It is not planned in the summer vacation, and the gap between school opening is large. This "357 Gold Plan Form" is too useful.

Author | Summer

Source | Boys' original

It's about to pass the summer vacation soon, but I can't be happy at all.

When I thought of my son's summer vacation last year, I fell asleep, played games, and had a big decline in school performance, and I had a headache.

There is a saying good: summer vacation is the best time to cultivate children's habits.

If you use it well, the child may overtake the curve, and the help shakes straight;

If you do n’t use well, the child may flow down, a thousand miles.

If you want your child to grow up, you must not let the child take a summer vacation.

In order to help children spend a fulfilling and meaningful summer vacation, we will send you a "357 Gold Plan Form".

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3 stages

A class teacher with 20 years of teaching experience once said:

"Children's psychological changes in the summer vacation are mainly divided into three stages.

The first stage is 15 days after the test, and children at this stage have no thoughts and just want to play as much as possible.

The second stage is 15 days after the test to 10 days before the start of the school. Children at this stage will be in a boring state. They occasionally want to learn, but they feel lack of constraints.

The third stage is 10 days before the start of the school. At this stage, the children at this stage wanted to return to school to stay with my classmates, and they had no intention of studying. "

Therefore, according to the law of children's psychological changes, we can also divide the child's summer vacation into three stages:

1. "Rapid Period": One or two weeks before the summer vacation start

Just ending the tense study and examination in the semester, the child's physical and mental state is more fatigue, and it needs to take a period of time to rest and recover.

At this time, the summer arrangement is mainly relaxed. You can take your children to the playground and travel to cultivate good parent -child relationships;

He can also let him go to his grandparents and grandfather's house for a few days. While accompanying the elderly, he can also relax with your heart and mind.

Only by letting the child release the pressure accumulated for a semester, can the child enter the next stage with a happy cup to be renewed.

2. "Circle Restaurant": mid -summer vacation in the summer

This is the largest period of the whole summer vacation, the best stage of the child's physical and mental state, and the best time for children to check and fill in.

During this time, we can take learning as the main and relaxing as the supplement, and arrange learning tasks for the children in a combination of work and rest, and supervise the children to implement it carefully.

3. "Period of Heart": Late summer vacation

Half a month before the start of school, the child's heart -ending stage has begun.

During this time, it mainly helped children overcome the "holiday syndrome", adjusted the child's routine and mentality, and returned the child to the state of school.

At the same time, don't forget to check the child's homework, lead the child to preview new knowledge in advance, and help children confidently welcome the arrival of the new semester.

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5 key points

There is a good saying: the details determine the success or failure.

Blindly arranged a bunch of summer tasks for children, it is difficult for children to persist, and the significance of summer vacation will be greatly reduced.

If you want to make good use of the holiday time, let your children not only get rest and adjust, but also make effective self -growth, it is better to seize these 5 points.

1. Let your child formulate a set of learning plans independently

A father who sent his daughter to the University of Cambridge, England encouraged her daughter to formulate a learning plan independently during each holiday.

Dad thinks:

"Parents formulate plans, children may not accept it.

Only the "learning plan" that children think and formulate themselves are easier to implement, and they can lead and urge the children to move forward step by step. "

Indeed, goals guide operations.

When the child has the goal and direction he wants to work hard, he can have a strong internal driving force.

Tiger mother also made a "Summer Works arrangement form" for everyone. Parents can bring their children to refer to the arrangement.

2. Focus on developing a hobby

We often say that interest is the best teacher of children.

Not only because the child is happy and happy when doing what he is interested.

More importantly, when children do things they are interested in, his imagination and creativity can be fully exerted, and his focus, seriousness, perseverance, and quality of will can also be beneficial to exercise.

Therefore, you may wish to make your children develop a hobby during the holidays, such as Go, dancing, football, etc., which is greatly beneficial to children's learning and growth.

3. Let children feel the hardships of making money

In reality, many children spend their hands and feet, and they are lazy every day. They do not know the hardships of parents to make money, and they can not experience the meaning of hard work.

Summer vacation is a good opportunity to allow children to experience the hard work of making money, and they can grow and motivate themselves.

A mother in Jiangsu asked her 8 -year -old son to try to set up a stall in the summer vacation. Sometimes she went to the park to sell water and sometimes selling toys.

Looking at the frustration of my son again and again during the stall, the mother was worried that the son would not persist.

However, he did not expect that his son not only did not give up, but instead inspired the fighting spirit, not only overcoming his timidity, boldly introduced his products to pedestrians, but also experienced the difficulty of making money, and became more and more sensible.

Don't blindly let your children sit at home to study, and let the children feel the difficulties of making money in their own way, they can better understand the value of labor, understand the hard work of their parents and the meaning of reading.

Fourth, plan a family trip

A father in Fujian made a bold decision in the summer vacation:

Let the son of the elementary school plan a family trip independently. During the trip, the wallet is controlled by the son, the route is planned by the son, and the son of food and accommodation is determined by the son. Just like Dad said in the interview:

"The reason for doing this is to let the child learn to solve what life is in life in the process of traveling, make decisions and face any consequences that you decide."

The child's growth is done in the parents' letting go again and again.

A family trip is the best opportunity to exercise children. Children can become more independent and confident in the process of solving problems and overcome difficulties.

5. Learn a life skill

Last summer, a 10 -year -old boy Sun Bohan, a 10 -year -old boy in Wuhan, took his sister to buy, washing, and cooking with his sister since the first day of the holiday, and was in charge of the family's dinner.

