Night Reading | Self -introspective, let us be a better ourselves

Confucius said: "Seeing the wise thoughts, seeing the insignificant and inside."

Socrates said: "A life that is not viewed is not worth alive. In the province not only knows what you have done, the most important thing is to understand your true intentions through it."

Self -introspection is the best practice on a person's growth. Only by constantly reflecting can people know themselves more, to understand themselves, and then improve themselves and improve themselves.

"You can't do it, and you can reflect on your own." Any behavior that does not get the expected behavior should reflect on itself. In life, people who are good at reflection can do it faster and go further.

The life of Zeng Guofan was practicing the word "self -introspection". In the constant reflection, he changed his number to "polyogenic", the polyester, and the decoction of the old dyeing, which means that he washed the dirty dirt in the past. Lives, from the previous one, such as yesterday, died yesterday; from the following, such as today. This is the name of Zeng Guofan's constant reflection of changing the obtained. Liang Qichao said that Zeng Guofan's success was not naturally smart, but he reflected himself for decades.

Self -introspection is a reflection on self, not comprehensively denying yourself, rejection of yourself, and defining yourself in negative words. In the process of self -introspection, you must see your deficiencies, then accept insufficient and correct. Don't blame yourself because of your deficiencies, use a tolerance mentality, accept mistakes, adjust yourself, step by step, and gradually adjust and improve.

The so -called "three provinces in my day". The daily self -introspection is actually a continuous recovery of self.

Some people reflect on themselves when they are accused and required to bear the consequences. Such passive reflection will make themselves fall into the bad habits of repetition, as always, repeat the old bad state. And take the initiative to think about your own problems, constantly improve yourself, and you will be more prepared when facing setbacks.

Just as Xunzi once said: "A gentleman is learned and the Japanese will be saved, but he knows that he can do nothing." It means that the knowledgeable gentleman should often use his knowledge to check and reflect on his words and deeds. When you encounter something, you can maintain a wise and sober mind, and there is not much fault in behavior.

We can review what we do by sitting quietly and meditation every day, and recurring about learning and work;

You can also sort out your feedback by writing a diary and other writing methods, and then summarize the obtained;

You can also record and think about the way you ask questions;

You can also "see the sage but save the inside", use badness as a teacher, and seek the opinions of others to achieve your purpose.

Natsume Soseki once said: "The mirror is a proud brewer, and it is also a complacent disinfectioner." It is necessary to always take the heart of "three provinces and my body", and to take the mirror objectively and comprehensively from time to time. Your own deficiencies.

It is a kind of ability and a realm to change a person in a subtle way. It is necessary to implement self -introspection into your own habits, continue to act, and long -term self -introspection.

May we all work three provinces and work hard to become a better ourselves.

Author: A Yuan

Photography: Period, A Yuan

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