A "new type of filial piety" is spreading, and it is too old than the old age, but many parents do not realize

There is such a line in the movie "I Wait at the End of Time":

"The greatest wish of the elderly is to hope that his children can spend one after another in this life, and then everything is good."

The rustic words said that the parents' hearts were in the heart of the sky.

Parents love their children are the most true, and blood and tears are integrated into their children.

But not every child, you can understand the good intentions of the parents.

In recent years, various "old" news events have been common.

Some people have the hard work of hard -earned money with their parents' hard -earned money.

Some people enjoy the gifts of their parents with peace of mind, but have never cherished and grateful.

But do you know?

Compared to the so -called "old", these three "new types are not filial" are more excessive, but many parents do not realize.

In the TV series "Family Secrets", there is such a scene that makes countless audiences angry.

Liu Guanghui asked his parents to buy a suite for him and the newly -married daughter -in -law, but the two olds of the Liu family felt that the children had worked, and it was understandable to help.

But if you buy a house directly, they can't get so much money for a while, and the other is not conducive to the children's independence, so they have no consent.

I didn't want to, but Liu Guanghui made a mix on the spot and asked his parents why he gave birth to him?

They accused them of raising him because of the moment of joy. At that time, there were obvious family planning. You could take safety measures. You can go to the hospital to solve him when he was three months pregnant.

Now that he chose to give birth to him, he had to be responsible for him to the end, and he should take out the old -age money to support him to buy a house.

The two olds of the Liu family heard that they were both angry and chilling, and the son with a hard -to -support, not only did he not be grateful, but he couldn't wait to squeeze them clean.

This is not Liu Guanghui's first trouble. For ten years, he always noisy to change his job and pursue new dreams. Every time he happened, he reached out to his parents for money as soon as possible.

Think of a word:

"The biggest disaster of a family is a child who has obedient."

Even if the parents paid more, their children did not know how to be grateful, but they just asked for it and regarded the young parents as a withdrawal machine.

Just like that comics that exploded the entire network:

Whether he was married or buying a car or buying a house, he did not hesitate to reach out to his parents, and his parents were supplying blood transfusion again and again.

Even in the process, the parents had been unable to support it several times, but the child had never moved over half a point.

In the end, the elderly parents finally fell exhausted.

Poor parents in the world, about no parents are willing to be wronged by their children, so they are willing to pay for all their dedication.

But no matter how many parents have, it is also a matter of parents.

The grace of raw and cultivation is no reason to report.

Unexpectedly, it is like a chronic poison, which corrodes the flesh and flesh.

You know, in this world, no one can be a long -lasting backing, even if he is a parent, he will leave one day.

The storms of life must be resisted by themselves. Only by being able to be independent can you travel in this world, and you can reassure your parents.

In the documentary program "What will you do", I have taken such a set of pictures:

An elderly mother made a request to her daughter to return to her hometown, but she didn't want her daughter to change her face instantly. She asked her mother: "Don't you help me bring the child? What should you do if you leave your baby?"

The mother explained to her daughter with patience:

"When you were born with a child, you are distressed by your mother, and come to help you.

But in the past two years, all my energy has been invested on the child's body, and my body is a little bit unbearable. "

The daughter did not understand, but continued to persuade her mother. The colleagues and friends around them were all parents who helped their children. Why is the mother so selfish?

In the end, even my mother said that when I need you now, you don't help me; wait for you to get old, don't expect me to give you the end of the elderly.

In the message area, netizens exploded, and they lamented that their parents were too difficult, not only to raise their children, but even the grandson became their responsibility.

In life, such things are not a small number.

Nowadays, the pace of life is getting faster and faster, and the burden on young people is getting heavier, so many parents will bring their children to bring their children after retirement.

But this is the mind of parents, not justified.

Not every parent has the ability to help the children, and some conditions are not allowed;

Some parents were hurting for this, and they were obviously exhausted. In the end, they were still critical by their children.

