Extremely review | 36 -year -old woman upgrades to be a grandma, is it really good to blow her "winner in life"?

Ji Mu News commentator Qu Jing

A few days ago, a woman born in Nanyang, Henan released in 1986 posted a video saying that she was a young grandmother as a young age, which made her a little uncomfortable when she was 7 years old. The woman said that grandson and younger son can grow together Big, in the future, will also urge the children's parents to raise the baby well. (According to July 20th Hubei Network Radio and Television)

Judging from the performance in the woman's video, although she has always said that she is not very adaptable, and she is crying and laughing for her friends to ask her if she had a third child, but she could see that she could actually have a little show off. After all, people who are still single in the 30s in big cities abound, and she can already contain grandson, three generations of the same hall, and simply from the breeding people, it is indeed "winning numbness"!

(Picture source: screenshot of network video)

Unexpectedly, although many netizens were surprised by hugging her grandson so young, they also praised and envious of this premature fertility behavior. Some people say that she has completed the mission of life in advance, and then she can enjoy the blessings of the children and grandchildren; some people say that there must be early children, the earlier the less delaying her life plan; some people praise her as the winner of life, and they are all grandma. Looking at the same as young girl ...

Such a trendy admiration makes people feel worried, and I feel very worried. At the age of 36, she was calculated according to the maximum limit. The woman and her child had a child at the age of 18. They did not reach the legal marriage age, which means that they must be unmarried. And many young people at this age are still studying in high school, or just ascended to college. In the incident of giving birth, is it really appropriate?

From a legal perspective, it is illegal to give birth to children without registering to get married. It is easy for children to encounter various suspicion and discrimination in society. From the perspective of maternal and infant health, the ideal age of women's fertility is between 25 and 30 years old. Premature fertility affects uterine health, which will increase the risk of uterine lesions, accelerate bone calcification, induce a variety of diseases. Insufficient nutritional supply causes adverse effects on children and mothers.

(Picture source: screenshot of network video)

Moreover, the girl is an adult as a mother, and she is still childish. How can she guard the child's growth? Insufficient parental parenting knowledge may affect the growth and development of children because of improper care, and it is difficult to perform family education because of insufficient experience. This will adversely affect children's physical and mental development and values.

From this mother's early childbirth, and supporting her child early childbirth, we can see that this family lacks the correct and healthy concept of fertility, does not consider it as a cautious responsibility, or even proud of premature fertility, as if life only needs to be as long as life needs to be in life, as long as life only needs to be as long as life needs to be in life. The sooner you have a child, the more successful, the idea is obviously distorted and distorted.

Of course, some netizens will say that people are happy to have children. As long as there is no accident, it is the freedom of others. Indeed, from the perspective of respecting women's fertility, women do not have children and have children a few years old. People do not have the right to speak. Moreover, even if unmarried fertility violates the relevant provisions of the Marriage Law, in fact, as long as women have sexual sexual sexual sex The behavior is over 14 years old, there are no other criminal acts, and the law enforcement department rarely intervenes and punish such things too much. However, the widespread spread of this concept of "getting the more proud to give birth to a child" is widely spread through short videos, which has indeed promoted bad atmosphere and has a negative impact on minors.

(Picture source: screenshot of network video)

Sighing honestly, the woman was really lucky, did not damage her body because of premature fertility, and did not have much pressure to raise children. Her child grew up safely and became a mother again, so that she could be at 36 years old. Be happy to be grandma. But those who tout her as the winner of life may have to think about it. Is this really suitable for your life? Is this really a responsible behavior? Is this really the object of envy and imitation?

In 2018, various short video platforms were violently criticized by public opinion for pushing the "Girls Mom" ​​video. The regulatory authorities also shot in time to require the platform to clean up bad content and establish a minor protection system. The 36 -year -old grandma may not be as serious and harsh as "hype hype", but it is indeed not worthy of admiration and encouragement. The platform should be reviewed and restricted.

At present, the country has vigorously encouraged fertility, and has always advocated fertility and eugenics. Based on the responsibility of the next generation and a responsible attitude towards the future, you must not engage in "inner rolls" on the incident of fertility. It is "winner of life".

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