recorder (recording) also acknowledged that at the time, the police asked the boy if he vomited twice. The boy said, " You can hear it. "

When deciding to prosecute the charges, lawyers Zhao Qiya and Qiao Wei found all four charges and found four consistency, charges, sin, slander, and violation of citizens' personal information. Among them, insults and defamation are self -prosecution. They need to rely on the plaintiff's individual to obtain evidence. It is very difficult. The crime of violating the personal information of citizens is prosecuted by the procuratorate from the perspective of regulating society, and public power is obtained from obtaining evidence.

In response to the "crime of violating the personal information of citizens", Luo Xiang, a professor at the School of Criminal Judicial University of China University of Political Science and Law, explained in an interview with the media: "Provide personal information to others, and provide his identity card, his name, his address provided Give you to provide his personal information to tens of millions of people, which can constitute the crime of violating the personal information of citizens. The benchmark sentence is less than three years, and the circumstances can be punished for seven years. "

On January 22, 2019, as an agent lawyer, Zhao Qiya submitted to the People's Procuratorate of Jingyang District, Deyang City, and the "legal opinion on the crime of constituting the crime of infringing the personal information of citizens to violate the personal information of citizens". Three months later, after the public security organs supplemented the investigation twice, the Procuratorate formally filed a public prosecution to the People's Court of Mianzhu City.

On July 1, 2019, the Court of Mianzhu City accepted the case.

Soon after, the Chang family found the leaders of Qiao Wei's unit hoping to mediate. Qiao Wei didn't go to meet. Thinking of his wife's departure, he was always angry. After the lawyer and several relatives went to meet each other, his demands were clear -asking the other party to apologize publicly on the media, and the video of which media initially, as the source, extended three to four media. This is the bottom line of Qiao Wei. He cannot forgive the other party's practice of using the Internet criminal crimes.

The other party agreed to openly apologize, but on the grounds of the "badness" of the apology, I hope Qiao Wei would write this apology letter and then publish it by the media. ? "

Before the official opening, the Court of Mianzhu City organized five pre -court meetings. The evidence is a little full -because it is a public prosecution case, the evidence of Qiao Wei is mainly extracted by the prosecutor. In the process of obtaining evidence, the only trouble that encountered is that many online media have deleted the initial false reports, but according to the relevant regulations that "the media must retain the traces of reports in the past 6 months", the deleted reports were restored and printed. After coming out, "the amount is a bit large, A4 paper has been hit." In the face of the prosecution, the defendant Chang Rui had to show the WeChat chat record, even if it was deleted afterwards, it was restored in various ways. These WeChat chat records show that after getting the personal information of the Qiao Wei and his wife, Chang Rui sent the cousin and cousin. The cousin released related Weibo to associate the swimming pool conflict with Qiao Wei's civil servant. During the forwarding and comment, the cousin and cousin mentioned the work unit and position of the Qiao Wei and his wife.

"The Internet seems to be hidden, but in fact there is nowhere to hide." Lawyer Zhao Qitai sighed. During the trial of the case, the 13 -year -old boy's rumor that Dr. An infringing Dr. An was still spread online. Whenever he saw such a remark, Zhao Qitai would leave a message to the other party. He would show his identity and say that he had read all the information. "This action", please delete the other party as soon as possible.

In the whole case, there was another key figure, Zhou Li, in the conflict of the pool, she was the parent of another boy, and they also participated in the mediation of the police station on the day. On the same day, after Qiao Wei said, "Our husband and wife have a good relationship", in Chang Rui, Zhou Li was the client who first jumped out. But when Chang Rui asked her to forward and spread the information, Zhou Li persuaded, "Don't make trouble." She only sent an eight -person WeChat group, and most of the seven other people in the group did not continue to spread. As a result, the procuratorial organs decided to avoid criminal prosecution.

On August 5, 2020, the case was finally tried. According to Zhao Qitai, in the court, Chang Rui and her two sisters were defended by innocence. The reason was that the information came from public, thinking that she did not fabricate the facts, and once again denied the boy's spitting. "". Therefore, the swimming pool video was played four times, "the movement of the spit is seven seconds." Zhao Qitai said, "Pull your head in one second, turn your head, stretch your neck, and vomit to others. As for the other party, the other party said. It is breathing, and it doesn't take for 7 seconds to change for 7 seconds. "

From the opening to the final sentence, Qiao Wei waited for a year. During this period, two things happened.

One is that Chang Rui and others submitted an application to the court to ask the media to interview her in civil lawsuits, and the self -media who forwarded information as the defendant.

