Emotional analysts cheated money in the name of \"save love\".

In March of this year, her boyfriend proposed to Hu Shan to break up. Hu Shan didn't know who to tell, nor did he know how to recover.

When Hu Shan was the most helpless, a \"emotional master\" with a million fans in Douyin was willing to listen to her and say, \"You are not complicated, and you can recover in one month.\" Hu Shan grabbed the \"life -saving straw\" and immediately paid 6,000 yuan for consultation fee. At that time, Hu Shan didn't know that when she entered the \"broken love\", \"breakup\" and \"retention\" online, a hunting for her had started.

6000 yuan emotional consultation fee

Hu Shan's idea of \u200b\u200b\"recovering his ex -boyfriend\" appeared in her mind, she started Search for \"good medicine\" on the Internet. After she entered the information of \"how to save her boyfriend\" on Douyin, she seemed to find the love alliance -some people felt the same as her, and some taught the way to recover the predecessor.

\"Do you want to reunite after breaking up?\" \"How many ways to reconcile?\" Poke her heart.

\"Pymons a short video and a short video.\" Hu Shan, who failed to escape the algorithm, chose a big emotional big V with more than 1 million fans among many \"emotion masters\". Essence The personal profile of this big V shows that it is a national secondary psychological counselor, and it is treated with \"emotional unclear.\"

After Hu Shan added the WeChat signal published on this big V homepage, the other party quickly called, not only to help Hu Shan analyze the cause of the breakup, but also help her seek a compound method.

When the call is about to end, this big V reminds Hu Shan: \"There is not much time left for you now, we must recover in the correct way. Hundreds of cases, the compound rate is very high. But it is paid for the teacher to help you recover. \"

That night, after Hu Shan and this big V called, they quickly paid a 6,000 yuan consultation fee. Hu Shan is a kindergarten teacher with a monthly salary of more than 5,000 yuan. This consultation fee is higher than her monthly salary.

After paying a 6,000 yuan consultation fee, the emotional consulting service company where the big V is located established a \"Hu Shan Emotional Repair Group\" for Hu Shan, and the six instructors served her. This gives Hu Shan a feeling of being valued and has full confidence in recovering the relationship.

After half a month, Hu Shan discovered that the enthusiastic mentor had changed before. Hu Shan was anxious to save the relationship, but the instructor told her, \"Don't worry.\" In the WeChat group, the mentor sent Hu Shan's PPT of \"Variety of Variety\", asking her to learn and write a sense of post -feeling. The instructor also arranged two homework to Hu Shan: First, he insisted on sending a circle of friends every day, the purpose is to attract ex -boyfriendNote; second, write emotional diary every day.

The instructor also reminded Hu Shan that he had to send a circle of friends and communicating with his ex -boyfriend.

According to the mentor's method, Hu Shan persisted for half a month, but there was no effect. What makes Hu Shan more angry is that the instructor who promised to teach the communication skills of the handle is often not online when she needs it. \"Once my ex -boyfriend suddenly looked for me on WeChat. I wanted to follow the opinion of the mentor and reply, but after WeChat waited for a long time, none of the six mentors responded to me.\" Hu Shan was dissatisfied with this.

After paying the fee, the mentor's service attitude changed a lot, which made Hu Shan suddenly sober. \"Emotional recovery company not only cheated money, but also cheated our trust.\"

\"Big Data Play me\"

Emotional consultant urged Liu Na to pay in installments with credit products.

Liu Na was hunt. After Liu Na broke up with her boyfriend, Douyin, Xiaohongshu, Zhihu, etc. seemed to know that she was in love, and kept pushing her a way of recovery in love.

\"It seems like a person who has a terminally ill, wants to try all the recipes.\" 4 months after falling in love, Liu Na purchased the services of 3 emotional consulting companies, spent 1998 yuan and 2,000 yuan, respectively. And 7200 yuan.

\"I always feel that there is no effect because of less money, and companies that are expensive may be useful.\" Liu Na talked about why he bought emotional consulting services many times.

When purchasing the emotional consulting service of the third company, Liu Na hesitated because of the high price. The other party urged her, \"the longer the drag time, the greater the block.\" The other party also suggested that she can use online consumer credit products if there is no money at hand.

Liu Na purchased the services of 3 emotional consulting companies. Not only did she not restore love, but in the end her WeChat was also deleted by her ex -boyfriend.

After being aware of being deceived, Hu Shan and Liu Na began to seek a refund. These emotional counseling companies refused to refund the refund on the grounds of \"enjoying the curriculum service\".

