"Shuwu": Create a "warmth haven" for children

During the period of control, they started the "cloud chat" model, "cloud companionship" children grew up; making small videos to provide targeted psychological help and care for parent -child families ... Recently, the School of Social Development and Public Policy of Fudan University Li Xiaoru, an associate professor of the Department of Psychology, and the "Fudan University Civilization Practice Star Psychological Volunteer Service Team" formed by graduate students and undergraduates of the Department of Psychology, and won the title of "Most Beautiful Epidemic Prevention Volunteer Service Team" in Yangpu District.

“星辰心理志愿服务队”成立于2021年，团队服务于全国首家专注朋辈⼼理支持、关怀青春期成长的社区青少年成长中心“舒屋”，陪伴、带领青少年学习情绪管理、压力管理、人际Communication skills to improve psychological toughness.

What is the magic of a "warm shelter" TA located in the Yangpu Yanji community except the campus and the family? Let's take a look together

Let the transition space of sensory wake up and heal the soul

In the key node of this life, children are facing multiple problems such as self -integration, companion relationships, and opposite sex. For many adolescents, it is often difficult to express, and it is difficult to take the initiative to ask for professional forces. Li Xiaoru proposed that it can go from the back end to the forefront -from conducting treatment and intervention from people who existing psychological problems, and to prevent and promote work in the early stage.

To this end, Li Xiaoru wanted to create a transitional space focusing on young people to cultivate the body and mind. This physical space will be scattered for a long time. Unlike traditional psychological counseling agencies that solve specific troubles, they will not have clear functions as libraries and juvenile palaces. In the end, this idea was achieved through the resources of the Shanghai and District Civilization Office -the community youth growth center named "Shuwu" was completed and operated in June 2021 at the first good -neighbor center of Yanji Community in Yangpu District.

In "Shuwu", the rules of schools and families will be temporarily invalidated. Children can do all kinds of things they want to do -reading, composition, painting, flower arrangement, etc., can also chat with the brothers and sisters of Fudan University, or do nothing ...

How to keep the children keep and open their hearts slowly? Li Xiaoru created a feeling of nature through the color, sound, and odor through the environment of the environment, and specially introduced the aromatherapy therapy led by nurses of the pediatric hospital affiliated to Fudan University, the music therapy led by the teachers and students of the Department of Music therapy of the Shanghai Conservatory of Music, etc. Wake up the children's senses to the greatest extent, let them let go of psychological defense, so as to better carry out speech interaction.

In "Shuwu", a volunteer usually forms a accompanying group with two children. Li Xiaoru and the team students conducted brainstorms, set up seven major functional areas including "Infinite Space", "Zero House", "Bangbangtang", and "π Space", and launched various fun activities. In "challenge impossible", partial subjects are no longer a headache. Volunteers guide children to paint the subject that is difficult to deal with the imaginary monsters and simulate the troubles it brings; in the "values ​​auction", volunteer The child leads the child's dream of bidding in life with virtual coins ... In addition, Li Xiaoru also invited professionals to carry out special activities from time to time.

Grandma Xu, who took her granddaughter to participate in Shuwu's first phase of "Youth Growth Summer Camp", lamented that in the past, the little granddaughter who had to quarrel with two sentences in the past stayed here for a summer vacation. The boy attending a boarding middle school opened his heart with his roommate, and found his future efforts from the experience of volunteers ... Initially, some children may resist and nervous, but they often discovered accidentally. "Shuwu" has become a must -see place every week.

Even if you can't meet each other, the company is still online

In March of this year, the epidemic stopped the offline activity of "Shuwu". Li Xiaoru analyzed the psychological needs of teenagers during the premium control period, turned "Shuwu" to the line, and opened the "Yunshu House" chat room. Children can make an appointment for "big group chat" or "one -on -one private chat" model on the Internet. Every day in a fixed time period, volunteers interact with children at the Tencent meeting.

Children's thinking is usually relatively alive, and they will have an alternative expression. In the interaction of the topic "Survival of the Wastel Island to be accompanied by one person", a little boy replied: "I don't want to bring it alone!" At this time, volunteers would realize that he may be expressing in a unique way to express I have trouble in interpersonal relationships.

"This child is actually willing to express himself. He has the urge to communicate with people, but the content he explained is the opposite of these performances. Then we will ask 'Today is the chat room that friends brought you from, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then in your eyes, then, in your eyes, then What are your two friends? 'Then ask my friends to evaluate him. At this time, he found that the impression he left to others was still very good. He still cherishes and cares about friends. "

This way of communication allows more and more children to open up their hearts. They started to speak to Mike's breeze. They also gathered the courage to open the camera, express themselves freely, and even took the initiative to share a lot of novel things in front of the screen ... During the epidemic sealing period control period Fudan students restored small videos of 26 parent -child communication, psychological adjustment of the epidemic, emotional regulation and compasses, and provided parents and children with more and more targeted help and care.

This summer, the "Shuwu" team launched the "Shuba Plan" with the theme of high school career counseling; in addition, the "Shuwa" activity will usher in a new round of expansion -named "No. 18 Tree Tree Tree 18 Tree 18 Tree 18The outdoor space of the house has been completed, and activities such as poetry recitation and psychological scenarios will be carried out in the future.Speaking of the future of "Shuwu", Li Xiaoru said that he would retain enthusiastic response activities, made it a brand, and continued to help youth grow in the context of education "double reduction".There have been traces in life, and now there are still there, and I will never give up ... "she said.

Edit: Wu Baixin

Data: Fudan University

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