Family defeat, no one to fail, and the failure is not to be proud

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Full of damage, humility benefit

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Author: Philosophy Jun Wei Kang

Source: Philosophy Life Network (ID: zxrsnet)

The old saying goes: "Fate it is for yourself, and the blessing is created by yourself."

In this life, what kind of life has, what is the blessing, not to be arranged by heaven, but it has been cultivated by himself.

The biggest failure of being a person is not in power, but not knowing the meaning of life that he must adhere to the life.

One person, once these three signs, often not far from failure, be vigilant!

Family defeat "luxury"

Li Shangyin wrote in "History of Yong": "The prevalence of the former virtuous kingdom and home, the success of the diligence and frugality."

Throughout history, whether it is a small family or a big country, it can be successful in diligence and frugality.

If you are indulging in the glory and wealth, extravagant, indulging in enjoyment, and eventually you will lose everything.

During the luxury Western Jin Dynasty, a family -known rich man named Shi Chong.

His father, Shi Bao, was the founding hero of the Jin Dynasty, so he was reused by Emperor Jinwu as the history of Jingzhou assassination.

During his tenure, he set up a level, extorted it, and sent people to play as Jiangyang robbery.

In just a few years, he accumulated a lot of wealth, and was later transferred by Emperor Jinwu back to Beijing.

After returning to Beijing, he began to splurge and built a luxurious mansion for himself, and even the toilet was quite angry.

The house is decorated with pearls, agate, amber, rhino horn, and ivory. Various strange flowers and flowers are valuable.

This time, he quickly caused the dissatisfaction of the national concubine Wang Kai, and the two also carried out an unheard of wealth.

Wang Kai used sugar water to wash the pot, and Shi Chong used candles to make firewood; Wang Kai used red stone fat to apply a house, Shi Chong wiped the wall with pepper powder ...

Even the corals borrowed by Wang Kai from the emperor were not in his eyes, and he raised a handful of jade and smashed the coral.

Such a spluritors are also doomed to the tragic ending of Shi Chong.

Since ancient times, the decline of each family and even the country has been extravagant because of excessive pursuit of material.

There is no frugality, no frugality, no frugality must die, frugality is the best family style of a family.

If you just want to enjoy, life is extravagant, he does not know the struggle, no matter how rich the home property will eventually be defeated.

People are not separated from "Yi"

"Mencius" has a saying: "Born in worries, died in peace."

When people live, they must learn to hone themselves from anxiety and work.

Many times, people always pursue a comfortable life.

I still remember that in the Alipay event in 2018, the netizens who won the 100 million awards "Xinxiao".

The good luck of this "wealthy overnight" was envious of countless people, and she won the title of "Chinese Koi".

She was hit by lucky on Weibo on Weibo: "Did I not work in the second half of my life?"

After winning the prize, she immediately chose to quit the "iron rice bowl" and start her own global journey.

However, things are not imagined. Those prizes are one -time consumption and need to be completed within one year.

In the following year, she was either redeeming the prize or on the way to redeem the prize.

In order to redeem those so -called "prizes", she also spent 200,000 savings and even burst credit cards.

During the three years of resignation, she gradually used to enjoy a relaxed and comfortable life.

After that, she was looking for a job again, and she still showed a video on the social platform and said that she couldn't go through.

Because it was too long, she lags too much behind her, and she can only find the means of making a living.

Today, she has no money, no work, and has been diagnosed with depression.

The reason why people fail is because of pursuing ease, not knowing forging ahead, and stagnation.

Anyone is by no means the well -being of life. It will only make people decadent. Only difficulties can stir up people's fighting spirit.

Being a man must not be confused by the temporary comfort. We must have a sense of anxiety, keep awake at all times, and forge ahead.

Insufficient "arrogance"

In "Zi Zhi Tong Jian", Yun: "The soldiers are invincible, the arrogant is destroyed first."

The vurates that are invincible for the vurates of the world are invincible, and the proud and light army must fail.

Once a person is very high and the self -esteem is great, everyone looks down on it, and eventually the disaster will start, which is not conducive to themselves.

There is such a story in Mandarin:

In the twenty -four years of King Zhou Xiang, Qin Guo led his army to attack Zheng Guo, passing through the north gate of Gyeonggi under the jurisdiction of Zhou Tianzi. When Wang Sunman saw the Qin Kingdom's army passing by, he told Zhou Xiang Wang Qinjun to defeat the battle.

Zhou Tianzi was puzzled: "Why do you say this?"

Wang Sunman replied: "Where Zhou Tianzi is located, everyone should salute, this is the respect for the emperor.

When Qin Bing passed by, he only removed the helmet, but the armor on his body did not take it off. He only took a few steps and immediately immediately car.

It can be seen that these soldiers are not sincere, and the entire army is arrogant to Zhou Tianzi.

Qin Jun was proud and fooled, thinking that he was great, and he would not be so cautious, and he would be casual.

If you fight such a dangerous thing, you will be defeated with such a proud attitude. "

Sure enough, as Wang Sun Man said, the war between Qin Guo and Zheng Guo ended in failure.

When he was withdrawn, he was beaten by the Jin Kingdom to flow into flowers, and even the three generals were captured.

If people are empty, they will be proud of their own victory, and they will often destroy themselves in self -righteousness.

Full of damage, humility benefited, and learned humility, and found a shortcut of success.

Be humble and low -key for the world. When you are proud, you do n’t forget the shape, not humble, and indifferently.

Zeng Guofan mentioned three words in "Home Book": "luxury", "Yi", "arrogant".

When wealthy, do not "extravagant", use self -cultivation, frugality to nourish morality;

When you are happy, do not "Yi", review the situation, and inspire the governance;

When Ronghua, he is not "arrogant", he is humble and low -key.

Only by doing extravagance, quitting, and quitting pride, and returning can we grow continuously and enter a new realm of life.

Light, see the friends around you, hope that everyone can self -discipline, keep the desire, be diligent in doing things, and do things practical!

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