After communicating with the merchant, the two complained to a consumer service platform. On this consumer service platform, Hu Shan discovered that 14 netizens complained to her the same company. The problems were \"false propaganda, no refund, overlord clause\". Liu Na searched on this consumer service platform through the \"emotion\" keywords that more than 3,000 netizens complained to emotional consultation invalid.

\"There is no secret on the Internet.\" Hu Shan lamented that the moment when the person who lost love entered the Internet on the Internet, a hunting for them had started.

Hu Shan introduced that on the platforms such as Baidu, Zhihu, Douban and WeChat, some \"emotional recovery\" marketing promotionPotless. Most of them are hidden in the so -called \"successful recovery\" story, or in some emotional self -media analysis articles, \"there are always a few words that can catch the heart of the lover.\"

\"How did Douyin know that I was in love?\" Liu Na also puzzled. Now, she pays a price of more than 10,000 yuan and answered her own puzzlement: \"Because of big data, I took me.\"

The reporter of the Yangtze River Daily interviewed 10 to buy emotional consulting companies services. Netizens. Of the 10 people, 6 people learned about emotional consulting services through Douyin, and 4 were learned through Baidu pop -up window advertisements. For the effect, only one of the 10 people thinks that emotional consulting services have helped themselves.

\"According to customer consumption capacity\"

The words of an emotional consulting company. Reporter Zhang Weinen

Not long ago, the reporter applied for an emotional consulting company during the unannounced visit. In the case that the reporter did not have any psychological counseling professional background, the person in charge of the company said that the reporter was very suitable for the company's \"emotional analyst\" position. \"After training, you can get the order soon.\"

The person in charge of the company also emphasized that this job is similar to a doctor, \"pay attention to actual combat\". It is also connected with the teacher. \"When communicating with the customer, you have a higher posture. You must call yourself the teacher and let the other party unconsciously respect you.\"

When the reporter proposed a monthly salary request of 5,000 yuan, the person in charge waved his hand and said, \"Low.\" He introduced that the company's monthly salary was 3,000 yuan. The monthly sales performance is less than 10,000 yuan, and the commission is 8%; the sales performance is more than 10,000 yuan, and the commission is 10%; the performance increases for each 10,000 yuan, the corresponding increase of 2%to 3%.

\"Just one month, there is a income of seven or eight thousand (dollars).\" Why can we get such a high income? The person in charge said, \"Because you have the right to pricing.\" The person in charge talked to the reporter and said: \"The company's curriculum price ranges from 4280 yuan to 19,800 yuan. You must learn to quote according to customer conditions.\"

\"Do you want to learn to quote according to customer conditions?\" Facing reporters In doubt, the person in charge said that if the student is just an ordinary college student, the minimum course charging is 4280 yuan is also expensive to him, then you will let him pay 2,000 yuan first. If the student is an international student, then you will lose the course of 4,000 yuan. After all, he has a monthly living expense of more than 4,000 yuan.

The person in charge also told reporters that the specific offer is not charged according to the emotional problems of the customer, but the quotation of the customer's consumption level.

When the reporter interviewed this emotional consulting company, a senior emotional mentor in the company gave reporters a discourse, which wrote different words on different emotional types.

For example, when the students are worried that emotional cannot be recovered, the teacher must emphasize: \"Your chat history is full of ignorance of the opposite sex, you must be invalid in the wrong way. Husbands and wives are good, we can't do it like you? \"

In a unannounced visit, the reporter also received a one -on -one professional training at the company. A senior emotional lecturer of this company explained to reporters: \"When communicating with trainees daily, we must give a tough tone to break the inherent cognition of the trainees and let him believe that only through your help can he recover his feelings.\" [123 ]

This emotional lecturer breaks the communication of communication into 8 steps, that is, the opening whiter, determining the demands of the trainees, understanding the situation of the trainees, negating the practitioner's practices, and desire to the students (Note: Let you have desire for emotional consultation), analyze), analyze), analyze) Questions, crisis (Note: Let you strongly feel that your emotions are in crisis, you must rely on their help to save feelings) and draw blueprints. Eight steps make anxiety students more fragile and finally pay for learning.

During the training, the emotional lecturer also gave reporters to \"support\": cannot promise to customers 100 % recovery. But it can be said that the teacher has been doing this business for more than ten years, helping hundreds of thousands of people to save feelings. If you can't help you, how can the teacher continue to do this.

\"Emotional Experts on the Flowing Line\"

WeChat articles retrieved with \"recovery\" as the keyword,, Some articles read as high as 100,000+.

During an unannounced visit to the reporter, according to the company's post requirements for emotional analysts, the reporter must talk to the students for more than 3 hours a day, or at least 3 students.