He not only remembers the taste of the whole family, but also knows a lot of tips for cooking, such as:

The picking beans are soaked in the water, and it is more tender to fry;

The cooking should start with a vegetarian dish, and the amaranth will be made at the end. "Otherwise it will be cold."

In addition to cooking, he will also help the father who sells fruit to see the stall, complimenting, calculating the price, finding money, and paying the bargaining of customers.

Sun Bohan's sensible and independence made the busy parents who were busy outside.

Teacher Xu Wanghua once said:

"If the child lacks independent survival and self -reliance and self -reliance, and lacks the grinding of survival dilemma, it is difficult to become a strong person in life."

We cannot take care of our children for a lifetime. Taking advantage of the summer vacation to teach children some living skills, such as washing vegetables, cooking, burning water, laundry, repairing electrical appliances, etc., we will make children truly learn to "self -employment", and in the future, we will have less concern and concerns.

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7 habits

Mr. Ye Shengtao, educator, once said: "Mills, it is better to develop a good habit."

It is a good habit of deciding whether a child can develop in the long run.

Using the summer vacation to help children develop these 7 habits, children will benefit their lives for a lifetime.

1. The habit of thinking independently

The principle of "don't call mom" for a mother for the child has burst into fire online and won the praise of countless netizens.

Harvard President Lawrence Lowe once said:

"There is only one way to truly train someone, that is, let him move his head by himself."

Tell your child directly that children can easily develop their psychology.

Only by allowing children to develop independent thinking habits can children continue to improve their thinking ability and ability to solve problems.

Second, the habit of getting up early and getting up early

A senior who was admitted to Tsinghua said that he had shared his learning experience:

"The most critical part of Tsinghua I can get up early.

Morning is the moment when the brain is the most sober and the most concentrated attention. At this time period, not only the learning efficiency is greatly improved, but also no health problems caused by staying up late. "

Therefore, we must help children develop the habit of getting up early and getting up early.

In order to get up early to get up early, the child can make the child full of energy in the morning and earn more effort and the effect of overtaking in the curve.

Third, the habit of reading

Dong Yuhui, who has recently burst into the fire, has moved countless netizens with his own poems and English and rich and infectious expressions.

It also allows countless netizens to witness again: the power of reading and the power of knowledge.

As a netizen said:

"Dong Yuhui's live broadcast reminds me of Yu Guangzhong's praise of Li Bai's poem:

The wine entered the sausage, and the seven points caused the moonlight.

There is no solid literary heritage, and if you want to export, the golden sentence comes, it is simply a dream. "

From a young age to help children develop a good habit of reading, can we give the child a rich soul;

Only to make children express to the fullest, so that the child can put invisible wings and make the child fly higher and farther.

Fourth, the habit of preview and review

Almost every Xueba has the habit of previewing and reviewing.

Suhomlinsky also said:

"The better the understanding and memory, the more consciousness will be obtained."

Preview not only allows children to better understand knowledge and improve learning efficiency, but also exercise children's self -learning ability.

Review can allow children to consolidate memory, deepen understanding, and prevent children from learning while learning.

The habit of helping children to develop review and preview is to give children a solid layer of solid foundation.

5. The habit of induction and summary

Some children are difficult to learn, often because of several issues entangled, they are unclear, they don't understand, and they can't find a way.

Therefore, we must help children develop the habit of sorting out knowledge points, induction and summary.

for example:

Let the children sort out their weak knowledge points, classify and analyze the reasons, and practice and correct them targeted;

Rebate similar issues, summarize the laws and points, and improve learning efficiency.

Only in this way can children overcome confusion and laziness, and truly grasp the program and points of the discipline.

6. The habit of practice

Some time ago, the video of the 8 -year -old boy Gao Yuhang rushed to the hot search.

Gao Yuhang was in the second grade this year. He started to practice characters from the first grade and insisted on practicing half an hour a day.

For more than a year, his font has been practiced as neat as a printed body.

I remember someone saying such a sentence: "Practicing is practicing your heart."

Persist in letting children practice words regularly and quantitatively every day, not only to improve the child's roll -up results and impression;

What's more important is that it can hone the patience of the child, exercise the child's concentration, help children develop rigorous and meticulous learning habits, and avoid children from being careless because of carelessness.

Seven, the habit of exercise

A college entrance examination champion once said in his short video:

"I was able to be admitted to Tsinghua, thanks to my high school class teacher, and now I am very grateful to him."

Because since he was in high school, his class teacher and teacher often took them to exercise together and went out to play every day.

It was not until he later studied brain science:

It was exercise that let him release his inner energy and the anxiety in his body.

It was exercise to exercise his concentration and durability, and migrated these quality to learning.

Clinical psychologist Lawrence has also found through research:

After children's exercise, the level of serotonin, adrenaline and dopamine will change.

Among them, dopamine will keep children in a state of excitement;

Serumin can help children release stress and improve memory;

Adrenaline can help children improve their attention and more concentrated in class.

Therefore, it is the best gift to help children develop exercise.

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Use a good holiday time

The rice flowers growing on the Gobi Beach in Africa most of the time are as obscure as a grass.

What is magical, it will bloom extremely beautiful flowers in the early morning.

Each flower has four or five petals, and each petal is one color, which is extremely delicate and gorgeous.

But many people don't know--

It takes 5 years to complete the work of the rhizomes before flowering, and then accumulate nutrients a little bit by little. In the spring of the sixth year, it is colorful.

The blooming of a flower is shining, and it also needs a disappointment of hard work.

The growth and excellence of a child requires bit by bit of sweat.

The use of holiday time is the best help for children.

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