After watching a 17 -year -old boy who watched the work, he knew the biggest world that a child saw was a parent.

Author: insight allergy

Deciding where a person goes is what he can see.

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Not long ago, I have seen a factory interview with a reporter @Chin Chen.

In the interview, the boy Li Jia, born in 2005, was brought to a underwear town in Chendian, Shantou at the age of 7.

Since then, his life and bra have never been separated.

Parents and sisters work in the town's bras in the town;

The classmates who are in contact with each other, either open the bras or do the bras wholesale business;

Even his dog will go out of the corner from time to time.

At the age of 17, he was boring, and he seemed to stay in this underwear factory with his parents, and became the youngest employee in the factory.

Boys' work in the bras factory may be more or less weird to outsiders, but he has been used to it since he was a child.

After joining the job, the daily work content is very boring, that is, the production of ladies underwear, squeezing the head in a room full of heat and underwear during the day, repeating the movements in the hand like the machine next to it.

Sometimes work overtime and work for 11 hours a day, monotonous and boring, day after day, endless.

After doing it for a while, Li Jia said: "I used to feel boring reading, but I didn't expect to work more boring."

He wanted to escape and go outside to see, but what he could think of is the bras.

But the big bras are many rules and trouble.

In this way, he buried his best youth on the underwear flow line, and he could only brush the short video every day to watch the outside world.

Forgot to shout, forgot to resist, endure fatigue.

After seeing Li Jia, I realized that the biggest world that a child can see is actually a parent.

Parents are the first window for children to know the world.

What a child will have the eyes of the child from an early age.

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Remember the girl who reported on the parents?

At the age of 14, her father wanted her to make money early, and hid her admission notice and took her to work in a big city.

After working for three years, she began to force her blind date. Finally, after receiving a family 50,000 gift, she forced her to get married.

No matter how she resisted, her father was going to marry her.

In the end, the girl had to report the biological parents to the local women's federation.

Wu Zhihong once said: Parents are the fate of their children.

The parents' horizons are different, and the borders of their children's life are very different.

If it wasn't for his father's shortness, she could continue reading with her classmates at the age of 14.

If it wasn't for her father's anxiety, she would not be young at the age of 14 and eat the suffering of society.

Non not to be forced to marry for a minor for 17 years.

The more the parents' thinking, the shorter the vision, the more anxious the behavior, the more likely the child's life will cause a tragedy.

And because of the shallow eyes and insights, it is not uncommon to delay their children's life.

I know that some netizens share their own stories:

He is the only son in the family.

When I was in school, my mother asked him to stay in the city in order to see the child.

"One cry, two troubles, and three hangs", forcing him to learn the majors that he disliked and did not have a future.

It is really unhappy, but helplessly went to a city college.

After graduating, he also stayed with his parents, but did nothing, so that he found what he liked.

The heart is sore, and it is self -evident.

I really agree: the road under the child began with the parents.

If parents blindly ask their children with their own vision, the level of parents is likely to be the future ceiling of the child.

Don't let your "short -sightedness" become the wrong letter of your child's life.

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Some writers said: "Parents are short -sighted, the child is the frog sitting in the well; the parents have vision, and the child can sit in the sky to watch the well."

The vision of parents is really important for children.

Really good parents will not limit their children's future development because of the small profits in front of them.

Sean, at the age of 7, made an electronic design, a 12 -year -old programming, a shared software at the age of 14, and a 17 -year -old team for the international award ...

But you might have been difficult to think that such a shocking child comes from a small town in Guizhou -Xi Xi.

The news there is blocked, the source of confidence is single, and even a library does not have it, it is difficult to get exposed to the cutting -edge knowledge.

From the perspective of Sean's parents, only by having enough knowledge can Sean go out of the mountain and rewrite his life.

So Sean's parents spent most of the savings in the home, bought the first computer in the village for Sean, and used most of the monthly salary on the online fee.

Sean was very distressed that his parents spent so much money, but Sean's father said to him:

"There is no library here, your education can only be rely on the Internet. The times are different. I can't give it to you anymore." It depends on yourself. "

Through this network cable, Sean discovered that the world can be so vast.

