Looking at this push, I said 5 "outrageous"

When we posted the moment when we decided to get married ", I received a lot of messages in the background.

Isn't this here? Speaking of satisfying you! Be careful not to be taken care of by these worlds.

01.

When everyone is economically independent and no longer needs to rely on the support of their parents, he still cannot, or he does not want to stop his mother from intervening in our lives. At that moment I felt that I had nothing to wait. No reason can be found to be considerate.

02.

On the seventh day after giving birth, just because he said that his big nephew had a cold and runny nose. Don't stay with the baby in the same room. He felt that I looked down on his family and said that he would divorce, and the Cold War was a month. At that time, I knew that I would definitely divorce him.

03.

The two of us are free to fall in love, and the family is also a "door -to -door". But after a problem, others persuaded me to "men like this, and tolerance passed". He asked me "others advised you, why didn't you reflect on yourself." This became the last straw that overwhelmed the camel.

04.

We met during the trip. The soft weather and magnificent scenery of early spring became the beginning of this relationship. Later, we began to love a long -distance relationship between more than 1,000 kilometers. This love has been quarreling and breaking up from the beginning. In the end, he said that he would not let me go out, because "how do I know if you will recognize the men on the road."

05.

When I saw him secretly stored all my personal accounts and passwords without knowing it.

06.

My predecessor is a person who is desperate for his career. He is going to work every day except to work. There is no time to reply to text messages. At first I always thought that he could not compare the work for work. Until I realized that he was used to receive his friends almost every night and every weekend. Occasionally, when I saw his personal schedule, the meal was full, related, irrelevant, as long as someone asked him to appoint. All busy and all the time is just to me.

07.

I wanted to help him quit alcoholism, I paid time with my heart, but found that my sacrifice was just a wish. It turned out that alcoholism was just an excuse for not facing reality, and it was a reason for him to continue to be weak.

08.

His parents had no pension, and I always minded a little. I told him whether he could make up for his parents for pension insurance. This incident has been dragged for a long time. I mentioned it every time, and then he was perfunctory. A few days ago, I mentioned this again, hoping that his parents could pay at least the highest grade of rural pensions from this year. He agreed again, and then there was no follow -up. I have decided to break up now. There are problems that are not terrible. What is terrible is that I will always be solved by me.

09.

Too many small promises were not fulfilled. It was so small that it just made me taste his craftsmanship, but he said it was not important.

10.

On the day when the cold violence, the day of the first anniversary of marriage, he said that he was disgusted when he saw me, and I noticed that he worsened his phone. It turned out that he had a friend's circle of friends with a photo of him and another man.

Later, negotiations and dialogue, he did not reserve at all, insisted on divorcing as soon as possible, and he could not delay for one minute.

11.,

After breaking up, I have been entangled, but every demand for every wish is still my first place. One day she said that she was going to a business trip in a foreign country (the cherry is produced in the local area), and I joked: "I want to eat cherry." The other party said, "What is the matter of me?" Broken my filter to this relationship. At that moment I told myself that you can only love yourself in the future.

12.

The first love of college, dividing him with him for five and a half years, he still didn't remember what day I was. After I asked to make up for birthday, I reminded him to give birthday gifts every day, and described a week after I wanted to receive a skirt, he gave me a few stones he picked up on a business trip.

I asked him what the stone would pay for your preparation of birthday gifts? Didn't he need to pick up?

13.

The first kiss was kissed while I was not saving. For the first time, it was also a variety of soft and hard bubbles. Forcing me to do what I have rejected many times, and he did not take good measures to take good measures. I went home to go home. Ask him after discovering himself, what should I do? He said: It would be done.

I really stunned for a long time, and then broke up.

14.

There is no desire for each other, and even sexual fantasies, but when you find that you can imagine others.

15.

I have a double -phase emotional disorder, but he feels when I "moaning without illness".

16.

When I was in a heartache, hysteria, and strong recovery for this upcoming breakup, he was indifferent, but concentrated on playing with his mobile phone. I only knew what was to die for a moment.

17.

That day I pressed my emotions to communicate with him, but I only got the opponent's storm -like scolding and emotional vent. I was nervous and scared on the phone. I suddenly realized that the other party had serious emotional management problems. Although I loved it and loved it, it was impossible.

18.

At the moment I found that love cannot be pretended. Working and living in small counties, everything is carried out step by step. The matter of getting married is also, I have not completely figured out whether I really got married when I really love each other. After marriage, I found that I was very resistant to my close contact with each other. Finally, I decided to let go of each other to propose a divorce. 19.

Love comes from comparison. Suddenly one day, after one day of sadness, I found out that the recurrence was discovered:

He will not forget her birthday, but he will forget you;

He went to the airport to pick her up at the airport, but took you in the parking lot;

He tells her all his joy and sorrow, but he will tell you;

He will show her affection with her, but you don't exist;

His words respond to your sentence, he picks up your words;

He has emotions, you comfort, you have emotions, he pays more attention to himself;

You often give him a gift, he just gives you the same;

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When I wrote it here, I found that it was not enough?

20.

I injured a bike on the way to work, and the injured photos were sent to him, and he returned a praise emoticon.

twenty one.

Roe v. Wade was overturned, and I proposed to relocate. It was required to decrease all the way from moving to other countries, but he only played from beginning to end, and did not agree to other states.

twenty two.

I have been doing housework for two years, but I have not complained, because I usually have the habit of cleaning up the room. Until one day he ate the noodles I made, and asked me to go to the kitchen to get salt. I said that I was just eating it. You can add the salt to you by yourself. Go to sleep. That time was the last time we met. Two years have passed. Although I did not talk about a new boyfriend, I did not regret my decision that year.

twenty three.

In the end, I made a determination to divorce: I had a major operation in another city. He knew, but a phone number did not call me during the hospitalization. After I was discharged from the hospital, I returned to his city and saw him again. He never asked how I did the operation and how my body recovered. When people are the most vulnerable, their partners do not hear, let alone to provide any help. I don't understand that this relationship can still have any benefits for me.

twenty four.

After suing the divorce, in fact, before going to the court, I still embraced a hint of hope. When the first mediation was in front of the court, when he asked me to get married in front of the mediator, my heart died at that moment.

KY author said:

In the "moment of decision to get married", we mentioned that if you want to be with someone, it is not a sudden decision at a certain moment, but the moment when countless beautiful, loved, and want to be with this person The accumulation has become a determination to get into the marriage with this person.

It is the same to leave a relationship. The decisive moment listed in the Wenzhong Luo, but after being disappointed again and again, after the hard work, but endlessly, he finally died.

But I am very fortunate to leave a message, and all friends who have left an unhealthy relationship. Fortunately, I found this moment, or hesitated or decisively, and chose to leave.

These painful experiences may leave us "personality scars" (click to read: sometimes, people who have loved a wrong person will leave us "personality scars"), but actively stop all the damage, it is precise It is the beginning of our growth and cure.

Not everyone has the ability and luck to turn pain into strength, but the weight forwarding itself is a kind of bravery and evidence we have worked hard.

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