Regarding whether the media wants to be held accountable in this incident, lawyer Zhao Qitai believes that most media are reposted. If it is deleted in time, the subjective fault is not so serious. As for the starting media, because Qiao Wei refused to be interviewed at the time, the media also also made the media. Unable to obtain a balance between the two parties. Regarding the report of a single letter, Zhao Qiya suggested that the media should provide information from one party without interview, such as hanging up the phone, or the text message reply without interviews.

Another thing is that the court has adjusted the crime of prosecution from the crime of "infringing citizen's personal information" to "insulting" -sly, although the "insulting crime" is a self -prosecution crime, the self -prosecution has been converted to public prosecution and trial in cyber violence cases Among them, this has gradually become a trend.

Among them, the most representative is the "Hangzhou Women's Courier and Rumor Derailies". After the parties filed a criminal self -prosecution, the Yuhang District Court of Hangzhou City prompted the case from "self -prosecution to public prosecution", which greatly reduced the difficulty of obtaining evidence from the plaintiff at the same time. , Also increased the degree of warning to cyber violence.

At the two sessions on March 8 this year, Ma Yan, director of the General Office of the Supreme People's Procuratorate, interpreted the work report of the two institutes. It also mentioned the case.

On August 6, 2021, the People's Court of Mianzhu City, Sichuan Province made a judgment of the case. One year in prison, two years of probation and six months in prison, one year of probation.

After the verdict came out, Qiao Wei specially copied a copy and took it to the cemetery to burn his wife.

The People's Court of Mianzhu City on the "insult" explanation

Father and daughter

From the day of his wife's death, he finally made a judgment in the court. In the past three years, Qiao Wei's nerves were pulled thin and long. Rebuild your life with your young daughter.

On the day of the incident, Qiao Wei learned that his wife might commit suicide and hurried to find someone. When he went out, he took his daughter's star to his comrades. Later, "I stayed in the hotel for more than 20 days before I remembered to pick her up." When saying goodbye, he hesitated to bring his daughter over to see the last side, but later gave up, because his wife had a autopsy, his face had deformed, and he wanted to help her leave a good impression on her daughter.

In the hotel for more than 20 days, the stars often called him and asked him, "Where are you, when do you come back?" When he heard "You", Qiao Wei felt that he was going to collapse. I was swallowed back. He could only breathe deeply, and then told his daughter, "Mom went to Africa to help the doctor."

After three or four months, in the Spring Festival in 2019, the family went to Beihai to relax. The daughter had a good time. She shoveled on the beach. Qiao Wei called her over. . "The daughter did not respond. He asked, "Do you understand?" The daughter replied: I understood. "Who goes to heaven?" He asked again, "Dead people go to heaven." Daughter replied. At that time, the stars were only in the first grade. At first, no classmates in the class talked about it, but by the second semester, a girl asked her, "Is your mother gone?" After that, Qiao Wei moved to her daughter to her daughter The thought of transfer, he wanted to give his daughter a brand new environment. Of course, there is also a layer of security concerns, "Deyang still has hatred."

In September 2020, Qiao Wei turned his daughter to an experimental elementary school around Deyang. Every Sunday, he will send his daughter and pick it back on Friday. The drive of two times a week is a rare time for father and daughter.

On the trip, her daughter didn't speak, her face pulled very long, and Qiao Wei occasionally drew a few words "Go to study in the evening", "Remember to have dinner." When I came back, all the unhappy healing was healed. The stars would open the electronic watch (children's mobile phone), put the song of Blackpink, and peck like a woodpecker.

In the eyes of the stars, the new school is not a good place. From six in the morning, go to bed at 8 o'clock in the evening. The teacher does not have the tenderness of Deyang, and he can get a handboard. When the weather is too cold, he will not wash your hair. She is 9 years old. The most uncomfortable thing is to "think of home". After school every day, she will call her family, "to make a series of", dad, grandma, and uncle. Anyone who did not receive the phone call, she cried and cried hysterically.

In the world without mothers, the embarrassment between father and daughter happened from time to time. After her daughter stayed, she would not wash her underwear, so she was put back in the box, and did not say, Qiao Wei found out when she packed the box. On the way to school, he mentioned this with his daughter. In order to avoid embarrassment, he replaced his underwear underwear, "pants head and small vest."

When the school arrived, after the daughter got off the car, Qiao Wei mentioned that at the end of the first semester of the new semester, the stars suddenly started to be in a daze during class. Then the teacher shouted Qiao Wei, "I said what you were thinking in your heart? She said that she didn't think about anything, so she couldn't help but sit there in a daze. I scared us, and I felt that I didn't know much about my daughter."

