After seeing the 985 graduation civil servant who had been rejected 100 times, I realized the true meaning of seeing the word world.
Author:reader Time:2022.07.19
Blind the blind date of Zhejiang people's livelihood and leisure channel at station B, which made people open.
Xiao Zhang, a male guest who appeared in that period, graduated from a famous domestic university and was 30 years old. After passing the civil servant examination, he went to Chongqing and bought a house to settle.
At first glance, the guys have good conditions.
After introducing himself, he proposed the criteria for choosing a spouse:
First, we must have a mild personality and good at holding home.
Second, we must have a bachelor's degree, work stable, and hold a "iron rice bowl" like him.
Third, the natives of Chongqing are prioritized to live in the main urban area.
Fourth, parents have retirement benefits, and their families should be good.
According to the harsh requirements of Xiao Zhang, the program team really found a girl who met the conditions.
The female guest is Lianlian, 28 years old. She is a person in Shapingba and has a slender figure. She is a KTV manager. He has his own house, his parents do business, and the family is very good.
As soon as the two met, Xiao Zhang picked up the girl, saying that she was too thin, not his favorite type.
He prefers plump because "like that girl Wangfu".
Later, I suddenly talked about their previous blind date experience, saying that many girls had abandoned him as a foreigner, and talked about "now girls like to find the successful 'spot'. '".
He felt that the female guest must be the same, but the girl did not say anything except to introduce herself.
The host was afraid that the scene was embarrassing. If he interrupted Xiao Zhang, he suggested that he find a place to sit.
Xiao Zhang said, okay, go to Qianxiangmen Bridge and look at the scenery on the bridge.
Lian Lian was wearing high heels. To go to the long way to go, Xiao Zhang, a show for the show, bought a double -bottomed shoes for the female guests.
Xiao Zhang immediately refused: "If you don't go, let's go to the bench under the big tree next to the big tree and blow the cow."
Then he murmured: "Girls, aren't they all wearing high heels every day?"
Although the female guests were unhappy, they also accounted for them again.
However, when Xiao Zhang learned that Lianlian was working on KTV, his face pulled down again. It was not a serious person to abandon female guests and could not accept it.
He also said that he had had a stewardess before, and he was contempt in the same way, meaning "this service industry", which is not worthy of him.
The first female guest was ran away by him, and even the program group began to annoy him an inexplicable sense of superiority.
Seeing people gone, Xiao Zhang began to urge the next:
"A teacher contacted me before, saying that one of the female guests to meet today is formally prepared, did she come?"
After getting a positive answer, Xiao Zhang was very happy, but hesitated immediately.
Because it has reached dinner time, he was worried that he would invite the show group to eat, and the expenses were too great.
The show team said that they did not need it, they had working meals.
Xiao Zhang was completely relieved and said with a smile, "Let's see it." It means that he has money, and it doesn't matter.
As soon as the second female guest arrived, Xiao Zhang couldn't wait to check the account -style question:
"Which public institution did you work in? Is it a public examination? I am an undergraduate, which school do you are in Chongqing? Do your parents have pensions? Do you live in the city center?"
The girl answered "Yes, yes," Xiao Zhang is very satisfied.
At this time, it was raining, and the show team suggested that the two of them found a restaurant and dinner.
The girl pointed at the Japanese shop in front of her and said, "Or this one?"
Xiao Zhang immediately waved his hand: "Let's take a look and drink tea."
The two walked for a long time, Xiao Zhang couldn't settle down, and finally went back to this Japanese shop.
As soon as he sat down, he asked the waiter and asked the per capita consumption.
"The lowest per capita consumption is 150." As soon as the waiter's voice fell, Xiao Zhang stood up: "Let's go, I don't want to eat it here, it is not necessary."
Female guests are embarrassed, and they are not standing, nor are they sitting.
Xiao Zhang, who rushed to the door, asked the show group: "I want to figure out one thing. Is there a career establishment?"
The meaning of words, if not, will not want to waste money to eat.
The show team gave a positive answer again, and Xiao Zhang sat back and sat back.
Start ordered, the girl ordered only one, and then let Xiao Zhang look at the menu.
The waiter introduced the sashimi and seafood, Xiao Zhang pushed the menu directly, and repeatedly used the "OK, click" to interrupt the waiter, and on the grounds of shooting as a reason to blast her away.
The waiter explained embarrassing that they have not reached the minimum consumption.
Xiao Zhang had to continue to spend money when he heard it, and he was completely angry. He hurriedly questioned the show group:
"I asked this cost directly, is it you borne? I don't want to bear too much, but I may not be able to succeed."
The host behind the camera couldn't hold his temper, and he returned to him: "Even if you don't pay for it, our column or I personally will produce it. You said in front of the girl that this is too unsuitable and disrespectful."
Xiao Zhang was a showdown directly: "I have encountered a meal before."
In the meaning of words, he felt that this female guest came to cheat rice to get commission.
And also proposed 3 "powerful evidence":
First, he asked the female guest's parents without retirement. She hesitated for a minute before answering. Maybe the female guest was lying.
He was born in rural areas and did not want to find farmers without pensions. Raising four rural elderly people was not proportional to invest and return.
Second, he still did not believe that the female guest had a preparation, because he asked the other party three times that he did not answer.
