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After the CP written by my 40 -year -old sister, I burst into tears

Author:Xindi Time:2022.07.20

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Recently, I couldn't help but find some living adjustments -see the same humanities. Occasionally, write it yourself.

What is the same humanities?

To put it simply, it is an article that lets real people or characters fall in love in their fictional stories.

After mixing this circle, I observed some interesting phenomena:

Writers are very young, basically not more than 25 years old;

The article "Driving" is very popular, but most of the girls who write "driving" are mostly at the theoretical level;

... ...

Among them, I accidentally met a slightly special fan creator@猫其其, and made a frank dialogue.

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45 years old, single

Occupation: Management Consulting

Hobbies: Doujin writer, writing for 2 years

In talking to her, I realized that in our growth experience, we lacked sexual education, but also lack of education for love.

For example,@比比 mentioned that she has no sexual description in her humanities. In her opinion, young girls are keen on sexual descriptions and are a kind of sexual anxiety caused by the lack of long -term education.

For another example, all the love stories written by@再再 are ending in tragedy. She didn't know how to write happiness, "we seem to lack imagination about real happiness."

This is a conversation that trys to respond to women's confusion, struggle and desire.

I hope you will gain something after reading it.

Really, I wrote with humanities for so long, and for the first time I met her sister over 40 years old.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.

Do you know about humanities?

You know three or five people.

After all, my public image

It is a sense of reason, calm, morality, high looking, and wealthy life experience

Professional.

Are you afraid of "collapse"?

It's okay too.

Even if the leader saw the tattered stuff I wrote,

Nothing.

Then ... why did you start writing at this age?

Because the epidemic causes our business to be bad, I am a bit idle ...

If you want to say the reason,

I stumbled in the ideal of chasing literature,

Never died.

Of course, the direct reason was to reach a pair of life CP.

CP CP is really happy, I understand.

Happy, really happy. Black death.

One time, I wrote a long article,

At the end of the end, my cp hair sugar.

Suddenly, there was a feeling of my ideal that was "stunned" by reality. At that time, the whole person was crazy for two days, scratching the wall at home, and really scratching the wall. Then he started sweeping the floor and did all the housework in the family again to calm yourself down.

My CP was actually very unpopular, at the time ...

That, we communicate privately in private.

Talk about your "stumbling literary ideal" (serious face).

... Is it so serious?

Actually, I have tried a lot of paths in order to write novels,

Also reported to write class.

When writing class, the teacher said that there was no problem with the syllabus every time I made, but the novel always wrote a sigh of relief -the character image was not clear. "Teacher Cat, your scenery description is more emotional than the character description."

I reviewed it for a long time, which may be the negative impact of work. I am a management consultant, and you can understand how the capitalist cares about people. This job does not consider human nature, which has led me to abolish the ability to observe people.

But I found that writing with humanities helped me solve this problem.

How to say?

It is the character image of the two characters.

most of the time,

I don't even have to explain why they love each other.

So my first article was very smooth.

More than 3,000 words, finished in a day.

I was idle at that time, after the Spring Festival.

At that time, I was on the top, and I used the energy above,

Write a story about their fireworks together.

Have you finished writing to the Internet?

Send, register an account overnight.

Do you know that you are a 40+ sister?

I have not communicated with readers, and no one commented.

Very one -way output, just write it just for yourself.

(Can you see?)

Hahahahahahahahahahaha

Then ask, sister, do you write the text "driving"?

(Driving: Refers to the description of sexual related in the article.)

I never "drive".

I am a pure love writer.

It's not surprising. In fact, many young girls I have contacted when I wrote "driving".

This has something to do with the life experience of the writer.

To some extent, it is a kind of sexual anxiety.

They have reached the age of sensible and have no exit.

If you miss what you want.

For our age, sex is the same.

I have a friend, I wrote,

I said, isn't you forcing me to copy plagiarism?

Isn't writing some verbs and infrathing words?

And our understanding of "tension" is different.

I think the process before sleeping is tension,

After sleeping, the tension disappeared.

Adult men and women will feel ambiguous and more fun,

Children like to go straight to the theme.

(I was scolded ...)

Hahaha nothing.

Actually talk to you,

Reminds me of a literary comment I have seen before,

Analyze American romance novels.

It is mentioned that those novels will spend a lot of ink,

Go to greatly describe how a kiss is wonderful.

The implicit meaning is that this is a wonderful sex.

Maybe in reality,

There are fewer pleasures that women experience in sex.

For women,

Its real fun is not in instantaneous or process,

And lies in the care you feel.

Since you do n’t “drive”, are the stories you write, are you all bland and daily?

No, my "anti -daily" hobbies are deeply ingrained.

In my story,

Never involve the daily life of both of them.

This also surprised me. The young writers I know like to portray the daily life of their CP.

Yes, just like to write two people to cook, do housework, raise dogs,

There is a child or something.

Whoops, I really can't stand it, I have made for so many years,

Don't you know the annoying cooking?

Some are specific to the dishes, my God.

I have enough this life.

So if you want to cook two people every day, you will be awkward, right?

Yes, I think that's the matter,

Isn't this my father and my mother?

