The fastest way to abolish a child is to let him spend the summer vacation in the way he likes

Author: Pumpkin

You don't force a child and never know how good he is.

A few days ago, the circle of friends was screened by two summer vacation studies.

One is an accurate planning table, "high -intensity learning" time every day, up to 10 minutes.

The other is a detailed study plan for a day.

From 6:40 in the morning to sleep at 11:50, all arranged for learning time, and you still do not forget to remind yourself not to touch your phone.

Although no depression, the summer vacation did divide the children into two people.

One type of is obsessed with the happiness of garbage: as soon as the holiday is on the holiday, you will liberate the nature. After throwing all the learning tasks, the computer and your mobile phone will not leave his hand, and the king eats chicken.

One category is to enjoy high -level self -discipline: reasonably allocate holidays and regularly work, even if the holidays do not forget to improve themselves.

Einstein once said:

"The difference between people lies in the spare time, producing talents in my spare time, and also producing lazy men, alcoholic, fans, gamblers, which not only makes work performance different, but also distinguish between high and low life realm."

Lazy people indulge, life will decline all the way; self -disciplinary control can hold the initiative of life.

How a child spend a summer vacation, which largely determines what life he has in the future.

01

The vacation of the virtuality is the beginning of mediocrity. The University of John Hopkins conducted a follow -up survey of 3,000 students. The results showed:

After the new semester of the summer vacation, the academic performance of superior students will improve; the students with the worst grades in the class will forget most of the knowledge they have learned from the previous semester; middle students have not changed significantly, and in fact, they have been backward.

There is a theory that is also widely recognized in the education community, called "summer landslides", which refers to the decline in academic performance after the summer vacation.

why?

Because of the good habits of self -discipline, students with outstanding grades have a relatively poor self -control.

Long -term holidays mean long -term indulgence.

My cousin's child has a mediocre grade when he goes to school. It is a bit free time. It is either playing games or mixing with a group of people outside.

In the summer vacation, it was even more upside -down. I fell asleep at three or four in the morning and got up at noon.

The dysfunction of the schedule leads to uneven diet. The child is young and suffers from stomach disease. It is only time to study the Buddha's feet when the study is about to start.

It is conceivable that his grades have also been declined all the way. Not only did he go to college, he often became ill, and became a heart disease of the whole family.

In real life, there are many such children:

On weekdays, he was not disciplined, and he had a mess in his holidays. On the day after day, he lived into a pool of mud.

A senior class teacher once said:

"For students in the compulsory education stage, holidays are not used for rest, but are used to layered."

Destroying a child can only let him pass the long vacation indulgent.

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Every self -discipline holiday is an opportunity to overtake. Some media have conducted a survey for well -known high school graduates such as Hangzhou Foreign Language School and Hangzhou Xuejun Middle School.

Among the students who were surveyed, the study of college courses in the summer vacation in advance accounted for 60.81 %.

There is no excellent excellence in this world. The reason why Xueba becomes a school bully is the key to self -discipline and action.

Liu Yuanyuan, a talented daughter of Peking University, once said in a speech:

"I am particularly happy every time I take a holiday, not because it can be easy and play, but that I can finally have a large period of secretly working hard."

When Liu Yuanyuan was in junior high school, her grades were countdown in the whole year, and she didn't care about it.

Later, one day she heard the teacher said to a poor student: "You look like this now. In the future, let parents go back to the back door and find a job.

This sentence shocked Liu Yuanyuan from the countryside.

There are no superior conditions, and there are no powerful parents. If you want to get rid of the mediocre life, you can only rely on yourself.

Since then, she gets up at five o'clock every day and memorizes English. The time of squeezing out of the queue to eat at noon, and she dare not relax in winter and summer vacations.

When other students sleeping and playing games during the holidays, she used a cold towel in winter to force herself to be sober. She was closed in the summer vacation school dormitory, and she lived in the rental house of relatives' house to continue learning.

In the end, she was the first grade and entered the 2111 university. Finally, she was admitted to the graduate student she dreamed of.

Jiao Yuchen and Jiao Yuxiao, who are also admitted to Peking University, also said in a lecture on their home school: "The holidays are not used to rest, but used to overtake."

