Yang Yan: In the first reaction of the matter, hiding your life pattern

It is reflected in things, and the heart is hidden in the body.

Author: Lodge Yebo

Writer Zhao Tongtong once said:

With Yang Yan's departure, it seems that an era has ended. She is the last legendary woman in the Republic of China and the last female gentleman.

Yang Yan's life was ups and downs, full of sadness and pain.

In the early years, she experienced the flow of flow, and in her later years, she tasted her life.

But regardless of the trough or peak, in the face of praise or slander, she is always indifferent to calmness, elegant and transparent.

We love Yang Yan, love her attitude of life, and appreciate her wisdom of life.

She told us with her century -old life: in the response to the event, a person's knowledge and pattern were hidden.

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Be quiet in the case of anxiety

Su Shi once said a word:

The way of life, when he treats his heart first, Taishan collapses the front and does not change.

As the so -called calmness is clear, many wisdom of life is hidden in calmness and calmness.

The more urgent the situation, the more you need to keep your mind sober and calm.

"Yang Yan Biography" records such a past.

In the late Anti -Japanese War, the Japanese pseudo authorities strengthened their control over Shanghai.

At that time, Japanese soldiers often broke into the house to arrest citizens, and many people could never come back after being arrested.

One day, Qian Zhongshu was in school at school, and Yang Yan counseled his daughter's homework at home.

Suddenly the maid ran in panic, saying that two Japanese knocked outside the door.

After listening, her daughter was scared to grab her mother's cuffs tightly.

Yang Yan did not change his face, patted his daughter's hand gently, and instructed the maid to open the door.

After the Japanese came, he yelled, "Who is Yang Yan?"

Yang Yan replied lightly: "I am."

They looked at her and said, "Let's come to the Gendarmerie Command tomorrow."

After speaking, leave.

That night, the whole family couldn't sleep.

Yang Yan fell asleep like in the past, and fell asleep until dawn.

Waking up the next morning, she dressed carefully, and then went out with a book.

At the gendarmerie command, the others who were summoned at the same time were all pale and restless.

Yang Yan sat alone in the corner of the living room and read the book without anyone.

After the Japanese came, she was surprised to see her so calm.

Subsequently, they intimidated and intimidated. After asking a lot of questions, Yang Yan calmly and responded to the flow.

After the interrogation, the Japanese found nothing and had to send her to the gate politely.

A crisis that was originally full of dangerous was turned into danger.

Writer Mibeir said:

Only a tranquil mind can grasp yourself, and a stable spirit can direct yourself.

Life is like a boxing match, and if you are irritable, you can easily get rid of it.

Calm down and control your emotions to see the tricks, and to solve all the troubles in an orderly manner.

"The New Editor of Zhao Yan" said: "The water is still very bright, and the heart is extremely wise."

When you are in trouble, you can face everything calmly.

You will find that all sudden problems in life have its emergency plan.

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If you encounter bad things, leave

I agree with such a proverb: "Kicking the stones in a furiousness will only hurt your toes."

When you encounter bad things, the more entanglement, the more you get, and eventually drag your pace, making it difficult for you to get out of it.

Only by ignoring can you avoid being influenced by those broken things and go forward lightly.

When Yang Yan taught in Tsinghua, he was pushed to the forefront of the wind at a school conference.

At that time, a female student suddenly stood up and complained to her:

Mr. Yang does not talk about workers in class, talks about falling in love. Women who say that marriage should also be in love. In love, they should not eat and can't sleep.

As soon as this remark came out, the audience was uproar, and people talked about it.

Yang Yan did not know the female student, of course, she did not say those words.

When thousands of eyes were staring at her, she still sat on the seat without attack, neither fighting back.

After the meeting, a friend asked her why she would not explain, and she said:

Those who don't know me, just go with them.

When I got home, Yang Yan read the book for a while, and fell asleep.

The next day, as usual, as usual, she read and wrote, taught in class, and continued to learn.

Slowly, there were fewer and fewer people who talked about it. It didn't take long for this to mention it again.

By the next semester, the person who has taken her class is much more than before.

There is a saying in the cartoonist Jimmy, saying very well:

Don't be entangled for too long on a awkward thing. After a long time of entanglement, you will be annoying, painful, tired, and tired. In the end, you are not ca n’t live with things, but you ca n’t live with yourself, so you have to learn to draw and retreat.

Faced with the slander, accusations or injuries of others, don't compete, stay away in time, and leave time and energy to yourself.