We instinctively know,

When a boy is in love with a girl,

What price this girl pays.

And the love in the vacuum, there is no trivial interference,

There is no business to settle down, no parents are sick,

No children's crying and changing diapers.

So in my story, the two of them had no trivial matters. This may be my rebellion of life.

"Rebellion of life" is interesting.

For example,

In winter, our home heating is not particularly hot.

During that time, the text I wrote,

My CP can not be enthusiastic like fire,

But their heating must be particularly hot.

This is also my rebellion of life.

Ah, this, you neither "drive" nor write daily life, what do you write?

Actually I thought about this problem.

I found that all the stories I wrote happened

In the same category -Journey.

Such as airports, hotels, and work.

It is a scene that unlucky social animals can imagine.

These scenarios have a benefit that it is out of reality.

It does not need to consider chai oil and salt,

It only needs to consider the destination.

Then I boldly guess, you should not love to read, or write "sweet pet text", right?

Actually I love to watch.

Intersection

Because life is very nonsense,

We want to see a bit of coolness, to be happy.

But what I think is the sweet pet,

First of all, we must be based on the adults of both parties, and the personality is equal.

And it can't be one side as the other side.

That is a parent -child relationship.

I was in charge of my mother for half a life, and I was enough.

Resolutely don't look at this.

So in comparison, I actually prefer "strong".

(Strong strong: a love mode,

Multi -point in love is strong and ability is equivalent. )

But the "strong" relationship is difficult to write,

Especially between men and women's emotional relationships.

why? Is it because in stereotypes, do n’t independent women need love?

Does independent women need love?

Of course she can need love.

However, when girls are strong,

Next we will answer another question,

What is the meaning of this man to her?

Judging from writing alone, this question is actually difficult to answer.

Because in the stereotype,

Still in social reality,

When a girl is in love,

If you don't write a little bird at all,

The plot seems difficult to progress.

This puts forward higher requirements for the writers.

It sounds like my sister reads countless texts.

No, there are preferences.

For example, I don't look at HE or write.

I am a deep enthusiast of BE aesthetics.

I don't bare the sweetness.

But one point must be admitted,

HE is more difficult to write than BE.

(BE: Bad Ending, refers to the ending of tragedy. He: Happy ending, refers to the ending of happiness and happiness.)

Really? Isn't BE more tension?

You write two people to be old,

It is difficult to write very moving.

Because this means,

You have to write what the "happiness" in your mind is.

But I think most people may be in reality,

None of the "happiness" we want.

We all lack imagination about "happiness",

So the writing is not very similar.

Therefore, if I understand it, you write the same humanities not just to engage in literary creation.

No matter what you write, or not, it is related to your emotional needs in real life, or the imagination of "happiness"?

Yes.

In fact, the more I write it later,

The more related to the two of them.

Especially the older one,

He is almost the incarnation of myself.

So is your cp you have a age difference, is it? (get the point)

Yes, 11 years old.

What I always like is such an emotional pattern:

Story between a elder and a young man,

And finally separate.

Psychologist Jung mentioned that this is a classic image of eternal teenager and smart elderly, representing a person's growth process. That is to say, when the teenager is young, he hopes to get from the old man; as he gets older, these two images will be integrated. What you are prohibited now is the image of the smart old man.

I have a lot of things that have not been accepted.

When I looked back at my younger, I suddenly found out,

40 -year -old can already accept me 20 years old.

So when I write the relationship between the two of them,

I am also annotating my own life,

I am middle -aged and I am shouting to young.

It is an explanation of the meaning of the same thing that year.

What happened at the age of 20?

I am 20 years old.

I always like my boy who doesn't like me enough,

Unilaterally falls into love.

Is it bad to love your brain?

Nor, it's just that I have seen a better relationship.

The 20 -year -old state is not good

It was a kind of fate for fish.

Output love fantasy unilaterally in the inappropriate person,

Everyone's burden is very heavy.

What is your expectation of love relationship?

My current boyfriend has been together for almost ten years,

He is a very few people who listen to me seriously.

But we didn't live together.

I don't accept another person in my life.

But I want to say that my friends around me feel that it is difficult to fall in love.

Where is it?

Difficulty ... Can't find a good man?

Actually I don’t quite understand recently,

What is the love everyone said.

I think love is an instinct driver,

But a lot of girls will make me feel,

How do you say ... there is no man in the eyes.

My friend works in West Erqi,

She asked me, where are men?

I said, Everywhere.

In fact, after I share your experience with the girls around, everyone is curious, why can you still be able to hack CP after 40 years old or write novels. These things remain so enthusiastic?

Or simpler, will you still be excited after 40 years old?

I can only say that after 40 years old,

Being able to distinguish yourself is a person crazy,

Still crazy about the situation of your brain supplement.

Generally speaking, the latter.

But I actually want to ask,

Why do you worry about after 40 years old,

Can't you feel excited?

Hahaha, sometimes we still go to another extreme, that is, too easy, and then start to reflect on whether our heartbeat is too cheap ...

How can you be cheap?

Emotions have never been right or wrong, no reason.

I have the last question to ask. Although we all joked, writing is for ourselves. But I can feel that writing the same humanities has brought you a lot of precious experience, right?