After retiring, it is understood that the biggest misfortune of a person in his later years is that these 3 cards are missing!

There is a classic line in "Gintama":

"When competing with each other, whoever loses the cards in your hand first, you can leave the trump card to the last moment is the winner."

Comparison with others, comparison with life, and contest with years, holding the cards to the end can keep yourself safe.

We often think that the first half of life is bitter. After the age of retirement, the years are quiet, and we don't have to worry about the chickens and dogs.

When you really retire and see the coldness of reality, you finally understand that his old age is not peaceful, and there are also suffering and unfortunate sneaky.

Destiny will not be soft because of your long river of time, depending on what kind of cards you have in your hands, and then distinguish it.

In his later years, don't miss these three cards, otherwise unfortunately coming.

In the hit drama "Happiness to Wanjia", the timidity of the Wang family's parents tickled her popularity, especially her father Wang Youde.

The Wang family is a small family named by Wanjiazhuang. Wang Youde and his wife earn a small income throughout their lives. They can only be careful in the village.

His daughter -in -law He Xingxing wanted to improve the economic situation of the family, proposed organic vegetables in greenhouses, and Wang Youde took out to accumulate the construction of the greenhouse.

But they just signed an agreement with the dealer to build a greenhouse, and the village decided to collect the land to build a sewage treatment plant in his house.

The village committee held a conference, and Wang Youde had tens of millions of reluctances, but he still trembled and raised his hand to praise, because he had no money or no power to offend the village leader.

The eldest son Wang Qinglai was kicked by Secretary Wan's anger in order to fight for compensation to find the situation of the village committee.

Wang Youde rushed to the hospital and looked angry, but when he learned that his son was kicked by Secretary Wan, he did not dare to say that Secretary Wan said half sentence, for fear that he could not get compensation.

He Xingfu decided to fight the lawsuit to safeguard his rights and to discuss Wang Qinglai. Wang Youde began to nod with consent.

When a lawyer said that 4,000 lawyers were needed, Wang Youde hesitated. He also persuaded his son to recover, and there was no need to investigate.

Even later, Wang Youde learned that his daughter's qualifications to go to college were replaced by Secretary Wan's daughter.

Although he was distressed by his daughter and his university, but for the compensation of 300,000, he still gritted his teeth to persuade his daughter to sign and settle.

300,000, which is the money that Wang You did not earn for decades. He needed this money to pension. The second son and his daughter needed to get married.

Wang Youde bowed his knees all his life, only because of his shyness in his pocket, and he did not confront people with a card.

Guo Moruo wrote in "Money of Money":

The magic of money is not small, and it has eaten the poor people all over the world.

The poor people are suffering, and poverty is the disease that penetrates into the bone marrow.

The wallet is dry, and the bloodyness of the hard gas is full of low eyebrows everywhere.

Fear of offending the price of others, afraid that if you accidentally lose a little, you are afraid that life will not be full of food and clothing.

Happiness does not necessarily need money to buy, but unfortunately it is often born because of money.

The world of adults, striving to engage in the rich balance of money, and less suffering and helplessness, this is an undeniable fact.

In February of this year, Ming Jingang, a well -known director of Taiwan, won a pair of dragon and phoenix baby, and suddenly died of myocardial infarction at the age of 52.

Ming Jin Cheng met his wife and loved each other. They used many attempts to usher in two small lives.

Ming Jincheng loved his children and wives, and kept taking care of it. When he learned that his wife was pregnant, he also deliberately quit smoking and alcohol, hoping to accompany the child to grow up healthy.

Who would have thought that Ming Jincheng did not wait for his wife and children to go home with a full moon, and he went to another world.

In the face of the disease, life is too fragile, and there is no health protection. Even if there are thousands of perseverance, the death will never show mercy.

A few days ago I received a call from my mother, and I learned that I was diagnosed with the advanced gastric cancer when I was looking at my grandmother.

I was a little wrong for a while. I remembered that I had just retired. I also said that I would go out for a trip during the New Year. I wanted to see the good mountains and rivers in China.

In the first half of my life, I was running for the family, shrinking clothes, and returning and returning every day every day. I rarely leave leave for decades, and sometimes I was reluctant to rest.

