We respect my mother -in -law, but she thinks about my younger son every day. I am angry: I will send you to Hainan tomorrow
Author:Uncle Nanshan Time:2022.07.23
■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
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01, the first saying.
Being around us, we often find such a phenomenon: Some elderly people are accompanied by children and take care of their clothing, food, housing every day. But the elderly often do not feel how good the children around them are. On the contrary, they often say that the children who are not around them are good. When the New Year's Eve, when the children who rarely returned home came back, they were often very happy and very excited, and took out the gifts that the child brought back and showed off to others everywhere. And for the children who stayed with them, they often chose to ignore, even without a good face.
In fact, such a phenomenon is very similar to what we call "near the temple". So, what is "Near the temple bullying God"? The meaning of it is actually very simple, that is, living next to the temple, often do not feel that there is something great in the gods worshiped in the temple. It is not until the endless stream of Fragrant Kanke that the place where you live is a treasure. The god in it is actually very amazing. Therefore, this kind of psychology, which is a typical "near temple to bully the temple" to the child who stays at home, but often thinks about children who do not often go home. This often disappointed that filial child, and made some excessive reactions, and the final ending was more embarrassing.
02, I am from the countryside and marry Li Dachun in the neighboring village.
Dear friends, my name is Ma Huizhen, a girl from the countryside. After graduating from high school, I chose to stay in my hometown to start a business, but my entrepreneurial business did not let me live a good life. At the age of twenty -fifth, under the introduction of the second aunt, I met Li Dachun, a young man in the neighboring village. I think Li Dachun is so honest and honest, so he is more kind, so I have a relationship with him. After half a year, we officially determined the relationship of love.
After a year of falling in love, he and I went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a certificate and ended it for formal couples. I am very happy to marry the Li family. Because Li Dachun's family is not very rich, he has a new three -story house and a orchard. I have been interested in rural life since I was a child, especially for planting. With this orchard, I believe that by working with Li Dachun, we will definitely make a sky in this beautiful countryside.
03, there is a younger brother in Dachun, and there is a public office in Hainan.
Li Dachun has a younger brother named Li Xiaochun. Li Xiaochun has been a very smart person since he was a child. He rely on his own efforts and continued to support his parents to admit to a 211 university. After graduating, he participated in the examination in Hainan and became a staff member of a scientific research institute in Hainan Province. Since then, he stayed in Hainan, married his wife in Hainan, and settled in Hainan.
The father -in -law loves Li Xiaochun very much. After graduating from high school, Li Dachun had a chance to go to college to study, but his father -in -law said that the conditions at home were not enough, and Li Xiaochun, who could only study well. So, they asked Li Dachun to go home to help to do farm work and make money to support their families to take care of their younger brother. Li Dachun is a very obedient person. After listening to his parents, he naturally agrees and supports. After all, Li Xiaochun studied so well, and his future was very bright. As a result, after graduating from high school, Li Dachun stayed in rural entrepreneurship like me.
04, we respect my mother -in -law, but my mother -in -law rarely says we are good.
Li Xiaochun got married earlier than Li Dachun, and after marriage, the two couples stayed in their hometown for less than three days and returned to work in Hainan. The father -in -law and mother -in -law naturally loved Li Xiaochun's husband and wife very much. They often talked about Li Xiaochun's cleverness, talked about Li Xiaochun's filial piety, and talked about Li Xiaochun's ancestor to Li Jiaguang. When we listened, we always felt a little unhappy, but we still closed our mouths in time.
After having a child, Li Dachun worked hard. Not only did he want to serve the orchard, but he also ran out of the goods when he was free. As for me, we are busy using the media to sell our fruits in our family. However, relatively speaking, my time is relatively free. To this end, I have wrapped the clothing, food, housing and transportation and the care of my father -in -law. But strangely, I found that my mother -in -law rarely talked about me and Li Dachun in front of my neighbors.
05, my husband cooked the pork liver noodles, and I took it for my mother -in -law.