Speaking of this, Qiao Wei's mobile phone suddenly rang, and the stars who just got off the car called. Hanging the phone, Qiao Wei said, "She said she cough, you see that she did not have a cough along the way." Ten minutes later, the teacher's phone came and told him that the star did not go to the self -study room, and he repeated in the car before repeated in the car. Ding Ding.

The leaving of the mother is the biggest gap between father and daughter. The stars rarely take the initiative to mention the mother. The word "mother" seems to have disappeared from her world. A red -haired doll on the car, when outsiders asked, the star only said that she was done by her alone, but it was actually the handmade made with her mother. In the diary, she did not mention her mother, only a large number of straight descriptions, such as writing herself as a foodie, "I ate eight biscuits, a bowl of cold noodles, and a orange." Please quit smoking and drinking.

The only time the stars took the initiative to mention that her mother was in the Qingming Festival. She asked her to take her to the cemetery and go in the morning because she heard a saying from others, "Go to have children in the morning and have no children in the afternoon." Essence When she arrived at the cemetery, she told her mother that she would be the daughter of the uncle and take care of her when she grew up.

"My daughter has a lot of emotional needs, but I just don't tell me." Qiao Wei said that what surprised him most was that the daughter recognized a godmother herself. During a colleague's party, Li Fei's lover Wang Meilan also went, and the stars were there. She took the initiative to run to Wang Meilan, lying in her ear, and said, I want to call you a godmother. It was just that she saw this aunt for the second time. As for why she recognized her as a godmother, the stars explained, "The godmother has a familiar taste, the taste of the mother."

The godmother does undertake a part of the mother's role, such as buying JK uniforms, jeans for Xingxing, watching movies, visiting the playground, or making cakes, and manual. On one occasion, the new clothes bought by Ganma had not been worn for a few days, and I got oil when eating. "Ah my new clothes". When I heard the stars, Qiao Wei knew that her daughter was wearing new clothes, and her pants were new. Star's evaluation of Dad is that the aesthetics is not good. Specifically, "I only wear warm, eat, and learn well." She knew that Dad was very harsh, but she was best for him, "I'm not afraid of him."

When talking about the stars with "Character", Wang Meilan generally called "our daughter". She said that the stars have never been in the presence of her mother. Wang Meilan also remembered one thing. Last year, Mother's Day, her son wrote a letter to her mother, read it to her in the car, and then asked her not to be moved? When Wang Meilan said, "very moved", she suddenly thought that the stars were still sitting next to it. She noticed that the daughter had no response, no loss, and would not go to the stubble. She just quietly led the topic.

On the day Qiao Wei sent the stars to school, after hanging up the phone call to his father, he called his cough, and the star called the aunt Wang Meilan for 15 calls. There was nothing special, which was "homesick."

On the birthday of Dr. An, a group photo of the family

shell

There are not large urban areas of Deyang. There is a Mianyuan River next to the Temple of Literature. Several bridges suitable for walking are connected to both sides of the strait. Old -style simple residential buildings in the urban area show that this is the past of the national heavy industrial base. The dry pot and skewers on both sides of the street are the smell of oil fume everywhere, and there are people who are boiling Mahjong Pavilion -people here pay attention to life, and they pay attention to human feelings. Earlier this year, "Character" once again met Qiao Wei in Deyang, and also saw his colleagues Li Fei and Wang Meilan couples. Soon after chatting, the enthusiastic couple sent another bag of candy and a few oranges. Fei also sent a message saying that if they want to write their relationship with Qiao Wei, do not write colleagues, "friends."

This solid human network may be the power that can return Joey to the right track. However, this process is much longer than friends.

Before all this happened, Wang Meilan went to her husband several times, and Qiao Wei and Li Fei were in an office. At that time, Dr. An sometimes took a taxi after get off work and went home with Qiao Wei. Every time he knew his wife was coming, Qiao Wei cleaned the table and dumped the ashtray because his heart was not good. Dr. An did not allow him to smoke.

After Dr. An died, Wang Meilan went to the office again and saw a thick layer of gray on Qiao Wei's table, and the flowers also dropped the ground. "At least a year did not clean up." That day, she spent three hours and helped him sort it out. After a long time, she went again, and everything returned to the original. In her opinion, Qiao Wei's life "has no rhythm."