Learn like a boat against the water, and retreat if you do not enter.

How can there be a life open, but it has grasped every holiday and accumulated.

03

There is no winter and summer vacation in life, and only the effort of accumulation. The History Museum of Tsinghua University has launched an exhibition of ingenious exhibitions called "Historical Materials Exhibition of Tsinghua University's Excellence Archives".

The exhibits are both Tsinghua graduates and students' notes, homework and plans.

One of the undergraduates' notes, dense schedule plans, is amazing.

Sleep at 1 am, get up at 6 am, 40 minutes of washing and breakfast, and then start a day of study.

There are two lessons in the morning and four lessons in the afternoon. Except for lunch breaks, they are almost full of study.

In addition to completing a daily fixed course, there are also charging charging twice a week, social work, physical exercise ...

Hu Yijie, a student of Zhu Kezhen College of Zhejiang University, also shocked everyone with a dense learning schedule. Hu Yijie's work schedule ends from 6 am to 12:30 pm, and almost every time is accurate to minutes.

Why work hard and self -discipline?

Because the life of dreams is very expensive, how hard you work in the early stage, how lucky you will be in the future.

Teacher Luo Xiang once said: "The reason why we read and walk is actually hope that we can continue to enjoy advanced happiness."

High -level happiness comes from restraint. The satisfaction caused by self -control is far from comparable to low -level happiness.

As there is a paragraph:

"Reviewing knowledge is painful, but it can help you consolidate the foundation;

It is boring to read English texts aloud, but it can make you fluent English spoken English;

Sticking to running every day is tired, but it can make you gain a healthy body. "

There is no winter and summer vacation. If you want to work hard to fight for your dreams, you can only rely on the accumulated efforts.

Everything worthy of ownership is hard to come.

Those who can climb the distance must be those who are extremely persistent and drive themselves forward with their inner will.

Every drop of sweat you currently flows is the light of illuminating future life.

04

Every child who is born in the sky is the support of parents. In early 2021, due to the epidemic, Hebei multi -school required students to study at home. Parents from Hengshui Middle School showed the chat screenshots of the parent group:

At 5:41 in the morning, they had already called the child to get up and started a new day of study.

They have developed a detailed study plan, and parents will take the initiative to urge their children to take classes and tests.

It is often said that all children who are born in the sky are inseparable from their parents' struggle.

"Consciously" children are behind their parents' perennial companions, urging and correct discipline.

1. Cultivate habits, good habits are everything.

This year, MIT only admitted to only 8 students in China, and Ding Wenqi topped the list.

With such dazzling results, Ding Wenqi said that he was excellent, and he could not do without his parents' good habits since childhood:

Before elementary school, her parents asked her to write homework as soon as possible;

After going to elementary school, her parents began to cultivate her pre -class pre -class, the habit of reviewing after class;

In junior high school, her parents guided her to think independently, let her learn to learn self -management, and prohibit her from playing computers and mobile phones.

It was the tireless demands of parents that made this young life.

2. Words to teach, better than thousands of words.

The author of "Positive Discipline" has shared the story of himself and the child.

She found that the child was always abolished for a while, and threw the book for a few minutes to read the book.

She felt a little strange and asked the child.

The child said, "I have learned with you."

When she heard it, she was stunned.

When I thought about it, I found that when I was writing the card text, I was always angry and rubbed into a ball, throwing it into the trash can, and I was impatient to do other things later.

Unexpectedly, the child went to school so soon.

She immediately apologized to her child and said that it was wrong.

After that, she not only asked her to be patient, but also strictly controlled in all aspects of life to make an example for her children.

Dong Qing once said, "What kind of person do you want your child to be a person, you will be to be a person."

Parents' words and deeds are children's mirrors.

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Professor Chu Yin, a professor at the School of International Relations, said:

"Happy education seems to only be happy for a few years. If you refresh your childhood, you will be in your middle age. Your old age pays the price."

Children, you must remember that everything that makes you cool will definitely make you pain.

Today, you feel painful to study, and will eventually make you famous.

Parents should also understand that raising only once, education cannot be re -come, you do not force a child, and never know how good he is.

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