Combined with the previous one, he speculated that the girl was a material woman from the poor. Unlike him, she was a wise man who settled in a big city and saw the world. Third, he felt that the show group and female guests were colluded and cheated him to spend together.
If not, why is the program team going to this road? Is there a expensive restaurant on the road? There must be strange one.
He reiterated that he not only graduated from a prestigious school, but also a civil servant. He looks good and has seen the world. He is a high -quality man selected by major blind dates sites.
The blind date has been more than 100 times, and in the end it has not been repaired. In the final analysis, the current women are too realistic and too material.
The female guest was so angry that she left 200 yuan and said, "I invite this meal."
Xiao Zhang seemed to catch her little braid and said proudly: "Look, suddenly give the money away, there must be a greasy, this girl is not easy."
As soon as the show was broadcast, netizens outside the screen were furious:
"This is called the object? This is precise poverty alleviation! This is called seeing the world? This is robbery while the fire!"
As the saying goes, the more lacking a person, the more you show off.
Because of their guilty conscience, they did not want to be looked down on, they used to cover themselves in a show off.
This small Zhang, from rural background, after settlement in the city, he looked down on farmers and regarded the elderly as his own burden.
After passing the public office, I felt that non -career girls were low in him and had a prejudice.
Self -proclaimed high quality, words and deeds are not polite, no education, and the snob is so powerful that you don't see the rabbit.
How can people who have seen the world be as narrow and narrow as him, and their hearts are shallow.
There is a saying: "The word advanced must be said by low -level people, and the so -called world is just another name of prejudice."
Those who really see the world are no matter what they have, they do not judge or criticize some people.
Even if you do not agree with a certain point of view or opinion, you will not think it is arrogant.
It is not arrogant at height, and it is not inferior to falling valley.
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The dialogue between Master Zhao and his mother, who knows the answer, is very classic.
When he was a child, his mother told him:
You live in the city, you will use elevators and computers to know where to enter the supermarket and checkout.
But some children live in the countryside, and they may have never seen or used these.
But they were divided into apple trees and pear trees, and they knew that grapes grew on the shelf, and peanued to the ground.
You haven't seen these things, you have never seen it.
You like comics, so you know a lot of cartoonists, have seen their works, and got a lot of new knowledge from the works.
However, some children like cars. They recognize the sign of each car on the road, and even know the principle of the car mobilization, and you can't even distinguish between the public and the Chevrolan.
You have gone to the mall in the country, so you can distinguish those foreign brands and understand the expensive bags and perfumes.
However, some children have never gone to the country, and they have not even appeared in the small village where they are.
But they know what season flowers are blooming, and they know the name of the flower.
They sang the ballad in hand and sniffed the fragrance of flowers, and you couldn't even distinguish the flavor and natural taste.
In some words, it is transparent and refreshing.
In the cultural tourism and environmental documentary "Ding Zhen's Natural Notes", one guest was Li Haoyuan, a lawyer who graduated from Renmin University of China.
The two met, Ding Zhen asked him: "Have you read a lot of books and go to school for many years?"
Li Haoyuan replied: "I have read for 17 years."
Because Ding Zhen, who had only been in elementary school in the family conditions, sighed a little envy: "Wow! 17 years, I haven't read the book."
Li Haoyuan did not show a sense of superiority, but instead used a sincerity, warming Ding Zhen:
"You have been in the forest for so long, and you are the same as me. You have read a lot of books on forests."
A person, don't understand something else that others don't understand. When you see something else that others have not seen, have some people who do not have, they will be high and treat all of them as taken for granted.
Those who have never seen the world are those who think they have seen the world and are high in the sky.
You know how mature the steak is the best, and the herders can distinguish which part of the meat from the beef at a glance.
You have seen the brilliant lights in the city, and children in the countryside look up are the vast and bright stars.
You can't let go of the newly bought bags. The workers in the factory know how to choose a good leather.
Just like netizens@就 就 ::
"Maybe when I was struggling with Dove or Ferrero, someone thought to it, is there any difference?
"Maybe when I drink red wine and eat ducks, some people want to drink any wine to eat, what kind of cheese and cheese.
"You have to ask me what I have seen in the world now. I think I don't express my picky about things, nor does it show ridicule when others express."
Picture source: panorama vision
The so -called world is every side of the world.
And everyone's different lives constitute every side of the world.
The environment is different, and the world is different.
The good in your eyes, the high -end you think, may be another look in the eyes of others.
The world is so big that no one is eligible to say that they have seen everything in the world.
Those with the superiority of breeding through comparison and pulling the breeding of the world is not the bonus of the world. Instead, it just proves how narrow people who use their shallow experiences to guess others at will.
You can't depreciate anyone, and only you who are degraded.
And the most appropriate sentence I can think of in the world is:
I have known Qian Kun, and I am still pitying the grass and green.
Pay attention to readers and encourage them together.
Author: I am Wang Er, Source: Mr. Wang Er (ID: Huangezishiba).Hello everyone, I am the king's ears, I do n’t know the astronomy, I do n’t know the geography, and I know some life fallacies in the middle.Follow [Mr. Wang Er] (ID: Huangezishiba), a middle -aged Boy, who couldn't help but shouted.
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