Lin Huiyin: People who are the same frequency are worthy of your rest of your life

You know my fragility,

I understand your sadness.

Author: LEYLA

Lin Huiyin once said:

Only those with the same mind can resonate with the tide of the world; only people with similar souls can see the beauty of each other in their hearts.

Really long -term feelings are not the joy of joy at first glance, but the same frequency of spiritual level.

People with different steps will eventually go in the sea.

Those who have the same frequency, no matter how the situation changes, can get along comfortably and stay with each other for a long time.

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Different frequencies, will eventually go away

In 1904, Lin Huiyin was born in a scholarly family in Lu Guanxiang, Hangzhou, Zhejiang.

His father, Lin Changmin, is a famous talent in the late Qing Dynasty.

He is good at poetry and work in calligraphy. He went to Japan to study in his early years. After returning to China, he was elected as Secretary -General of the Senate.

Lin Huiyin, who grew up in such an environment, is talented and graceful, and there are not a few pursuers.

The poet Xu Zhimo was one of the many suitors at the time.

In 1920, Lin Huiyin followed his father to visit London.

This year, Xu Zhimo also came to London to study.

When the two met each other, Xu Zhimo immediately was attracted by Lin Huiyin's outstanding temperament and talent.

As a result, there was a fierce pursuit of the people in front of me.

He wrote a deep poem in an attempt to impress the beauty of the beauty.

In all leisure time, he accompanied Lin Huiyin, hoping to be close to kiss.

However, as Cao Jiren said: "A poet, he lives in history, he is a fairy. If he lives upstairs, he is a lunatic."

Xu Zhimo's enthusiasm for love made Lin Huiyin rational.

Xu Zhimo did not love the real me at the beginning, but Lin Huiyin, which he imagined with the romantic emotions of the poet, and in fact I am not like that.

In Xu Zhimo's eyes, Lin Huiyin was a coward, a drop of water, and a cinnabar mole in his heart.

However, the real Lin Huiyin is an extremely calm and restrained person. There is a poem in her belly, and her ethics in her heart.

When she learned that Xu Zhimo had a wife's room, she not only decisively rejected the other party's love, but also advised the other party to have his current wife, which is his blessing, and should cherish it.

Two people with different frequencies can only be drifting away.

Throughout the many talents of the Republic of China, their love is persistent and blind.

For example, Zhang Ailing, such as Jiang Biwei, such as Xiao Hong.

They are not smart, nor are they lacking wisdom.

But they always entangled with people of different frequencies and eventually injured themselves.

Lin Huiyin was completely different.

She knew romance and crazy, and could not support the trivial of chai oil and salt at all, nor could she smooth the folds and dust of the years.

Different frequency feelings, the rhythm cannot be consistent, and the pace cannot be synchronized, which will only make each other more and more tired, so she chose to turn around.

Since then, the mountains are far away, and their respective treasures are a decent to each other.

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The most comfortable relationship is the same frequency resonance

Lin Huiyin's father, Lin Changmin and Liang Qichao, are friends.

He likes Liang Qichao's son Liang Sicheng.

Although Liang Sicheng was not tall, he was agile, with poems, and a gentleman.

As a result, the two met for the first time under the cooperation of parents.

At that time, Lin Huiyin, a teenage, wore light -colored half -sleeved short shirts, two small braids, and a pair of bright eyes was particularly energetic.

Liang Sicheng couldn't help but praise:

Such a vigorous, solid knowledge, humorous talk, and no fading and pretentiousness of rich children.

In the contact in one or two, the two gradually germinated their favor.

On May 7, 1923, the Beijing Student Parade, Liang Sicheng and his younger brother Liang Siyong drove a motorcycle to catch up with the parade, but an accident occurred on the way.

During the hospitalization, Lin Huiyin often visited and took care of Liang Sicheng. The relationship between the two quickly heated up and finally decided to entrust each other for life.

In 1924, the two young people were arranged by Liang Qichao to study at the University of Pennsylvania in the United States.

In the United States, Liang Sicheng asked, "What do you want to learn?"

Lin Huiyin replied: "Architecture."

Liang Sicheng was a little incredible: "How do a girl want to learn this?"

Lin Huiyin said: "There are so many good buildings in China, but there is no modern architectural science."

Under the influence of Lin Huiyin, Liang Sicheng also determined the only dream of this life -architecture.

While studying, they conducted field inspections on European architecture.

In early 1928, Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng returned to China and met a American couple during the journey.

