People reach middle -aged: make money, read books, be alone

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Time has passed too fast, and unknowingly, people are middle -aged.

In the past, when I talked about age, I would be anxious, anxious, and helpless.

After the world has become impermanent, I understand after the ups and downs of my life:

Middle -aged is the best time.

Without fear of youth when you are young, you have more delicate thoughts and deep thoughts;

It faded out of childishness, adding tall and perseverance that can resist the wind and rain.

When people reach middle age, make money, read, and be alone, your new Chinese chapter is slowly writing.

make money

When we were young, we regarded money as dung, and even laughed at parents who cared for a little money.

When people reach middle age, when they become the eagle hanging on the wings, they understand how important it is when they want to fly but not high.

The first month before the love of love, the oath of the mountain alliance, there is no money blessing, it seems very sincere and pure.

However, the marriage and family leave the material support. It is a plate of loose sand.

When youth is just right, you can look at the world's capital without worrying about it.

At that time, parents were often covered with rain.

But when he was old, his white hair quietly climbed up the horns, and their waist rods were no longer straight.

The bitterness of the years and the difficulty of life can only eat and boil.

Money is not all powerful. But without money, life is often difficult to do.

When I was young, I had a sense of spirit, but when I went to middle age, almost everyone had a sharp edge and lived as a parent.

It is not that you can't extricate yourself in the temptation of money, but that life will never leave a few shattered silver.

When people are middle -aged, they know how to make money and take money as one thing, it is the greatest soberness of a person.

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read

People often ask, what is the significance of reading?

When I was young, in order to have a good result, I would change my destiny in the future and make ahead.

But the more you go back, the more you experience, the more you will understand:

In addition to the self -improvement and skill upgrade visible to the naked eye, more importantly, when life enters the desperation and collapses, it becomes the light of redeeming itself.

I used to be a person who could fall asleep in a book in three minutes, and even when others saw it, I doubted whether others were pretending to be literary and swings.

But when I experienced the trough of life and felt that the world was not worth it. When I wanted to liberate the sinking, the book I picked up gave me a new life.

When I was trivial for life, the book said, "Except for life and death, the rest are abrasion";

When I was unpredictable, when I was injured by human nature, the book said, "I want to change the losses of others, and I am the god who changes myself."

I am not worth talking about the world. When complaining about the unfair fate, the book says, "The only one can save you, and others have no power."

When I haven't experienced anything, these words in the book are nonsense in my opinion.

But after the world is ups and downs, after seeing the warmth and warmth of the people, and then entering into the read, only the words of the words are all life.

It is the star fire in the darkness, the reliance when it is helpless, and the savior pill when the disease enters the cream.

Reading is for self -healing or self -reliance.

When it's okay, go to study.

Maybe at this moment, in the second of you read, the thing in the book is meaningless.

But one day in the future, it will definitely bring you something.

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Alone

Writer Xue Xiao Chan said:

"When people reach a certain age, they are recycled. At the end, three or two confidants, a cup of light tea, lived life as what they want."

Think about it, it is true. When we were young, we liked the friendship that was piled up and a group of feelings.

At that time, we were the most proud of people who met wherever we met, and everyone could talk to anyone and lived off a social cattle.

When I go to middle age, I have experienced the cold eyes and despair when I experienced the trough of life, and I felt the sadness and helplessness of the cool tea, and then I realized that I realized:

The loneliness in the crowd is the saddest.

In order to appear together, hide the true self, do things that do not like, and cater to the preferences of others, but get deeper contempt.

In order not to be criticized, he lost his time with meaningless gatherings, boring meals, lost himself, and made the clown of others, and the time was slippery quickly.

We were ashamed to be alone and imprisoned ourselves in the world of worldly eyes, and were forced to live as what others were looking forward to.

In the end, there is nothing.

"The Courage to Be Nova" said: "Some people hate life are free."

In this life, no matter what you do, you can't make everyone like it.

Instead of losing self in the pleasure and catering, it is better to be yourself in allowing someone to hate himself.

Broken meaningless society, abandon the inappropriate circle, leave more time to yourself, talk to himself in the same place, and live your own truth.

If you don't meet like -minded people, it is better to move forward alone and see the scenery you want to see.

The loneliness when a person is alone is a treasure, and the loneliness in a group of people is really lonely.

To be middle -aged and enjoying alone is the beginning of life and self -knowledge.

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Many times, we are afraid of the rapid replacement of years.

But in fact, while taking our youth cruelly, we also have the vision and perception that we have never had a youth in the growth of experience and experience.No one is always young, but always young.

When people are middle -aged and do what they should do, they can think of it.

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