How can our new era 丨 how to help children manage the use of electronic products during the holidays?

Dongying Daily/Aida Camp News "What should I do if my child is playing mobile phones every day?" Anxious.

According to statistics, the overall myopia rate of Chinese children and adolescents in 2021 was 52.7%, and more than half of children put on glasses, of which junior high school students and high school students exceeded 70%.

In August 2018, eight departments including the Ministry of Education jointly issued the "Implementation Plan for Children and Adolescent I amopular Myopia". In the "Implementation Plan", the content of the use of electronic products is mentioned at the school level and family level. Among them, schools are required to prohibit students from bringing electronic products into the classroom, and that families are required to control their children to use electronic products. The use of electronic products for non -learning purposes should not exceed 15 minutes, and the total per day should not exceed 1 hour.

Unreasonable use of electronic products will cause damage to the eyes, which is beyond doubt. But for elementary and middle school students, can electronic products be banned? For children who have experienced epidemic network lessons, have it rely on electronic products? Is it just a requirement for children? How can parents regulate the use time of electronic products this summer?

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Capable assistant to study

Learning English Daily Learning APP, training institutions publish pre -prepared information apps every day, and apps with famous books daily ... This year, Xiaoding's mother in the third grade of elementary school is calculated. 5. She believes that these apps are helpful for children's learning. For example, when she was a child, she was listening to tapes when she was learning English. Now the next app in the mobile phone, American English pronunciation standards are very convenient to learn.

"I get up every morning to learn English for about twenty minutes, and the recording and watching videos. Then there are about ten minutes to practice videos every day. It is about twenty minutes! Such a screen watch time at least an hour a day! "Said Xiaoding's mother. Xiao Ding's classmate Xiaocheng told reporters that the child used a tablet for more than two hours a day, especially after the summer vacation. "Our family has two tablets, one is used by children by themselves. It is equipped with learning APPs. The other us uses the children's favorite game software. Occasionally let him play for fifteen minutes. "

During the interview, the reporter found that there are not a few parents like Xiaoding and Xiaocheng's mother who took the initiative to screen for their children to help their children learn a variety of knowledge skills.

Understand the characteristics of the game

Reasonably formulate entertainment time

Food, food, and transportation, from online shopping to mobile payment, all reflect the convenience brought by Internet services to life. Therefore, it is unrealistic to completely prevent children's use of mobile phone tablets. From the "source control" what children can contact, it is indeed difficult for parents. Parents carefully choose the app for children to learn, and they seem to be "charm" of the game. During the interview, many parents said that concerns about electronic products, in addition to fear of children's vision, are more important to be afraid that they are addicted to playing games.

Behind each popular game, there are not only a group of top programmers, but also a group of top psychologists. Programmers design games, psychologists specifically researched the psychology of people. They deeply fused game entertainment and psychological needs, racking their brains to make you "addicted" ... All this makes it difficult for adults to resist, not to mention the willpower book What about a weak child?

Parents must walk into the child's heart and understand what the child uses mobile phones and obsessed with. Knowing the psychological needs of children, parents can help the child in a target in real life, and then let the child quit their mobile phone addiction.

At the same time, parents should understand the characteristics of the game and make reasonable entertainment time. Tell your child if the game is over and the agreed time is not used up, and the remaining time can be stored and used to use it next time; if the time cannot be estimated correctly, the next game time will be reduced accordingly.

Build a harmonious parent -child relationship

Reasonable regulations for Internet access time

"Before we say that children rely on their mobile phones, we can review ourselves to never leave the mobile phone at all times? Is it like I lost the soul as soon as I can't find a mobile phone. How much time is spent on the mobile phone? "Wang Xuehong, secretary general of the Dongying Psychology Society and professor of applied psychology. There is often a lazy parent behind the children who are addicted to mobile phones.

As Wang Xuehong said, many parents acknowledged in the interview that many times the mobile phone and tablets are "artifacts" to make children quiet. "Especially when going out for dinner or attending a party, the child will be troubled or sitting if you are not interested.

Wang Xuehong suggested that parents tell their children which can be played and which can not be contacted. For content that is not conducive to the growth of children, it is necessary to resolutely control. "Parents can formulate safe and healthy Internet norms and strictly abide by the rules." In addition, according to the children's different ages, the child's time to use electronic products must be controlled. If you cannot obey, you must accept appropriate punishment. Wang Xuehong believes that the child's online content is more important. The quality of the screen content, how it adapts to the lifestyle of your family, and how you and your child are involved.

In terms of reasonable use of electronic products, the role model of parents is important. If parents depend on their mobile phones, then for children, every day, they will inevitably become curious about their mobile phones and addicted to their mobile phones. "Parents are busy at work and often neglect to accompany their children. Children will feel lost because of this. I hope that parents should take out for a period of time as much as possible to accompany their children, care about the child's psychological state, communicate more, and communicate more." Wang Xuehong said, parents' support and support Accompaniment is the source of the child's growth on the way to grow. Parents can cultivate their children's ability to form excellent character and increase self -confidence. Arrangement of rich summer vacation can also help children reduce mobile phone addiction. She said that parents can use the holiday time to arrange some parent -child activities, can also take their children to travel, explore, and report a summer summer camp or creative class, which can help children reduce their addiction to mobile phones. "The mobile phone network is not terrible. As long as you master the scale, your mobile phone will become a good partner for children's life. You can also accompany your child to have a happy and meaningful holiday." Wang Xuehong said.

(Reporter Li Ling)

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