People pass fifty and understand the five things (good depth)

Seeking people is better to ask for yourself. When you experience pain, you are the ferry of life

Author: Xia Guang is full of sky

Source: Rufeng everyone (ID: rufengdajia)

Zhou Guoping once said:

"In all the responsibilities in the world, the most fundamental thing is to really become yourself and live your unique personality and value."

Before the age of 50, he fell between dreams and reality and farther away from his real self.

In the second half of life, five things are enlightened, and they can live their own value and live smoother.

Not complaint

I've heard such a small story:

A little monkey was injured in his chest.

Therefore, it notified all friends in the forest, and friends also visited one after another.

Every time, the little monkey is busy preparing for the entertaining everyone who is delicious and delicious. The most important thing is that it will open the wound for everyone.

And every time, my friends looked seriously, and their eyes revealed regret or sympathy.

After a while, the little monkey's food was eaten; and it was opened because of the wound again and again, which caused the infection and died.

Perhaps the reality is not that absolute, but it truly reflects the law of the life of adults.

Don't complain, most people don't want to listen, and a small number of people feel happy.

Shakyamuni once said, "When you are liberated, don't ask for help."

Because of the sorrow of human beings, all feelings are the same, and they often only stay on the words.

Like a needle, only when you tie them on yourself, you know how it hurts.

People should understand that when you are in pain, it is useless when you are in pain.

Life Haihai, fell, immediately patted the dust and continued.

Seeking people is better to ask for yourself. When you experience pain, you are the ferry of life.

Unbearable

Life in the world, or for life, or for ideals, often can't help but be wronged and tolerate.

Wu Chengen in the Ming Dynasty, as a county, could not see the officials of the officialdom, but still for many years for the five buckets.

On one occasion, he was busy reconstruction after the disaster, but ignored the superiors who came to "condolences".

As a result, the superiors found him into a prison.

In this difficulties, Wu Chengen, in his early 50s, was completely awake.

After being released from prison, he resigned decisively and began to concentrate on writing novels, leaving the world "Journey to the West".

The ancients often said: "If you can't bear it, you will make a lot of conspiracy."

But many times, too patient, often pinch as soft persimmons.

Writer Yishu once said: "Life in just dozens of years, the most important thing is to satisfy himself, not to please others."

Those who borrowed money, those who looked down on you in their hearts, and deliberately gave you embarrassment ...

If people pass fifty, they should be soberly realized: there is no need to bear it.

Like that sentence: It's the first time to be a man, why should you let you?

Not compare

Carnegie once said, "Happiness is not what you are or what you have. Happiness depends only on what you think."

A king goes to the back garden every day.

One day, when he went to enjoy the flowers as usual, he couldn't help but be shocked: the garden was full of depression and desolation.

Suddenly, the king discovered the vibrant heart grass under the wall.

The king asked: "The heart of the heart, why do other plants wither?"

Xin Ancao said, "King, pine trees died because they couldn't be more gorgeous than roses. The roses died because they couldn't bear the results of grapes, but the grapes were dying because they couldn't be more fragrant of the purple clove ...."

The king was curious again: "What about you?" Xin Ancao said, "I don't compare with other plants, I don't think I am amazing. So I am vibrant."

As the saying goes: "People are better than others, and people are angry."

After half a lifetime, I finally discovered that the burden of life actually came from comparison between people.

People pass fifty and do not compare.

No more than a car, just travel safely; no more than a house, the family is harmonious; no children, health and filial piety.

Life, in fact, we never lack happiness, but lack the ability to perceive happiness.

Happiness does not depend on the outside world, but only internal feelings.

Not worry about

Human worries often do not need to worry about themselves, but to work hard all day long.

The world is complicated, in the final analysis, "things are only three": their own affairs, others' affairs, God's affairs.

After fifty years old, care about yourself, and live your life is most important.

Don't worry about God: Putting an umbrella, wearing a hat on sunny, don't worry about it.

Don't worry about other people's affairs: each has its own way of living, and can't worry.

Don't worry about children: Children and grandchildren have children and grandchildren, and it is useless to worry about.

I've seen a very interesting little story.

An old man saw a child eating ice cream. Out of concern, the old man said, "Such a cold day will eat bad body."

The child smiled and said, "My grandmother is 103 years old."

The old man asked curiously: "Eat ice cream?"

The child said, "No, my grandmother never cares about her nos."

The old man said a word of words for a while, and suddenly realized.

Not waiting

"Golden Wait" has a saying: "The flowers bloom are folded and must be folded.

An old Zen master tan the shiitake mushrooms under the scorching sun.

The abbot couldn't help but say, "You don't have to work so hard, I can find someone to do it for you."

The old Zen master replied: "But others are not me."

The abbot said, "Although it is right. But you don't have to pick the big sun."

The old Zen master smiled slightly: "Don't you get sunny in the sun, do you have to wait until rainy days?"

The abbot said for a while.

The writer Tie Ning said: "We all like it too much, and stubbornly believe that waiting for waiting is never wrong.

Don't be busy, wait for the next time, wait for time, wait for money ...

We always believe in "coming to the Japanese party", but often ignore the "impermanence of the world."

While your parents are alive, go home and take a look at it.

While your body is tough, walk thousands of miles, and don't wait until you drag your or sick or aging body.

While enthusiasm is still, the unknown dream, boldly act, as long as there is light in the eyes and dreams in your heart, you are still the boy.

People pass fifty, do not wait, Mo Yan, Mo disappointed.

To live well today, to accompany important people to do important things, there is no regret in this life!

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