On the campus "teacher -student love", teachers must be responsible!

Text ｜ Fan Xiudi (Director of Tongji University Education Evaluation Research Center)

In the past few days, colleges and universities have often seen posts that control the school's male teachers to be incompatible with their behavior. The poster often emphasized that they did not make a decision when they complained to the school many times, and the school did respond to handling after the incident went online.

The author believes that the school should immediately investigate and form a preliminary conclusion about the issue of touching the bottom line of teachers' morality and morality. In fact, the school's obligation to accept social supervision on the style of internal personnel, and the timely response of the school can also prevent the disorderly "fermentation" of the incident. However, it may be because the "teacher -student love" problem itself is more complicated, and the school's disposal of this is often not decisive.

For the relationship between men and women on campus, most of the public can talk about the geographical nature of things. However, if colleges and universities deliberately concealed the avoidance, they would lead the public's attention to rumors on the Internet, and even thought there were many unknown "secrets" on the campus. It is undeniable that the nature of such problems is indeed difficult to define, which is even more necessary to regulate from concepts to words and deeds.

In fact, countries around the world are very concerned about the relationship between men and women on campus teachers and students. Foreign universities have also reached the consensus of some campus teacher -student relationships. In addition to the corresponding laws and regulations, my country has also promulgated some regulations. These can ensure that universities can deal with such issues. Faced with the incidents of sexual harassment of male teachers who often appeared in recent years, the school has been tightened and strictly disposed of. It is not only responsible for the parties, but also provides live textbooks for teachers and students to clarify teachers and students to clarify teachers and students.

First of all, the "teacher -student love" of the campus is not allowed, and the teacher must be held accountable for teachers. In the "Protection Regulations for Protection (Draft for Soliciting Opinions)" published by the Ministry of Education in 2021, there are clauses that prohibit the relationship and sexual relationship between faculty and students in love and sexual relationships. Foreign abroad has also banned teachers and students from incorporating the rules of love in colleges and universities.

Many issues of men and women in domestic universities are derived from "teacher -student love". In reality, there are also many female students "voting their arms" because they admire male teachers, but male teachers must clearly refuse and avoid. Of course, the same is true of female teachers and male students.

In short, the consequences of the problem of "teacher -student love" must be borne by the teacher. The kind of sympathy for teachers "being led by students' noses" is because they did not recognize the identity and status of the teacher as an educator, and the teacher -student love was judged as the issue of the relationship between male and female.

Secondly, the relationship between teachers and students is prohibited from ambiguous relationships, and students are not harmed. In domestic universities, teachers have rarely forced students to have sex with their sexual behavior, but there are many cases where mentors and graduate students (including some undergraduates) remain beyond normal teachers and students' emotional relationships (that is, ambiguous relationships). Some mentors bring their resources to "pride" for their students, asking students to serve themselves before the horse, and the words of the mentor and the students are too intimate.

This situation will exacerbate students' personal attachment to the mentor, causing students to pin their possibility of their own development on the mentor, thereby ignoring the potential mining and psychological power. In this way, once the relationship with the mentor is broken or believes that the mentor does not help himself, he will fall into helplessness because he cannot see his own strength and even embark on the way.

Furthermore, advocate self -esteem and self -esteem of college students, and learn to protect themselves. Although the main responsibility of campus teachers and students and men and women is to be teachers, as adults, college students to strengthen self -protection and prevention of prevention are also very important.

The ideological and political courses in the school should let students understand that only self -esteem and self -reliance are the foundation of their long -term development and good life. The resources, honors, and opportunities obtained by the relationship between men and women are neither legal nor morally, and the risks behind this emotion or interests are extremely extremely extremely extremely extremely extremely extremely extremely risky. High and expensive. A large number of examples at home and abroad show that in improper teachers and students, it is often students who have been stunned and even being devastated.

To this end, at the beginning of the enrollment of freshmen, colleges and universities should solemnly warn students not to have love and other ambiguous relationships. At the same time, universities also teach students to prevent sexual harassment and sexual assault. For example, when the teacher speaks of a sexual hints and teases, students must bravely refuse to refuse; avoid the room with the opposite sex teacher for a long time. In short, colleges and universities need to conduct correct guidance and protection of students' sexual safety.

Finally, it is necessary to remind teachers to abide by the law and abide by the law, and those who violate the "line of defense" will be severely punished. In the world, regulations for preventing teachers and students from foreign universities are being upgraded. Many universities abroad explicitly prohibit all teachers and students 'love and sexual behavior between teachers and students, and relevant rules will be written into the terms of employees' employment contracts. Once the teacher is found to be violated with the above clauses, it will face a dismissal or fired. The university will also inform the industry's behavior to avoid the recording of the teacher in other schools.

Strict school rules and punishment measures also make teachers always tighten the string of sexual harassment. When a foreign teacher comes to the office to talk about things, it will open the door, which has become a teacher's conscious behavior conservation.

It must be acknowledged that since the 1980s and 1990s in China, the disposal of teachers involved in teachers and students is not public enough and transparent. Sometimes they also protect the teachers due to emotional reasons, and even leave any file records, causing them to escape. Severe punishment of regulations and school rules. In short, we must severely punish foul teachers, otherwise it is difficult to play a warning role.

In summary, the relationship between men and women between campuses and students on campus needs to spend a lot of time and energy to deal with it. At present, the relationship between men and women in campus teachers and students is easily watched by the Internet. To some extent, it can force the school to pay attention to the problem and remind the campus teachers and students and the whole society to be alert to this. The problem is to make the "double -edged sword", how to correctly guide and produce positive effects, testing the policy level and execution ability of college managers. "China Science News" (2022-07-26 The 3rd edition of the 3rd edition of the original title "For the" teacher-student love "on campus, the disposal of colleges and universities must be decisive and clear")

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