In just a few days of getting along, the couple were deeply infected by the two of them. They admired:

Lin Huiyin is full of feelings, strong, powerful, eye -catching and joking, while Si Wen is full of sense of humor and happiness. (They) The damage or destruction of ancient public buildings, bridges, walls, shops and dwellings was deeply disappointed. The two together form a perfect combination ...

The height of the three views allows them to keep tacitly tacit in daily triviality and complement each other.

Liao Yimei said: "In this life, when he encounters love, he is not rare, and the rare thing is to encounter understanding."

The more people meet, the more you understand, the more you can be comfortable and comfortable with the people of the same frequency.

Your meaning outside of your words, TA knows it; your joy and sorrow, TA feels the same.

Two people are together without having to please.

With only one smile and one look, it can be better than thousands of words, so that each other is safe. 3

Those who understand you can be worthy of your rest of your life

Before Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin got married, Xu Zhimo appeared in the newspaper "The Notice of the Divorce of Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi" in the newspaper.

With this notice, he announced to Lin Huiyin that he was already single.

However, Lin Huiyin chose Liang Sicheng without hesitation.

Faced with Xu Zhimo's enthusiasm, Lin Huiyin looked extraordinarily reasonable:

Life is always praying for the success. I feel that good tea needs to be equipped with a good pot, good flowers need to be equipped with a good bottle, and the beauty is also a talent. I don't know, sometimes the shortage is a kind of beauty. Too exquisite, too perfect, but shocking.

She deeply understands that the love of the poet is fast and fast.

When the emotions dissipate, it is destined to be a sad end.

On the other hand, her husband Liang Sicheng did not have the poetic meaning of groaning in the moon, but there was a warm and warm water.

After returning from the United States in 1928, they went to Northeast University to create the Department of Architecture.

Later, Japan invaded China, and the two fled all the way to the southwest.

On the way, Lin Huiyin was stained with severe tuberculosis, and he couldn't afford to bed.

As a result, Liang Sicheng, who has always reached out to the meal, put down his body, and learned to infusion, injections, decoction, and disinfection.

Doctors say that tuberculosis needs isolation treatment, otherwise it will be prone to infection.

Liang Sicheng did not agree. He fed Lin Huiyin as usual, so he also stained tuberculosis.

Faced with the distress of relatives and friends around him, he said, "How can I lose her choice."

Zhang Ailing said: "Because of each other, I know."

The best feelings are not one person, but the two.

Knowing each other, the two -way pay is the best relationship.

Liang Sicheng is a chronic child. He is very good at learning, but he doesn't know how to do it.

In the time of escape, Lin Huiyin couldn't bear his husband's work and took the initiative to wash his hands to make soup for him.

She cooks carefully, laundry beds, educate her children, "Every day is walking in the horse lamp."

In the middle, Liang Sicheng was accidentally lost in the leather ruler of ancient buildings.

He was unhappy for this, and his work could only stagnate.

Lin Huiyin did not say a word, and quietly spent 23 yuan to buy a leather ruler for him, making him happy.

At that time, she had only 40 yuan for a month's teaching.

Think of a paragraph that Yang Lan once said:

The bond of marriage is not a child, not money, but about the common growth of the spirit. It is a partner relationship. At the most helpless and weak time, at the most frustrated and downward time, TA has your chin, straighten your backbone, order you to be strong, and accompany you around, and to suffer fate together. At that time, in addition to love between you, there was also the righteousness of liver and gallbladder, and the tacit understanding of abandonment, as well as the unforgettable kindness.

The so -called same frequency resonance is not just that the two can perceive each other.

It is also difficult to be the cane of the other party and support the fireworks under the eaves.

The best relationship between husband and wife is to understand my fragility, I understand your sadness.

Persevere, support each other, use the simplest companionship to give each other the longest warmth.

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Before marriage, Liang Sicheng asked Lin Huiyin:

Therefore, she used all the time of her life to prove that she had chosen the right person.

There is a saying, I only ask this time, and I won't ask again in the future. Why is it me?

Lin Huiyin said: "The answer is long, I have to answer it for a lifetime."

Between them, there is no promise of the mountain alliance, no romance in the previous month.

But it is this plain place that engraves the most moving love in the world.

Just like there is a saying:

Fate determines who we will meet, but the time will decide who will stay.

Those who have the same frequency can go all the way to walk all the way, walk through the high mountains and water, and watch the scenery in the world.

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