[Study Study] What is the stalk of "Yi Li Bqi"?Get along with people, don't be cautious

Author:Yangzi Evening News Time:2022.07.24

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Have you found that now the tone of our speech seems to be more and more "Party B"?

Recently, a new term appeared on the Internet- "Yi Li Bqi", which refers to a way of communication, indicating that people have a humble and respectful attitude, but they are not exactly polite, but they are afraid of fear, but they are afraid of fear, but they are afraid of fear, but they are afraid of fear, but they are afraid of fear, but they are afraid. Surgery others, pack themselves, and show people with a humble attitude.

This "B" comes from the "B" of Party A and Party B. Generally, friends in the workplace are familiar. In the business context of the contract, Party B belongs to the supplier and Party A belongs to the owner. Relatively speaking, Party A's status should be stronger and can formulate demand. Party B must meet the reasonable requirements put forward by Party A, otherwise it may lose the opportunity of transaction.

However, in the legal context, Party A and Party B are actually an equal relationship, and there is no difference between strong and weakness. I just do n’t know when we mentioned “Party B” and began to realize the disadvantaged position representing the word behind the word.

Girl Xiaoyu (pseudonym) from Guangzhou (pseudonym) has a strong resonance on the expression of "Bili and Bqi". She is currently internship at an Internet company and is responsible for new media operations. When she first entered the workplace, she trembled. After she was zero, although she was free and free, she still had to put away the so -called "edge" and try to face others with a humble and respectful attitude. Sometimes this habit will bring back to campus life. When talking to my roommate, I unconsciously come up with a phrase "trouble you." She said: "It's been a long time," Li Li and Bqi "have penetrated into the bone marrow. I always feel that it is safer to communicate with others with the role of Party B. It is not easy to dispute."

Analysis of "Sirdle":

Get along with people, don't be cautious

Zhao Wei, a doctor and associate researcher at the Institute of Literature of the Academy of Social Sciences of Jiangsu Province, believes that using the "Yi Li and Big Qi" to describe the way of speaking should be self -deprecating by young people. It is also related to everyone's personality and is not fixed.

Zhao Wei said that the Internet will make the "Party B" -style mentality more concrete and more obvious. "" Because online expression is not only used in words, but also other symbols, such as punctuation, emoticons, pictures, etc., it can bring to it to it to bring to it. The recipients have different psychological feelings and are more intuitive. "

According to his understanding, most of the words "Party B" appeared in business cooperation. Regarding Party A's request, Party B has a low posture, sometimes to complete the contract faster, even if they face the requirements that they cannot meet for a while, they want to support it.

In his opinion, the more competitive is, the easier it is to "Party B". Under the pressure, people can easily become careful, and hope that they will be perfect, and they will easily move towards "cautious". Many industries now fight for services, emphasizing service awareness. Can you meet the needs of each other to the greatest extent, including emotion and psychology, which will further affect subsequent work.

For example, in the media advertising industry, advertisers like to call themselves "advertising dogs". On the one hand, they describe their tiredness, and on the other hand, they refer to their own position humble. But he felt that the healthy business environment needs to be comfortable and satisfied with the participation.

In addition, it is manifested in social interaction. Maybe someone takes "Yi Li and Big Qi" as a way of life, because to some extent, too humble and respectful, you can perform proper self -protection without revealing your heart. Maybe hidden self brings a sense of security?

However, he told reporters that no matter what attitude he chose, it was boldly expressing, or "Yi Li Bqi", the original intention was to solve the problems in work or life. I feel sincere and comfortable to associate with people. "Of course, there is no need to worry about it."