Li Fei remembered that for a while, Qiao Wei's heart thought would be different from what he said. He spoke "Dudu" very excitedly. He always wanted to finish talking quickly, but the people who listened felt unclear and chaotic. In the past, he was not like this at all. In Li Fei's eyes, he was a high student in the unit. Everyone envious of him graduated from the "Supreme Scholar of Water Conservancy Professional".

Qiao Wei also talked about the day of "unclear words". He said that when the case was about two months before the trial, he often did not have a heartbeat accelerated, panicked, nervous. Instead of breathing, there is a breath to the neck, and it is difficult to fall asleep every night. When I went to the hospital for examination, no abnormalities were found in CT and ECG, but he was uncomfortable.

His physical and psychological uncomfortableness made him feel more and more distance.

In Wang Meilan's eyes, Qiao Wei now has a layer of "shell". Every time a party, he called him, and he would ask him very carefully. Whoever knew it with meticulousness, "Ask your brain."

In the past two years, some people have introduced the objects to Qiao Wei. Everyone did not dare to mention it before, for fear of stimulating him. Later, Qiao Wei's mother carefully tentatively tentatively tentatively said that there was a elementary school teacher, mainly for the doll to have a complete home. The older the girl could not control the father.

For the first time, five or six people on both sides came. For the second time, the two ate a meal alone. Qiao Wei said that after that day, after he sent the girl back, the two never met again and ended. He recalled what the girl finally said to him, "She said I didn't come out."

Wang Meilan agrees with this feeling. In her impression, before Dr. An died, Qiao Wei was a joke and smile. But now, he looks like another person. On New Year's Day in 2022, Li Fei organized a party, and six or seven family members came together. He specially chose a few friends of "high education and high level". After the party, Wang Meilan asked Li Fei to send Qiao Wei home. Qiao Wei refused to live and had to go. Wang Meilan felt that Qiao Wei now saw that he couldn't get out and could not accept people. "

In early January 2022, in a small alley in Deyang, Qiao Wei also talked with the "Character" that New Year's Day party. He was silent for a few seconds and said, "I'm afraid of the holidays now. All are numb. "

On New Year's Day, he also made a call to his mother -in -law and wanted to invite her to dinner together, but the old man was not emotional and told him that he would not come. Qiao Wei understood the old man's thoughts. But when she thought of her daughter, she would be uncomfortable, and then everyone was uncomfortable. It was embarrassing.

After Dr. An died, the old man left Deyang for a while. Later, he was reluctant to return again because he was reluctant to come back. Now she lives in the old house of Qiao Wei and Dr. An.泳池冲突发生时，乔伟夫妇刚买了新房，正在装修，后来，安医生走了，搬去新房时，乔伟喊丈母娘一起过去住，但老人拒绝了，原因是「你自己的房子，我What is the past, my daughter is gone. "

But in the small town of people, the old people can occasionally get some comfort. Once she went to the Barber Museum, the hairdresser suddenly talked about Dr. An when I was chatting with others, saying that his doll was sick. The city hospital spent nearly a thousand dollars. It was done in a few dollars, and the hairdresser said, "What a good person."

Now, when he is uncomfortable, Qiao Wei will still go to "my loved people and their hospital". His reason is that it is convenient, everyone knows, and the reputation of the daughter -in -law in the hospital is not bad. When he saw his wife's colleagues, he would also talk about it.

There is also the swimming pool. Last year, a new fitness hall was opened, and he also took his daughter to do a card. After a lapse of three years, he walked into the pool again. He "sour in his heart", "I want to cry in the water", tears began to rush out, and he hurried into the water. He remembered the time before the incident. For four years, he returned to the industry for four years. He just passed the period. He just passed the day. , Can be regarded as a positive result. "But everything was torn like this, and he couldn't come back. When he said, he stopped, silent, and then looked up and said four words:" It's like a next life. " Take your daughter to swim

"No one is the winner"

In Deyang, there are many communities composed of numbers, such as 101 and 102. These are the family members of heavy industrial enterprises during the construction of the big third line. The home is only three kilometers.

During Deyang, "Character" also made a special trip to the community where Changrui's house was. The owner and security guard of the meat shop at the door revealed that the family had moved to Chengdu for two or three years. At the door of the Changjia, a community notice on February 2021 was attached, and the numbers on the meter did not move again.

Chang Rui's last appeared in media reports in April 2020. She was interviewed by surging news, and once again recounted the harm caused by cyber violence to herself. In August 2021, Chang Rui was detained after the judgment was issued.

Later, she appealed and insisted that she was innocent. In October 2021, the court issued a written judgment of the second trial to maintain the original judgment.