The annual Spring Festival is here. In rural areas, most of the Spring Festival has the custom of eating Taiping or Noodles. Early in the first year of the new year, her husband got up early. He gave us a family of five, and also gave me the bowl of the mother -in -law's favorite pork liver to the bowl of the mother -in -law. Then he asked me to eat this bowl of pork liver noodles.
My mother -in -law got up very early. She likes to chat with the seven aunts and eight aunts under the big banyan tree sitting at the village entrance. When I took the pork liver noodles to eat her, those seven aunts and eight aunts saw it, and they were very envious. The eighth mother looked at the fragrant pork liver noodles and couldn't help but give me a thumbs up: "Da Chun Ma, your daughter -in -law really respects you. If I have such a daughter -in -law, I will die." Unexpectedly, The mother -in -law took the line, but sighed deeply.
06, my mother -in -law eats noodles, while thinking about the little son.
Those women are strange. Eight -in -law asked: "Da Chunma, your eldest son and daughter -in -law are so filial to you, what else do you sigh?" The mother -in -law said, "Hey, the person who really respects me is not by my side. Do you know? Our Xiaochun not only has the ability, but he will give me 10,000 yuan a year. When he comes back on the New Year, he will buy me gifts. Our family is still Xiaochun's most filial piety and the best person. "Hearing it My mother -in -law said that, I suddenly felt unwilling. However, I still held my mouth tightly. My mother -in -law continued: "Do you know? Our family studied very hard when he was a kid, and his academic performance was very good. He was admitted to a brand -name university and gave our parents face. He was the pride of our family. The daughter -in -law who marries is also rural areas. No matter how good they are, it is not as good as our family. "Those seven aunts who love to play cats, cats, and dogs. They usually have no backbone. The role of the grass, I couldn't help nodding when I heard my mother -in -law say this.
07, I burned in anger and decided to send my mother -in -law to Hainan.
Seeing her mother -in -law eating the pork liver noodles cooked by Li Dachun's own hands, she kept thinking that Li Xiaochun, who hadn't honored in front of her for a few days, couldn't help it anymore. I pointed at my mother -in -law in anger and said angrily: "Mother -in -law, are you too fair? Li Dachun and I work at home. Although we have nothing to do, we have always been respectful to you and my father -in -law. I have never complained about it. And you have never said that I and Dachun are good. Is it because I have n’t studied university and Da Chun and have no formal job? You are a typical near the temple. Bullying God! Since you think the younger son is good, how bad I and Dachun and I will go to Hainan tomorrow. I believe Xiaochun will respect you well! " The big bowl in her mother -in -law turned around and walked towards the home.
The seven aunts and eight aunts were stunned, and they stared at her mother -in -law stunned, and they didn't know what to say. What about her mother -in -law, her face was white and white. As I walked, I thought: Since then, I will never tolerate my mother -in -law to blame me and Dachun at will. Because we have a clear conscience, and the mother -in -law is a bit overwhelming. No matter what others say, even if I will be a vixen in the future, I will not tolerate it anymore. Because, some things to endure are actually a kind of cowardice. Even in front of family relationships, we must keep our lowest bottom line.
08, end.
Friends, my husband and I respect the old man at home, but my mother -in -law has always said that the little uncle who is not filial is good. Do you say that her behavior is a kind of behavior of "bullying the temple"? Later, I couldn't help it. I lost my temper in front of the crowd and asked my mother -in -law to go to Hainan to find my younger son for the elderly. Do you say, am I a little too much? What should I do now? Please leave a message in the comment area and give me a good suggestion in the rural daughter -in -law. Thank you all.
[About the author]: Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories, and emotional beauty writing, published 6 emotional, beautiful texts, storytelling books. The original self -media platforms created the authors of V, and the major platforms accumulated a total of millions of fan authors. Uncle Nanshan aims to give you more positive little stories through simple text, tell you some truthful truths, and realize some beautiful little luck in life.
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