When the reporter communicated with the trainees, other colleagues and supervisors of the company could participate in the chat between reporters and trainees at any time to help reporters get orders.

The person in charge of the company encouraged the reporter to work hard: \"We have professional data companies to provide customer resources, the number of customers is constantly steadily, and all are effective customers that have been screened through big data.\"

\" In the emotional consulting company, anyone can be trained into a 'versatile and highly adaptable' pseudo -experts on the assembly line. \"Liu Haiping, a lecturer at the School of Foreign Languages \u200b\u200bof Shenzhen University of Technology, went to an emotional counseling company to investigate many times during his reading.

Liu Haiping mentioned in his research papers that after professional training, emotional consulting companies can quickly train a group of \"emotional experts on the assembly line\". These young consultants quickly went to work after experiencing a short training, convinced the \"invisible\" trainees and they were \"experts\".

Liu Haiping believes that the Chinese wedding consultation industry has exploded in the past 20 years. However, behind the rapid growth, the industry is uneven and chaotic.

In recent years, the police have detected a number of \"emotional recovery\" fraud cases. The identity of these \"emotional experts on the assembly line\" was also revealed.

In October 2020, the anti -electronic fraud class of the West Lake District Branch of the Wuhan Public Security Bureau cracked the first emotional counseling scam in Hubei Province, arrested 58 \"emotional consultants\", and seized more than 80 words. Essence The police handling the case revealed that these men and women who diagnosed their lives and pointers to others are mostly 20 or 30 years old. Many people have done cooking, auto repair, car workers, tour guides, etc. before, and are completely incompatible with psychological counseling.

In June 2021, the Shanghai police detected a new \"emotional recovery\" fraud case. He Cuifeng, an anti -fraud police officer of the Criminal Investigation Detachment of the Shanghai Public Security Bureau, participated in the interrogation of the case. During the interrogation, he found that as long as he was interested in sales, he could be recruited into this emotional recovery company. \"What experts are fake, some employees still have a criminal department, and even some people have divorced themselves.\"

\"Time is the best antidote\"

On an Internet complaint website, many netizens who buy emotional consulting services believe that The company is suspected of false propaganda and cannot solve the problem and requires a refund.

When she realized that she was deceived, Liu Na began to declare war on the algorithm. Liu Na often published the content of the issue of emotional recovery on the network platform, exposing such emotional recovery belonging to the pseudo -demand for artificial manufacturing. The industry is profitable, and there is a set of words to deal with customers' emotional problems. The real purpose of the speech is not to help customers save their predecessors, but to allow customers to pay continuously.

Liu Na also often leaves a message to discourage the lover not to sign up for the training of the emotional recovery company. She wrote a teachings for her purchase service and published on the Internet platform. I hope that when some netizens search for \"emotional consultation\" content, the algorithm can push her experience to users. In order to get out of the pain of getting out of love, Hu Shan started watching a large number of funny videos on the short video platform. Shan raised the algorithm information cocoon room for her lover, but went to another cocoon room built by the algorithm.

From intimacy to separation, falling in love is a painful process for anyone. Faced with the emotional dilemma of the lover, the emotional mentor for the purpose of sales will persuade you that \"recovery is only a method problem.\" As a professional psychological expert, Professor Yu Feng, director of the Department of Psychology of Wuhan University, splashed a pot of cold water to the lover: \"The strong twist is not sweet, and let it go when letting go.\"

Yu Feng admits that Many people want to talk about a love of \"willing to have a person's heart, white head\", but in real life, love is complicated. How to get out of the dilemma of falling in love is his first suggestion is \"not forced\". This world is not what I want to do, I have to think rationallyThen convince yourself to let go.

Yu Feng suggested that the lover re -open a new relationship, which is conducive to putting down the previous relationship. He introduced that there is a basic principle in psychology. Except for some particularly important events, other things on the psychological impact on people will generally recover within 3 months. \"\".

Yu Feng also suggested that the lover can participate in some positive activities. For example, debate with yourself and persuade yourself to let go. Or do more sports to secrete more dopamine and make yourself happier. If you can't get out, find a professional psychological counselor.

Yu Feng was worried about, \"For the emotional consulting company, the emotional counseling training on the assembly line teaches them not the psychological counseling method, but the marketing method. For those who seeks emotional help, Very bad. \"

(Hu Shan, Liu Na in the text)

Comment:

Lost is not terrible, the cost of \"loss\" is large

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(Zhang Weina, Chief Reporter of the Changjiang Daily)

[Edit: Hou Fangyu]

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