Seeing the world with the children is actually handing over the future to their own hands, so that they will have more vision and ability to choose the life they want in the future.

After the college entrance examination, Sean chose the computer major of the Southwest Jiaotong University. Even in the top institution of the master Ruyun, he was not inferior to other classmates.

In my junior year, he joined forces to participate in the Intel Intel Cup embedded world competition, becoming the dark horse of the competition and the first place in the Asia -Pacific region. Looking back at his growth experience, Sean said with emotion:

"It was the Internet that made me, and the vision of my parents made me."

The child is like a small tree saplings. What kind of nutrients do the parents give him, and in the end he will grow.

There is such a sentence in "Little Prince":

"If you want to build a boat, do not encourage people to log in, allocate work, and issue orders, but to teach them to desire the endlessness of the sea."

As a parent, you let your child see how tall the world, where the child's life border can reach, and where you can go in life.

If you let your child look up at the top of the mountain, he is eager to climb; you only refer to the low -lying creek to the child, and he will not yearn for the sea.

04

I have read such a paragraph:

"He is not afraid of darkness, because you have taken him the brightest star on the dark night;

She has an opinion because the world you discovered her is much larger than the classroom;

He loved why, because you had already opened a curious door for him. "

The best education is actually eye education.

Parents who have visionary will never let their children have to be on their own. Instead, they will teach them to see the world and the world.

1. See the beauty of reading

Liang Qichao once said to the eldest son Liang Sicheng:

"You have learned too much. I am willing to learn more common sense in one or two years after graduation, especially a department in literature or humanities, and use a little more effort.

If a person wants to make friends, or reads the benefits, there must be a little aspect to have the opportunity to interchak or open the volume. "

Reading well is the way for children to watch the world, and parents are the best leaders.

Usually, we may wish to buy some books for children and read more with the children.

This can not only let children recognize the world, but also cultivate a good habit of reading.

Those books they have read will be internalized into a part of the child. Take the child to see the different scenery of life in life and understand the different realms of life.

2. See the broad and broad

Teacher Yin Jianli, a well -known children's expert, once said:

"If your parents have conditions, you should take your child as much as possible. Don't always feel that the child is still small.

Childhood is a special time. Each child is a pure original ecological world. It has mysterious potential and countless development possibilities. "

Seeing the world, it is not as superficial as a child traveling around the world.

As long as you are willing, whether it is nature, library, or even roadside, can become a place for children to "see the world".

Musk, founder of SpaceX, did not know what he liked when he was a child.

Until one day, the mother took him to the library.

When he read the science fiction "2001 Space Roaming", he found that the stars in the sky have infinite charm.

Since then, he made a decision: "You must understand how the universe runs."

Musk's life has also changed hugely.

Take a child to see the world, the location is not important, what is important is to gain.

A child can have a big heart to see the big heaven and earth.

3. See a hundred state of life

Someone in Zhihu: How important is it to see the world?

One of the answers is very interesting: "It will be particular, can be used, can enjoy the best, and be able to withstand the worst."

When parents are educating their children, they often pay attention to the best for their children, but ignore the children to bear some suffering.

A friend likes to take the child to the vegetable market. He feels that it can make the children truly feel what "life" is.

One day, in the noisy vegetable market, a 80 -year -old man set up a stall at the door to sell vegetables. The child saw it and took the initiative to pull him to the old grandma's stall.

At that moment, he was very pleased, because the child knew how to express his kindness.

Only when you have seen a hundred children, can you cherish the life you have more.

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Lu Jinbo once said:

"Don't give your children only a worldly, under the moment, and a small world. I have to show her the starry sky, ocean, dinosaurs, myths, and sages from an early age.

In this way, when he grew up, he had enough tolerance to tolerate all kinds of boring life. "

Deciding where a person finally goes is often how far his eyes can see.

When you bring your children to the vastness and magnificence of the natural world, he will not keep his longing for life and the circle in front of you.

When you bring your children to taste all the rotation and life, he will no longer easily regard the adversity in front of you as a long -lasting dilemma.

Like a praise and encourage your parents.

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