When you are willing to leave a position for others, others will naturally open a door for you

Author: Ciyu

Self -selfish, self -reliance.

On May 26, 2022, Harvard University held a special graduation ceremony.

Affected by the epidemic, the school folding chair was insufficient, and the seats at the scene were short. Half of the students had to let the seats sit on the blanket.

In this regard, the principal Lawrence Bagao said such a thing:

"As a graduate of Harvard University, each of you must learn to leave a place for others when getting a seat.

Because humility, kindness, and caring for others are as important as a person's professional achievements. "

When you are willing to leave a position for others, others are naturally willing to open a door for you.

01

There are more than 2,000 parking spaces in Volvo headquarters in Sweden, but people who arrive early always park their cars away from the office building.

Someone asked curiously: "Is your berth fixed?"

They replied: "We have arrived earlier, and we have more time to go. The late colleagues may be late, so we leave them closer to the office building."

Thinking for others with the same sense, it is the best cultivation behind him and the care of others.

Yu Qiuyu went to Germany to experience life. He found a house and wanted to sign a long -term rental contract with the landlord.

The old man asked Yu Qiuyu for a few days before deciding whether to rent long.

Five days later, Yu Qiuyu lived very satisfied, and picked up the phone to talk to the elderly. When he called, he accidentally crushed the glass to the ground.

Yu Qiuyu quickly apologized, the old man said, "It doesn't matter, you are not intentional, I will take another one tomorrow."

Hanging the phone, Yu Qiuyu threw the broken glass into the garbage bag.

After a while, the old man came, and when he entered the house, he asked, "What about the glass fragments?"

Yu Qiuyu said, "I have cleaned it out of the door."

After the old man looked at the trash bag, he said gloomy and said, "The house will not be rented to you."

Yu Qiuyu was surprised: "Why don't you rent it suddenly?"

The old man said, "Because you have no one in your heart."

The old man poured out all the garbage, then put the glass fragments in a pocket, and wrote it with a pen: "Inside is glass fragments, danger!"

After installing the garbage, he said to Yu Qiuyu: "No matter what you do, you must think of the next person. When going to the toilet, you must think of the next person to the toilet. When throwing garbage, you must think of the next person who collects garbage ..."

The gentleman is great to be good.

Leave a place for others, that is, always pretend to be others in their hearts.

02

On one occasion, Ma Weidu looked at a beautiful Ru kiln and asked the owner of the antique shop.

The owner hesitated and said, "This is what I bought from Japan, and the value is very high. If you really want it, I will sell it to you for 80,000 yuan!"

Ma Weidu listened, smiled and said, "I am 90,000."

Since then, the store has any collections, and will contact Ma Weidu first.

Leaving a position for the survival of others is also a blessing for yourself.

In 1997, affected by the financial crisis, a wealthy Japanese businessman came to Cao Dewang to help.

He is the supplier of Fuyao Glass. He hopes that Cao Dewang can enter the floating glass more every month, otherwise it will be very loser in the warehouse.

Everyone thought that Cao Demon would take the opportunity to lower the price.

Unexpectedly, Cao Dewang not only did not have the price, but entered many glass more every month.

Cao Dewang explained that when others are in difficulties, we have to help him and help others help himself.

Later, after the financial crisis passed, the price of floating glass began to rise.

But the price of Cao Dewang's rich man has not changed.

The selfish person is self -sufficient, and the altruists can be popular.

Leave a place for others and make three points of interest in everything. This is a person's long -term vision.

03

In the 42nd time of "Dream of Red Mansions", Liu Ye entered the Grand View Garden.

When leaving, Ping'er came to send each other and brought her some old clothes.

Ping'er said: Although the clothes I gave you are old, I didn't wear it very much. If you want to discard it, I dare not say it.

Liu Ye laughed, where the girl said, and I still abandoned such a good thing. I just use silver, and I have nowhere to buy it. It's just that I am strange, it's not good to accept it.

Ping'er laughed: You can rest assured, I still ask you something with you. In the year, you only take the gray beans and cowpea, lentils, eggplant, and gourds. Come, we love to eat up and down here.

Liu Ye has thank you.

Whether it was the dilapidated clothes or the active "asking", Ping'er was to give Liu Ye a step.

It's really comfortable to get along, often not to make people feel embarrassed, nor will it make people fall into a dilemma.

Qi Baishi and Zhang Daqian had been invited to Xu Beihong's house as a guest.

After the wine was full, Qi Baishi took a lot of vixes and drew a lotus picture for Mrs. Liao to answer.

Zhang Daqian Ying Liao's feelings also added a few small shrimp on painting.

But Zhang Daqian only cared for everything, and did not notice the number of shrimp festivals, either draw a few more sections, or less.

Regardless of the gentleman, if we change to us, we may directly point out the mistake to show their extraordinary knowledge.

Qi Baishi secretly pulled Zhang Daqian's sleeves and said quietly:

"Mr. Daqian, no matter the prawns and shrimps, there are only six sections, but you can't draw more and less paintings."

After listening, Zhang Daqian was grateful to Qi Baishi to embarrass him in front of everyone, and then painted water patterns and water plants, covering up the inconsistent shrimp body one by one. Blindly dismantling the embarrassment of others, breaking the embarrassment of others, and throwing away their own education.

Keeping a position is to keep a step to let others go. This is a person's top emotional intelligence.

04

People with high levels know how to achieve others.

The stage in the world is very large, so you can tolerate you and me to show their talents.

Sociologist Sun Liping has proposed a concept: the bottom of the bottom.

"If you are at the bottom, it will be easy to fall into a mode of harm. You step on me and I step on you.

Since we use a lot of energy to hurt each other, no energy is improved, no one can escape, and finally collectively fall into a kind of fall. "

It is a typical weak mentality to stop others from moving forward.

Leaving a place is that the road to the mountain can leave a way to others. This is a person's pattern.

A young man asked God: "What is the difference between heaven and hell?"

God did not answer, and took him to heaven and hell to visit.

In Hell, a group of people surrounded a large pot of broth, but hungry and thin.

Everyone has a long spoon that can be enough for broth, but the handle that is too long makes them unable to eat it.

In heaven, the same long spoon and broth, people are full of face.

Because of this, everyone knows how to feed others.

People are mutual.

If you leave a place for others today, one day, others will turn in turn all of you.

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