I forgot to eat for dinner because of her work. She went to the hospital several times when she was hungry. She always thought that she could fight for a day, and when the child grew up, she could be relieved.

But I managed to have their children's family. She had not had time to enjoy retirement leisure, and before seeing the happy pictures of her children and grandchildren around her knees, she was entangled with illness.

We often think that life is very long, and there are a lot of time, but we ignore the limited vitality of the body and cannot stand tossing and consumption.

Health needs to be supported, and you ca n’t stand rebellion. The more meticulous you are, the gentle it is.

I have seen a period of tears in the People's Daily:

We always go to life for too many things that are out of reach, but we forget the true happiness of life, but it is the warmth of the lights and the enrichment of chai oil and salt. In this year, no matter how much you make money or less, what you experience is good or bad. Remember, if you are healthy this year, it is the best year.

The hardest ace of life is that the body is unhappy and healthy is often.

With a strong body, the arc of life will slowly pull, helping you to achieve more expectations.

A netizen has shared the fun of grandpa and grandma, which is funny and moving.

Grandpa and grandma are older. Grandpa has a pension guarantee life. Grandma does not. Grandma had to be strong in a lifetime and didn't want to be looked down on by Grandpa, so she signed up for the sanitation of the community.

Since the sanitation team needs to go to the morning class, grandma could not get up at all, Grandpa could only go to work for grandma every day.

Some people commented: "Because of the love of grandpa's life, grandma couldn't get up in the morning."

Yeah, it is difficult for people to lonely. Someone hurts you, spoil you, and loves you. It is a kind of happiness and a sense of security.

Before the writer Liang Xiaosheng knew his wife Jiao Dan, someone introduced him a few girls, but was frightened by Liang Xiaosheng's family.

When meeting with Jiao Dan, Liang Xiaosheng, as always, bluntly said:

"My family has a heavy burden, my parents are in a bad health, my brother is mentally ill, and you have to post money to them every month."

Instead of abandoning Liang Xiaosheng, Jiao Dan said firmly:

"I didn't expect you to be so difficult, and the burden on my shoulder is so heavy, and it takes one to help you share it."

After they got married, Jiao Dan contracted all housework in order to let Liang Xiaosheng's peace of mind, and also took into account Liang Xiaosheng's parents and siblings.

On one occasion, Liang Xiaosheng wrote a novel "Snow City" in the office for a long time. He did not go home for five days, and Jiao Dan and his son did not bother him.

A reporter wanted to interview Liang Xiaosheng to find the house, and Jiao Dan also specifically told the reporter not to tell Liang Xiaosheng.

When the reporter saw Liang Xiaosheng, he couldn't hold back, and Liang Xiaosheng hurried home, so he sent Jiao Dan and his son to the hospital.

Liang Xiaosheng was not very good at cooking. He cooked two bowls of tomatoes and egg noodles. Although the taste was not good, Jiao Dan was delicious and sweet.

Because of the forty years of Jiao Dan and Liang Xiaosheng, Liang Xiaosheng could create a number of works with peace of mind. This is the warmth and completeness of the marriage.

Bi Shumin said:

"A good man and a good woman, although there are two hearts in the days when they are in trouble, there is only one idea -the wind and rain move forward."

The good or bad of the partner is not to see if the three views are the same, but whether the soul is in line.

The happiness of marriage is not to see if the family is rich, but whether it can move forward together.

Whenever, the warm life is warm, and it is the key to the rest of the life.

The significance of marriage is that some people are willing to work with you to clean up the mess after the wind and rain, and witness the prosperity of the highlight period.

There is a lyrics in the song "Carbonate":

"I used to throw my own cards in myself, but now I want to pick it up with my memory."

On the long road, we threw it while walking, lost a lot of things, and picked up some.

But not everything has the opportunity to regain. If you lose your heart, you can only accept the fate of fate.

Money is the confidence of life; health is the foundation of moving forward; partner is a password of heart warmth.

Life is a series of series. The rich cards need to be accumulated. When you are young, you can get more rational and sober in order to get the peace and peace of his old age.

Light at the end of the text [Looking at], I hope you and I are rich, without any love, have love, hold the reality cards in their hands, and take the second half of the second half.

Do not panic in front of your eyes, not panic in the future chapter.

Author | Li Kemo, a personal public account, girl.

Picture | Visual China

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