In CCTV's "Parents in the World", she interviewed an aunt who helped their children to bring their children. She said:

"Now the most distressed is that the views are different. For the education of children, we don't know where to be right.

Don't say it, I don't feel my responsibility, let's say that people don't listen to themselves uncomfortable. "

A few words, exhausted the sadness of the elderly.

Yes, there are inevitable differences between the educational concepts of the two generations, and the contradiction between friction is inevitable.

There are still many young parents, while enjoying the dedication of the elderly, while they are disgusted with their education methods?

Sometimes, the child just accidentally bumped, and blindly blamed the elderly.

I know that it is not easy to carry the burden of life, but why are the old people who have to take care of their grandson for children?

If you do n’t love the love, who would like to hurt the gods at the age of heaven? Those who are parents are the saddest thing: for the sake of their children, they have to look at the child's face for their children, and they live like a thin ice.

"Persuasion filial piety" wrote:

"People are not filial, they are worse than grass and wood."

Bai Shan filial piety is the first.

I have seen an incredible news.

In a small village in Wanzhou, Chongqing, the local villagers co -branded the four brothers to the court.

Because on the second day of the New Year, they let the 85 -year -old mother frozen at their doorstep.

The old man was called Xie Changrong. Since his wife died a few years ago, he took turns to live in four sons' houses.

However, the four sons disliked her old and used.

I abandoned her, and often pushed each other, regardless of her takeover time, regardless of her mother, regardless of her.

Even after receiving home, the life of the elderly is unsatisfactory.

The eldest son lived in a spacious building, but arranged for his mother to a shade of the earth. Even the lights of the lights on the lights needed the elderly to work hard to use a cane.

The daughter -in -law also said that she didn't want her mother -in -law to live in the building, but that she was not used to the door of the building, so she took the initiative to move to the earthen house.

The day before the old man left was the day when the boss and the fourth fourth were handed over.

According to the boss, he has told the fourth child in advance that some of the two days are not busy at home, so that the fourth day of the fourth night will be delivered again.

The fourth daughter -in -law said that he did not know, so he placed the old man at the door of his elder brother.

In fact, that place is not far from the second child and the third child, and they have heard the mourning of their mother.

But the brothers felt that they were not rotating by themselves. Why should they care about it?

In this way, after a overnight toss, the old man died at the door of the four sons.

It is said that raising children to prevent the elderly, can solve the mother -in -law who almost asked her life for her life.

The lamb still has the grace of kneeling milk, and the ebony also has the meaning of feeding. How can the people with flesh and blood be so ruthless?

Others are good for us. We all want to report to Peach. How can we lose our conscience and forget the kindness of our parents?

I agree with that sentence:

"Filial piety is the foundation of people, Yi is a gentleman."

Remember to raise love, often feel inspiring, and inherit the filial piety every day of his parents' life.

If you raise me young, I will raise you, and it is the beauty that will never be back in the world.

I have heard a word:

"Parents are a wall between us and the god of death."

When our parents are there, we rarely feel the suffering of life, because no matter what age we are, parents are always doing their best to cover the wind and rain for us.

Once our parents are gone, we have to face the storms of life, and no longer have the right to be a child.

When I was young, I always thought that when I came to the Japanese side, the more I grew up, the more I knew that the parents and children of this life had always been a Taoist question, and one day after a day.

No parent is born with no degeneration, but it is just for the sake of children.

Do not hurt the parents' hearts and cherish the parent -child relationship of this life.

Respect their wishes and not put pressure on them.

If you can help, you will be grateful; if you can't, don't be resentful.

More care, more patience, and consideration of their hard work.

Please believe that in terms of the parents of the world, the so -called filial piety is not necessarily a material thing.

A caring greetings, listening patiently, a little companionship, is the best filial piety.

Light [watching], I hope that the sincerity of each elderly can be cherished and responded. In his later years, he has no life in his later years.

Author | Su Yan, want to cure the desolation in your heart in words.

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