Du Hongwei: We will be stronger from "rebirth" from frustration

Author:Jianghan University Time:2022.07.23

Du Hongwei, 2022 graduates of Jianghan University. During the school, he was the president of the student news agency of Jianghan University and won the first prize of the Hubei University Journalism Award. He is currently engaged in a large state -owned enterprise and engaged in party disciplinary inspection.

Once, the postgraduate entrance examination was my dream and all, but a failure not only made me grow, but also opened a new "window" to my life.

Like many of Jiangda classmates, my college life is ups and downs with the theme of the "postgraduate entrance examination". But unfortunately, my college life was so ordinary, so that my last college time started with a "tragedy".

At the end of February, after the score of the postgraduate examination was announced, I was immersed in confusion and anxiety, as if walking in the rushing passersby who walked in the wild mountains, holding the torch to explore in the only light.

Originally, in the next semester, we had an internship, but because of his postgraduate scores, I had no intention of looking for an internship unit. I was assigned to the teaching management office of the college, and I started thinking about myself.

During the internship of the college office, with the help and encouragement of Teaching Office Wang Liang, I started trying to review the exam. But I'm not sure what I want to do. Now I want to come, more like a "natural reaction" with the enthusiastic encouragement of the teacher. Either "World War II" or "test", I just want to forget the results of the postgraduate entrance examination and start my journey again.

Helpless house leaks in the rain. In mid -March, I don't know if I was affected by the failure of the postgraduate entrance examination. At that time, I thought I was unique "unlucky".

During the illness, the care of the teachers and classmates inspired me to cheer up and made me see a different "world".

In the class group, you can often see the notice of the spring job fair. In order to make the time on the sick bed, I have downloaded the designated recruitment software bored, and looked at the Jiang Junior Job Fair. It was left behind.

At that time, I was full of "unwillingness" for the failure of the postgraduate entrance examination. I couldn't tolerate other thoughts. Deep in my heart, the flame of the "postgraduate entrance examination" was still burning. It's just that every night is quiet, and when I think of the "blankness" of nearly a year after graduation, my heart is still a little disturbed.

I lost my bravery last year and began to be afraid. I want to take a test again, but I am afraid of failure. If it is unsuccessful next year, my situation will be more difficult. I don't want to "grow old", but I am not willing to admit defeat. I even regret that I gave up the opportunity to give up the autumn job fair last year, so that I made myself now and retreat.

During that time, fortunately there were parents, teachers, and classmates accompanied and supported. Mom and Dad told me specifically that no matter what choices I make, they will support me. This gave me great courage to continue. Teachers and classmates told me that life is long, not just the road to postgraduate entrance examination.

So I started trying to submit my resume and find a job.

At first, the resume was submitted on the software. The first thing was delivered to the news communication of the Japanese and postgraduate entrance examinations in this major, but because I was not ready to engage in this major before I studied well, it was very difficult to find a job. Born in the science class, it is embarrassing to find a job. It was particularly dark during that period. I didn't know how many resumes were delivered, but they were repeatedly rejected. The provincial test was delayed due to the epidemic, and I seemed to be deeper and deeper on the road of "unlucky".

At that time, I supported me to go down for the few interviews. Prepare the interview, one side and two sides, wait for the result. Interviewed new media in a private company in Beijing and a private enterprise in Hangzhou, all of which were brushed. Entering the interview with Guan Peisheng, Gansu District, Zhengda Group, there were several graduate students in the same group in the same group during the interview. I was brushed in a second round of interviews. The interviewer asked me why I applied for this job thousands of miles away from home. I replied that I wanted to go to the way and want to go to Lanzhou to eat meat. In fact, I just want to give myself a sense of security.

But it is still "repeated defeats". In the second round of interviews in a factory of the PLA, he was eliminated for insufficient majors and other abilities. Later, he submitted another well -known state -owned enterprise in the construction industry at the job fair.

As I became more familiar with internship work, I seemed to be running gradually.

During my college, I was very actively participating in the work of the student news agency. Because of the platform of the community, I published many signed articles, and even lucky to win the first prize of the Hubei University Journalism Award. I never thought that my former experience would bring myself a new "turnaround".

After the epidemic improved, many offline job fairs have been carried out in the school. On May 6th, the special job fair in the Passou District, my works and resumes attracted the "favor" of many units.

Several units invited me to participate in the interview and asked me to bring published articles and works mentioned on the resume. In the following days, I sorted out and print all the works during my college. I suddenly discovered that my university was really not the only "postgraduate entrance examination". Every manuscript and every work condensed my efforts and witnessed my growth. From the initial "Xiaobai", to the end of the provincial professional award. It turned out that my university did not have the failure as I imagined. The postgraduate entrance examination is just an attempt. Like every manuscript I wrote, it may be not perfect, but it records my growth and bring me many opportunities.

I started to relieve it, and finally decided to choose a large state -owned enterprise to start my own new life. On June 5, I received a two -round interview notice from a state -owned enterprise. On the night of the interview, I received an invitation to sign a contract. While I signed the contract, I also received a lot of blessings, as well as the words of the younger brothers and sisters. But I started to learn to be indifferent.

In the past six months, I feel like "rebirth". I still remember that after the entrance examination results came out, I often complained to my friend A to complain about sorrow. I also closed myself in the dormitory and felt that I had broken myself, but a word of my friend also inspired me. He said to me, "When I feel confused Just do it. "

yes! Only by acting and doing everything you should do well, and seizing every opportunity, can there be a less bad result.

"Postgraduate entrance examination" is just a choice, far from what we think.

Friends who failed to take the postgraduate entrance examination around me had the "Yangtze River Daily" in the first half of the year. But choose a different way to achieve your own life value.

It has been more than four months since the announcement of the postgraduate entrance examination. I think about this half a year. Thanks to the colorful community culture for the school to enrich my youth and bring me the opportunity to re -choose.

Dreams are worthy of our diligence, but we also need to learn to grow and learn to face failure. When we can defeat the "failure", we have the courage to continue to move forward. go a head! The future is in our hands.

Picture, text: Du Hongwei