It's not worthy of paying a person, it's enough to see this.

I have heard a word:

"Appreciate a person, start with the face value, meet the character, and have been good for a long time, and finally the character."

A person is not worthy of paying sincerity, and eventually depends on his character.

Respecting people who are lower than your status are high -level education

A reader commented in the background and said, "Do you say that we drive a taxi and are easy to be looked down on?"

10 minutes ago, the master took a passenger who came to Shenzhen on business trips.

Because the passenger filed the wrong position, he went to another hotel. So the passenger sprinkled Quan Quan on the driver and yelled at the driver before getting off the car.

The decent business man, the real literacy was exposed in an instant.

There is a question on Zhihu: Why do you know that a person depends on his attitude towards strangers?

One answer is said:

Because strangers are not related to your interests, the attitude towards stakeholders depends on IQ and EQ, and the attitude towards the unrelated person depends on quality and cultivation.

After reading a story, an official took his son to the restaurant for dinner.

After waiting for a long time, the waiter took the menu up.

When he was served, he brought a table of other tables, and the official's son was annoyed.

He saw his father calm, so he asked, "Why don't you get angry with Dad?"

Officials said: "The waiter is not very old, and it looks very sparse. It should be a newcomer. If you arrive in a new post in the future, it will inevitably be sparse and even make mistakes."

What is the character of business men and officials, it is obvious that there are answers.

I remember that I have read a deep impression before:

"Judging a person's character, not looking at a person who treats his status higher than him, I see how he treats people lower than him."

Take it seriously.

I have seen a lot of so -called successful people, and they will wear colored glasses to see people because of a little grades.

But people who really have the ability do not like publicity and do not show up, but are even more humble.

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They know that there is heaven in the sky. Someone outside knows that there are wider world outside, and there are people who are better than themselves.

When you meet someone who is weaker than himself, he will not treat it differently and will respect it.

Those who have a pattern will not have an accountable gains and losses

When I was young, I was a very "atmospheric" person.

He helped him a little, and he would give back more help for others.

If others are good at him, he will return seven points of others.

He always said that it doesn't matter if you suffer a loss, don't just think about it cheap.

Once, one of his friends failed to do business, owed a debt, and had not returned to his hometown for three years.

There is only one old mother at home in my friend's house. At the beginning of the New Year, the surrounding neighbors will go to his house to send something to see the old man.

In the second year, only the uncle was still insisting on helping the elderly to buy chai oil and salt, it doesn't matter if they don't give money.

The neighbors all said he was stupid. It was a bottomless hole.

He didn't care, but he continued to be that good person without saying a word.

Many years later, the friend was developed, and a lot of projects were contracted. When there were good projects, friends always thought of him.

It was also at that time that I knew that I was not really stupid, but that he had vision and pattern.

Others said he was good and met a nobleman.

I don't think that he is lucky to say that he has saved his popularity and trust for himself.

It seems that it seems to be a good loss. It may not bring you a very direct benefit, but it will pave your unknown surprises at a certain moment of the future.

Buffett, a world -renowned investor in the world, once said:

"Whether in marriage or business, it is a big problem."

Buffett has always felt that doing good things can always be reported.

Even if you always think about it, most people know the grace. You do one thing for others, and others can do two things for you.

Those who do not care about care are people with a pattern in their hearts.

They will not just value the present, and will put their vision in the long run.

Knowing everything you do is your business card.

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Converge with people, focus on character

The girlfriend went on a blind date and the boy who came to the appointment was white and dressed quite.

In the meal, the boys repeatedly asked the cold to ask for warmth, and asked if the air conditioner temperature in the private room was appropriate, and also actively scalded the tableware.

This series of intimate and gentleman behaviors soon captured the favor of girlfriends.

On the way home, the boy talked about his "glorious history" casually.

The boys did sales, and once his performance was only one order from the first place.

The boy said proudly that he found the cleaning aunt downstairs, and flickered her to buy a very expensive insurance.

Although the person who bought the insurance he recommended was not good in family, he reversed his performance in half an hour.

When the boy was self -proud of his little cleverness, the girlfriend had already pulled him into the blacklist in his heart.

His business ability is indeed very strong, but a person who does not choose to achieve his own purpose must not be worthy of deep friends.

The choice of a person in the face of interests hides his most real character.

The bottom line and principles of the heart cannot be lost anyway.

Strong ability, of course, it is good to make money.

However, if it is for the gains and losses of personal interests, and abandon the most basic morality, even if his business ability is strong, his appearance is bright, and this person is not worthy of interacting.

Bacon once said: "The evaluation of a person, not seeing his wealth background, and even the high level of knowledge, but to look at his true character." In the short -term interaction, you may be by a person's appearance and knowledge Attract.

For a long time with others, you will pay more attention to the personality and character of the other party.

Only people with good character can get long -term appreciation and deserve your sincerity.

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Doing people and doing things, but ashamed

Lincoln said, "Character is like a tree, and his reputation is like a shade."

We often consider tree shade, but we don't know that trees are fundamental.

At first we were all white paper, pure and clean, not mixed with quality.

Later, he slowly grew up, experienced the sharpening of society, threw away innocence and simplicity, and gradually learned to wear masks and began to become smooth.

Faced with all kinds of interests and temptations, began to learn to disguise, and even lost some things that I care about before.

But I hope that you can always be sincere and kind, no matter where you go, how far you go, you will always be a person with a temperature.

We can have no high education, no high status, and no money.

But doing things must be worthy of doing things.

Because of your cleverness and talent, it is determined what you can get. And your character will determine where you can go.

If you agree, remember to light up "watching".

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