Guide to Love Self -Rescue | How to get out of love?

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"Love is just a high fever. Missing is a cough that is not good ..."

In the face of broken love, how can people come out of their feelings, let go of the past, and start again?

For this question, I believe everyone has their own answers.

In the summer of 2022, Dapeng, a takeaway from Shenyang, ended his long -term love long -distance running in his thirties.

Last week, Yizai contacted Dapeng, and Dapeng gave his answer to "How to come out of a period of years of feelings."

The following is the story about Dapeng.

01

After 7 years of love long -distance running

In the summer, Shenyang's wind was a little sultry, and he knew squeak on the tree. The old people sat on the vine chair in front of the door, drove by cold, and stunned.

Dapeng rides a small electric, and is the same as usual, passing through the streets of Shenyang, and sending takeaway to every household in the city.

However, this seemingly ordinary day is so unusual for Dapeng.

On this day, Dapeng and his girlfriend ended their feelings for nearly seven years.

Born in 1990, he is 32 years old. Seven years ago, she met her girlfriend and opened a children's clothing shop together. In this children's clothing store, the two invested a lot of effort and spent a lot of thoughts. But a few years later, because of the downturn of business, it had to be closed down.

For life, Dapeng decided to find a job that could have a relatively stable income. At that time, the takeaway industry had just risen, and the demand was when the demand was large. So he became a takeaway.

Figure | Dapeng's mobile phone album screenshot

Dapeng said: "By sending takeaway, at least I can rely on my own hands to rely on my own ability to eat, and with a fixed economic source, at least my life is not worried."

Since sending takeaway, the days have gradually become stable. After more than a year, Dapeng and his girlfriend are not young, and they are the age of the marriage.

People around them thought that when they were ready to get married, when they started a new life, the relationship between the two had a problem.

Perhaps because of the long time of love, for nearly 7 years, the love and passion between the two were worn by life; or because the two people's work was too busy, and they neglected each other's emotional changes and needs; Or the personality of the two is inappropriate, this relationship is a mistake from the beginning ...

In short, the two chose to end this long love long -distance running in the summer of 2022.

After separation, like most of the young people who are in love, Dapeng's life always has a lot of uncomfortable life. Those memories and instanties always return to his mind and lingering. After all, the feelings of 6 or 7 years are not forgotten.

02

Life always wants to look forward

But life always continues, Dapeng's age is not small, and his parents have been urging him to look forward. He also wants to take this relationship earlier and start a new life.

One night, Dapeng was difficult to sleep, brushed his mobile phone aimlessly, short videos brushed one after another, and the game played over and over again, but still could not find exports to release emotions.

Until unintentional, Dapeng saw a public account that has been concerned about for a long time. This is a public welfare institution founded by his favorite movie star Mr. Jet Li.

Whenever someone talks with him about Mr. Jet Li, he will say, "Uncle Jie is like the neighbor's house. He watched me grow up from a young age, and the uncle who is familiar with it. Although he is not my relative, I always feel like I always feel , I can always believe him. "

Since I knew that Uncle Jie started to do public welfare, Dapeng has always wanted to join, and the seed of the public welfare has been buried in his heart for a long time, but he has been tired of dealing with life and feelings. There is no suitable time to promote Dapeng Mai Mai Get this step.

On that night, the voice from the bottom of his heart told Dapeng, "Now, it's time to make some changes." So, he chose to join the monthly donation and officially became a family.

Regarding the number of monthly donations, Dapeng thought, "Since you are 33 years old this year, you will donate 33 yuan a month. In the future, as you grow older, donate one yuan more for each year. Methods, I also look forward to helping more people in the future. "

During the donation, Dapeng did not leave the real name, but left his name "Thirty Standing". He said: "This name not only represents my age, but also gives me expectations for myself. After the age, forget the past unpleasant memories and start a new life. "

Figure | Dapeng's donation record

Figure | Thank you letter from Dapeng

03

Everything is gradually getting better

Since becoming a family, Dapeng's life seems to have an additional sustenance. The seeds of public welfare in his heart are slowly germinating, and his love and enthusiasm for life are slowly returning to his world.

Dapeng also gradually understands that life is long and long. In addition to feelings, there are many things worth looking forward to and investing.

"After donating the money, I felt very solid in my heart, and my life seemed to gradually become smooth. Some things that were very tangled and sad, and slowly solved it." Dapeng said with a smile, with a touch of interpretation in his tone. Essence

In the end, Dapeng also told us, "Although it has not been a long time to become a family, I think that public welfare really changes me slowly and makes my life better. In the future, I want to do my best, Slowly change others and help more people. "Picture | Dapeng looks into the distance

What will happen in the future?Will life become better after Dapeng's thirty years old?How long will he have to meet new love?No one can give an exact answer.

But it is certain that after the long night, Dapeng will appear in the streets and alleys of Shenyang as always, riding the small electric, and in the breeze and floral fragrance of the oncoming, open a new day.

One fund is based on the vision of "doing our best and everyone's public welfare", focusing on the three major areas of disaster relief, care and development of children, public welfare support and innovation. It is a 5A -level social organization.Thanks to the family for their support and welcome the supervision of the family.

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