Open the heart window, "open flowers" are more gorgeous

Open the heart window, "open flowers" are more gorgeous

Liu Xiaorong

I am a teacher from a special education school in Maoming City, Guangdong. My job is to help students who are tired of learning to open the windows of the soul, stimulate their interest in their learning, and strive to make these "open flowers" bloom more gorgeous on the road of life.

Love, cultivating a sense of accomplishment

Educator Xia Beizun once said, "Education must not have emotions, and there is no love as if there is no water in the pond. Without water, there is no pond, no love, no education." I always believe that dedicating love to students selflessly can we make education "flowering".

Xiaocong always likes to sing against the teacher with the teacher, and often makes strange movements in the classroom, making people laugh; or singing unconsciously during class and being criticized by the teacher. After careful observation, I felt that although Xiao Cong was active, it was very expressive. It was definitely not a "bad child" in the mouth of teachers and classmates. So I decided to guide these characteristics to learning and ignite the active spark in his heart.

Once, after I told the story of "negatively inviting crime", I asked students to read the performance aloud. The classmates raised their hands one after another, and there were Xiaocong. I gave him priority. As a result, his wonderful performance won the praise of the students. Soon, I asked him to participate in the textbook drama held by the school, and he was rated as "excellent actor". I praised him in time and made him regain confidence. Since then, Xiaocong no longer confronts the teacher, but consciously abides by discipline and study carefully.

Help, moisturize the soul

Students who are tired of studying often show some rebellions in schools, so many students "draw the boundaries" with them. In response to this situation, I have done the ideological work of my classmates. Educating them should not look at people with colored glasses. You must learn to think in other places. "If you are isolated, what do you think? They can't deprive them of the power of making friends. "

After unremitting efforts, my educational concept has gradually achieved results. Xiaoxun has a weak learning ability. A simple problem, he needs to spend three times more time than other children to digest. After my guidance, when the teacher asked Xiao Yan to answer the question, the classmates were not impatient, but waited patiently and gave him encouragement.

When the introverted and silent, Xiao Feng rushed across the finish line when the classmates cheered in the 800 -meter race ... With the help of teachers and classmates, they had less inferiority, more confidence, and the soul was moist.

Example, shaping behavior

I have always believed that the power of the example is endless. In a good environment, the role model can give students correct guidance and huge power to guide them to actively.

Xiaoli was often late, so I told her the story of Lu Xun's "Sanwei Book House", telling how Lu Xun was engraved "early" on the desk. I believe that the value orientation established during teenagers determines the value orientation of children's future life. By establishing an example, it can cultivate students' sense of responsibility and historical mission, so as to study and strengthen self -reliance.

At the same time, I also set an example in the class. I learned that Xiaoming, who had poor grades and loved fighting, worshiped the squad leader very much, and said to him, "Since the squad leader is your' 偶 ', why not learn from him?" "Can I make the table with my idols? "My answer is yes. Gradually, with the help of "idols", Xiao Ming not only corrected bad behaviors, but also established a deep friendship with his classmates.

Careful, digging the flash point

Teachers must have a pair of keen eyes and be good at capturing the flashing points of students. Xiao Hao spoke casually in the classroom, his grades were poor, smoking in private, accessing to Internet cafes, playing with mobile phones ... He seemed to focus on all the characteristics of learning students. I observed carefully and found that although he had a lot of problems, he had an enthusiastic and a student who was happy. Xiaohao found that the chair in the class was broken, so he brought nail repair from his home. He could forget to bring a hammer during repair. He did not hesitate to replace the chair with his insulation water cup instead of the hammer. After I learned about things, I immediately praised Xiaohao in the class, and gave him a new insulation cup in front of the classmates. This makes Xiaoho understand that he can also be a very good person. Later, Xiao Hao was struggling and his achievements gradually improved.

Cooperation, home and school co -education

Teachers and parents must cooperate with each other and teach harmoniously to allow their children to grow up healthy.

Xiao Dan's parents did a small business in the urban area. They usually did not have time to accompany her. They did not have timely guidance to her bad behavior, causing her psychological inferiority and abandoning themselves. In order to attract the attention of parents, I personally gave the parents of the whole class a lesson "Pyrant with the Children with Benefit and Achieve Excellent", let them know that some of the problems that children usually presented were rooted, so that parents would know The importance of guidance and companionship. I also advocate parents to work hard to improve the family environment, improve educational methods, synchronize with society, cooperate with teachers, and promote their children to become their own managers as soon as possible.

After years of hard work, I firmly believe that as long as you have more love, patience, and finding more ways, you will definitely let these students who are tired of learning to open their hearts step by step, and slowly change their minds.

Published in the seventh issue of "Society and Charity" magazine 2022.

Editor in charge: Shi Ce

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