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What should I do if the pants zipper open? Fujiwara Miri in Japan invented a zipper and opened a reminder, and was also nicknamed the Social Dead Artifact by netizens. However, in this incident, it is embarrassing to see the zipper of others, and it seems that they are not very friendly to remind and not to remind them.

A study published in Harvard School published in Journal of Personality and Social Psychology shows that although it is embarrassing and embarrassed, people are more eager for these constructive opinions than you think.

In a pilot study in this study, only 2.6%of the trials told testers that he or her face had obvious stains.

In the formal study, the researchers designed five experiments and recruited a total of 1984 participants. In a study, the participants saw 10 embarrassing social occasions that they could give or accept constructive feedback in them. In another experiment, the participants were asked to recall that they could have given or received constructive feedback. In the final experiment, the participants were paired, one lecture on the competition, and the other was assigned to listen and provides constructive opinions on speech.

In all five experiments, the person responsible for the response has been underestimated the other party's desire for constructive feedback, and the more important the feedback (for example, tell the other party that they need to improve their speech skills), the more likely the participants will be underestimated. The less likely the feedback and suggestions for feedback, the lower the feedback needs.

The simple and effective way to overcome this point is to think about it, when the pants are opened, can someone want to remind themselves before the dying of a larger society? After a lecture task, do you want to get encouragement and eager to get improvement?

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Nicole Abi-Esber, Jennifer Abel, Francesca Gino, Juliana Schroeder. Just Letting You Know: Underestimating Others Desire for Constructive Feedback. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, March 24, 2022 DOI: 10.1037/pspi0000393

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