Eighty -eighty mother -in -law has taken care of mental disability daughter -in -law for 27 years

Zhuzhou Daily All Media Reporter/Yang Ru Correspondent/Wen Qin Tan Hongbing

In the early morning of June 13, outside the window, the sky was slightly shiny. Fengshu Group, Pionee Village, Leida Shi Town, Tianyuan District, an 83 -year -old man, wake up early as usual, and start a day of busyness: cleaning, laundering, preparing breakfast, and washing for daughter -in -law ... This is the elderly 27 Over the years, what to do every morning.

The old man is Tang Xuemei. She should have been able to support the years and enjoy the joy of heaven. With a kind and generous heart love, she has taken care of daughter -in -law with mental illness for 27 years.

My daughter -in -law has been sick since she was a child, and her life cannot take care of her own

In the early morning, Tang Xuemei, who was holding her back, made breakfast, came to the daughter -in -law's room, took out the clothes she was going to wear today, shouted, "Jin Mei (a pseudonym), got up, came out to brush, ready to eat ... "Jin Mei slowly responded:" Hmm! "

This is an unusual mother -in -law.

Two years ago, Tang Xuemei's 35 -year -old son, introduced by people, married 20 -year -old Jinmei as his wife. A few years later, Jin Mei gave birth to a child.

"I only know that she doesn't love to talk very much, and she doesn't find anything wrong." Tang Xuemei recalled that she did not know that her daughter -in -law had mental illness at that time.

It turned out that shortly after Jin Mei was born, she developed into mental disorders because she had meningitis and did not heal it in time. Later, she was diagnosed with a second level of mental disability, and her life could not take care of herself. Over time, the condition is becoming increasingly serious.

Over the years, Jinmei will not dress, take a bath, wash her hair, and do not do housework. Everything was carefully taken care of by Tang Xuemei.

Compared with Tang Xuemei's thin body, Jin Mei is relatively white and round. At the age of 47, she kept her short hair and sat at home most of the time. She didn't talk much. She looked no different from normal people.

According to Tang Xuemei's big daughter -in -law: "Over the years, her mother -in -law has been taking care of her meticulous. My mother -in -law wants to teach her to cook, hoping that she can do simple housework by herself. However, for more than 20 years, she still has not learned."

Although now, Jin Mei can't clean it up. She will not put laundry powder when washing clothes. She has to hold people when she goes out of vaccine ... but Tang Xuemei has never disliked her.

"Now that I am married, it is the people of our family who have never given up with her." Tang Xuemei said.

The old and weak family, the 83 -year -old man is the pillar of the pillar

At noon, the sun shines on the floor of Tang Xuemei's house. Shortly after eating, she couldn't take a break, moved a chair, and a pot of warm water, washing her hair for Jinmei.

Jinmei stood under the stairs and lowered her head. Tang Xuemei bent down, wet her hair with a towel, wiped it with shampoo and gently massaged. This picture is as warm as the sun.

Mother -in -law Tang Xuemei (right) washed her daughter -in -law. Zhuzhou Daily All Media Reporter/Yang Ru Photo

In addition to taking care of the daughter -in -law, the family and small things at home are also holding by Tang Xuemei alone.

"I don't do anything for a day, and the whole family has no food." Tang Xuemei admitted.

Tang Xuemei's husband, old and weak, and suffered from dizziness for many years; his son was more than 20 years ago, because the house was collapsed, his body was injured, leaving severe sequelae and could not engage in physical labor. In 2018, a car accident was caused, and the ankles of both legs were fractured, so that this family that was originally poor was worse. The expenses at home are funded by brothers and sisters at home. The house now lives is built by brothers and sisters.

For decades of hard work, Tang Xuemei's spine has been deformation, almost bent on his waist, and he has no money to heal.

The greatest worry: Who will take care of her after leaving?

The story of the mother -in -law and daughter -in -law spread widely in Pioneer Village. Everyone praised Tang Xuemei as a good mother -in -law.

In order to take care of the daughter -in -law, Tang Xuemei never came out of the door. Even if she walked a relative, she would make the daughter -in -law's meals in advance. On weekdays, she regularly replaces the sheets for her daughter -in -law; her grandson was born, and she was also big.

"Actually, no matter how hard and tired, I am not afraid. What I am most worried about is that after I leave, who will take care of my daughter -in -law?" This is a big stone that presses Tang Xuemei's heart.

Over the years, Tang Xuemei's body has deteriorated, and many things have not been unhappy. She is worried about what to do in the future life without a daughter -in -law who has no ability to take care of her own self -care?

She wanted to teach her daughter -in -law to cook and be able to take care of herself, but after more than 20 years, she was still in vain. In recent years, Jin Mei has also been used to her mother -in -law's care. Speaking of which, in the eyes of the mother -in -law, both the sorrow and helplessness.

Source: Zhuzhou Daily

Review: Luo Xiaoling

Edit: Chen Chen

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