Why is "old good" unpopular?

Around us, many people put the needs of others first, unwilling to cause trouble, and they were afraid of being dissatisfied with others. Because they care about the evaluation of others, they often cater to others, such as:

硬 always agrees with others, and promise others' requests

某 某 obviously disagreed with something, but rarely raised objections and automatically accepted the opinions of others.

到 When you feel uncomfortable about something, it is difficult to express your dissatisfaction

抛 I can’t say no because I am afraid of being abandoned or excluded

It is also more polite in Chinese, and will call this kind of person an old man or a good person, and it is always a good person. But in English, the vocabulary of such people is quite straightforward: Doormat, the original door pad. The word is like drinking a head -up, telling you: This kind of person is not a good person, but the door pads that are constantly trampled by others and are constantly used.

You may be puzzled, how can these good character be said to be a door pad with people?

The key is the interpersonal line: it is not good, but the lack of boundaries.

Want to know that you have a healthy psychological boundary?

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