For the final penalty, Qiao Wei said that the biggest significance to him is, "The conclusion is that, the qualitative is the most important, the other party pays the price." In the year of waiting for the verdict, he was holding his heart every day. Once he thought of it, he thought of it. If the other party is not guilty, "I really want to collapse, I will tell you." He stared at him, his voice trembled.

Now, if you have the penalty, the other party has paid the price, but this does not seem to be enough to pick him up from that vortex. "Her son does not spit out, there is no such thing. I did not see it, or I saw me ignoring it, or I saw me ignoring it. There is no such thing. Then I encountered a reasonable parent, and there was no such thing. I often tortured himself like this. "Qiao Wei said that he had to turn around in this circle every day, and his head was drowsy.

Shortly after the New Year's Day holiday in 2022, Qiao Wei went to the cemetery again. He looked a little stunned. He bought a pack of cigarettes at the intersection and walked to the door of the car. He found that he had no smoke and walked back. He found that he did not take a lighter. Li Fei said that this is the most common state of Qiao Wei in the past few years. Once, he also put the official document on the battery car. When he remembered to find it, the bag had been stolen.

At the cemetery, the upper step, Qiao Wei was panting, unlike a 38 -year -old person. Dr. An's cemetery is facing the best position in the mountains, and the scenery is done. In front of the tomb, look at a group of red and pink from a distance. When you go closer, the lotus and African chrysanthemums are all silk flowers. Qiao Wei knows that his wife likes flowers. Before, he put flowers and potted plants, but it was easy to wither and replaced with silk flowers.

On the tombstone, Dr. An's name was "loving mother". The only daughter was the old man.

After his wife was buried here, he often came alone. He knew that his wife liked to eat chocolate, watermelon and grapes. Every time he came to bring snacks, sometimes he stayed for two hours, and sometimes he left. At the end of each semester, he will report to his daughter's results. "Will you say bad news?" After hearing this question, Qiao Wei looked at the tombstone and asked, "Is there anything worse?"

"This person is so stupid." Qiao Wei pointed at the tombstone, "not worth it." One of the important reasons he felt that he couldn't get out is "I felt abandoned."

When his wife had just left, he kept thinking, did his wife leave some words for him? He was looking for him and found nothing. The mother -in -law's explanation is that she dare not face the most people.

After staying in the cemetery for 30 minutes, Qiao Wei's face gradually let go, and his tone became relaxed. He said that seeing his wife's photos will be very stable.

But at the moment when he couldn't meet, he often got involved in that question. "What did I do wrong?" He asked this question again, but did not answer.

In the news review area of ​​the trial result of this case, a netizen wrote a message: "The person who initiated the cyber storm was punished, but the people participating in the Internet storm, those who threw the vicious words to others, remembered it again that they thought of it again. When Dr. An, would they feel guilty? As a case, someone finally won the lawsuit, but when he returned to life, no one was the winner. "

In recent years, Qiao Wei feels that his life has been woven in a network. "The Internet provides convenience for life, but it will also become a murderer. Without the Internet, she just shouted with her mouth, and she knows one or two hundred people. Most of them are a unit, not to be awe -inspiring. "He hated this net, but also needed it. In the process of the case, he also needed this network to maintain attention and" come to us a backing. "

"You hate it or use it, you can't escape, it woven you in a net." Qiao Wei said.

The night before leaving Deyang, "Character" and Qiao Wei met the last time, and the night was in a hurry, and the people in the hotel made a noise. There is a trace of red in his eyes, "I'm so painful now." Regarding the question "What did you do wrong", he talked about the answer that he never mentioned with others. I don't know if the other party would think so. They were carrying a life, and I would feel that I was carrying a life. "His voice was deep, and he didn't speak for a long time.

"The old saying is to endure the calmness, but that is not tolerated, and then when you meet such a person, you may be wrong here." Qiao Wei reflected himself again, and then laughed bitterly. ", I didn't expect," The people around me were really drowned. "

"This matter can never be passed." He mentioned the bracket packed in the heart after the myocardial infarction that year. He said that it was like that bracket. "It will always be in the heart. It can't get around, always there."

No one's consolation can take effect at this moment. You can only listen, listen to his trial of himself, listen to his pain and regrets--

"I originally hoped to spend this life flat," he said.

Dr. An's cemetery, the best position in the cemetery

(At the request of the interviewees, Qiao Wei, Chang Rui, Zhou Li, Xingxing, Li Fei, and Wang Meilan in the article are all pseudonyms)

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