To give your child a "milk name" cautious: the following milk name is not good and hurt the baby's self -esteem, avoid

Now the child's milk name is strange.

When you give your child a name, there will be a lot of parents' thoughts. Whether the name is in line with the child's life, whether the name allows the child to make people look high, whether the name can show their own knowledge, and so on.

When they get the name of the milk, the parents have become much casual. There are all kinds of various, what kind of steamed buns, buns, buns, all of them, all of them are together!

Why does the child's milk name become so casual?

The milk name is not known, it is very privacy

The name of your milk will only spread between the family in a small range. When relatives see the child, they will basically not call the child's name. This seems very rusty. It will choose to call the child's milk name, which can enhance each other's intimacy.

But outside the family, no matter how kind relationship with the child is, it is difficult to know what the child’s milk name is. After all, the child’s milk name may be difficult to open up. Calling out will make him feel difficult. Naturally, you want to hide it. It's right.

And, when others know their milk name, will it cause more people to laugh at? After all, the children's interpretation of the name is different. In your eyes, the nice name is a laughingstock in the eyes of others.

Can be described as "cheap names and good feeding"

There is such a statement circulating between the elders: the cheap name is good to feed. Therefore, in the early years, the child's milk name is usually the three fat sons, dog leftovers, and so on. It is difficult to open up in front of us today.

The reason why there is such an idea is actually not groundless, but how can all parents who can give their children such a name pay more attention to children? Most of the time, children are the master, "self -annihilation", which is more likely to succeed in children who are over -protected by their parents.

To give your child a "milk name" cautious: the following milk name is not good and hurt the baby's self -esteem, avoid

Take the characteristics of the child as the milk name

Many children's milk names are taken from former disadvantages and small disadvantages. For example, if the child is born with fat, he is called fat/little fat. Because the body becomes very thin, the body does not like to eat, it is called a little black monkey. Although these names sound very appropriate in a short period of time, they will slowly become the psychological burden of children.

Because the child's growth is not fixed, whether it is the appearance or personality, it will change. If the child grows up and generous, how can it not have a sense of inferiority if you still have a fat name?

And, once others know such a milk name, will it prove that his former black history will be exposed? Obviously they are in an embarrassing situation. Therefore, parents must avoid such situations!

With the name of helping parents to realize their desires

In a family, parents who are prone to the thoughts of men and women or the thoughts of young women are prone to. When the gender of the first child is against their own wishes, parents will easily give them such milk names: Zhaoyi, Yingxuan.

As long as you are an adult, you will realize it after hearing such a name, and instantly know the real reason why parents take this name for their children. And the children know that the truth is also early or late, they will always have a day when they grow up!

Will they really worry about when they really know their parents' intentions? Make a corresponding psychological suggestion that his own existence does not recruit parents like, and parents want to have a boy! Life in the future will become careful, and the feeling of inferiority will spontaneously.

Taking the movie as the milk name

When parents are very obsessed with a movie or film and television works, they will be caught in the relevant plot that they cannot extricate themselves, such as the clown fish Nimo in the underwater mobilization, or the protagonist of monster Shrek. Because their role name is English, it seems even more distinctive.

But in fact, such a choice is not very good. On the one hand, the children's aesthetics and parents are different. The role that parents like them may not be liked by children. On the other hand, after knowing the Chinese meaning of the character, it should be difficult to accept who it is!

Summary today:

What do you think is not suitable for being selected as a child's milk name? Welcome to share your thoughts with us!

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