The so -called: "Those who build a big thing, don't avoid resentment."

When a drop of ink falls in the cup, the black faint; if it melts in the sea, the sea is still clearly clarified.

When your horizons are broad enough, you will find that those bad things are just inconspicuous stones on the road when you come.

Rather than consume yourself in unreasonable personnel, it is better to lower your head and concentrate on the road.

3

Booth for death

Mr. Yang Yan has experienced the changes of the times in his life, and he has encountered all kinds of wind, frost, rain and snow.

When he was young, the situation was turbulent, and the family squeezed into the French Concession.

The school she had previously worked was forced to stop, and Qian Zhongshu could not find a job, and the family's chai oil and salt became the top priority. In order to subsidize the family, she was a tutor and a elementary school class far away from home. It turned back and forth for more than an hour every day.

Despite the hardships of life, Yang Yan continued to write and insisted on writing.

She wrote the suffering and sadness of the occupied area into the script, and also incorporated hope and courage into the plot.

In the spring of 1943, once the drama "Rogue Ruyi" was launched, it was well received, which also made her officially open the road of literature.

During the special era, she had been criticized, was transformed in the lower part, and took care of the vegetable garden, and also brushed the toilet.

In his later years, it was difficult to settle down, and he thought he could live a leisurely and comfortable life. However, she did not expect that she had just experienced the turbulent suffering of the years, and she ushered in the despair of life and death.

First, her daughter Qian Qian left the world for more than a year because of the advanced lung cancer medicine.

Soon after, Qian Zhongshu, who was suffering from bladder cancer, also played with people.

In the year of 的, the crackdown of fate followed, and it had long collapsed for ordinary people.

But Yang Yan was as tough. In the hardest years, she held back the pain of the cone and buried her head in the book.

While sorting out the manuscript of Qian Zhongshu, he continued to create, and finally lived a plump century life.

Mr. Yang Yan once said:

After different degrees of exercise, a person obtains different degrees of cultivation and different degrees of benefits. It's like spices, the more smashed, the thinner the grind, the stronger the fragrance.

Life is floating, and life is ups and downs.

All the difficulties you encounter, can't stand it, are obstacles, and it's the steps of you to go to the next level.

To a certain extent, the stars will shine.

When you feel particularly difficult, it means that the light is not far away, and you may wish to stick to your teeth again.

With the storm and the muddy, those tests will eventually become another fulfillment of fate.

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Encountering things

Confucius had a saying, "A gentleman is not self -sufficient, and he does not still work."

The greater the person, the more you know the restraint when you go smoothly.

Mr. Yang Yan has created a large number of popular works and has countless highlights, but she always maintains a humble gesture.

Someone praised her as a famous writer, and she said, "There is no ambition."

Some people say that her works are selling well, and she said, "That's just a short time when the sun is exposed to the tip of the dog's tail."

Some people say that she must be treasured by one of her books. She said, "When my book has passed, it will only be sold at 20 % off cheap books, or sells."

Facing the honor and halo, she said that her greatest desire was to forget her.

In 2014, the 700th anniversary of the Oxford University of Oxford University, which was studying.

The college selected a group of outstanding alumni as an honorary academician. Yang Yan was selected, and was still one of the only two women.

The news came, and relatives and friends were happy for Yang Yan, and the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences even prepared to hold a seminar for her.

Unexpectedly, a few days later, she wrote to Oxford University and declined the title of Honor Academician.

In the reply, Mr. Yang Yan said:

"I just listened to a class in your hospital.

In the face of those honors, instead of being complacent, she was even more humble.

Compared to the happiness brought by floating names, she prefers to hide in the book.

Feng Jicai said such a sentence:

Low -key is to live in their own world, and high -profile is for living in the world of others.

No matter which steps are there, you should lower your gesture, gather Guanghua inside, and hide Conghui in his heart.

As the so -called: water returns to the sea due to goodness, and the mountains will not fight for high.

Keep a humble heart at all times, to seek high, and be modest to continue to raise yourself.

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After hearing a sentence: "It is reflected in things, and my heart is hidden."

Whether a person lives well is the ability to deal with things, but also the mentality when facing the problem.

The calmness and tenacity are more difficult, and the difficulty is less; the eyes are a little bigger, and things are smaller.

In this life, the so -called practice is actually cultivation.

You can first change your attitude to deal with things in order to change the height of your life.

Like a praise, I hope you and I will keep a point clean, hold a peaceful point, and achieve a big pattern of life in the experience.

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